Do you accept the answer of "
some men just can't and won't have sex and relationships with women when they are in their 20's, they need to stack paper, and skills, knowledge and trade then when they become 30 the women will come to them."
That's acceptable to you?
It's telling men to give up or forgo their youthful years. That's stupid to me. I'd rather tell a cat to go to the bar every fukking weekend and twice during the week to practice talking to women, spitting at women, being in the same space as women, being around women so they (the men) can be comfortable, not goofy or creepy. I'd rather tell them to do that rather than all these abstract forms of "build yourself up!
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That's like when people say "start your own business." Well, what are the steps?
Goal setting needs to be specific, measurable. Achievable, realistic, time based.
If I tell a guy "go to xxx bar Wednesday night and Monday night" he knows when and where to go.
"Talk to 5 women, play pool with one, darts with another, buy a third a drink by the end of the night " he knows his objective, he knows what he has to achieve, the goals are achievable and realistic, he has to do it before the bar closes so it's time based. He gets valuable experience that can't be bought. He learns what works and what does work.
Is this guy telling you to go to college? To graduate? To go to grad school? To invest in stocks? Start a business? Buy a nice car? Own a house? Earn a certain income? To work out?
What are the specific parameters that's going attract broads? What's going to make a 22 year old broad who doesn't give a fukk about life but looks good and wants to have a good time tonight or for a while want to choose at 32 year old guy rather than another 22 year old guy who is in the same position as her?