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What are the specific parameters that's going attract broads? What's going to make a 22 year old broad who doesn't give a fukk about life but looks good and wants to have a good time tonight or for a while want to choose at 32 year old guy rather than another 22 year old guy who is in the same position as her?
And in this me too era, is smashing a random chick who could ruin your life even worth it? What is the purpose of seeking out that validation, and is it worth the risk? Brehs need to ask "why am I doing this" and come up with some honest answers. That's the true path to finding purpose. Cut out the bullshyt and get to business. Any fun worth having will follow.
 

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And in this me too era, is smashing a random chick who could ruin your life even worth it?

This me too era is for white folk. I'm black. I've always been consciously aware of going out with chicks and having sex with randoms coming back to haunt me. I've always remained meticulous.

I've even been called prude or lame cause one broad I was messing with was like "noooo....stoooooppp....dooooont...dooont do that...." Then was like "just cause I say that don't mean I mean it...."

My entire game was different from my friends that were white, black, Filipino, Hispanic, Asian...I was never the dude that sees a girl at a party and kind of isolates her by taking her to a corner or a "quieter area" to talk or whatever.

That's just the way it was.

I never had to ask for it. And a majority of the time I made her make the first move of engagement. She kiss me, she take her own top or pants off, she pull my dikk out. Even in texts I never initiated the sex talk. Even in notes in class I never wrote explicit shyt but had notes from girls talking about fukking and sucking.
 

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The last line more than anything is what most young brehs should take heed of.

TBH what this passage is saying becomes obvious to most men by the time they're 25.
i'm also against shaming women who get pregnant early in life which is what that post is doing, but that's just me.
 

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I agree wholeheartedly as a man in his 30s. But there’s a time limit for us too. As a man you should be tied down before your 40th birthday or else you run the risk of being the old nikka. Plus you don’t want to be a senior citizen when you have your kids. Now if you rich/extremely wealthy, you can do whatever. You can be a playboy forever but regular cats need to rein it in at some point. So basically, women have from 18-27ish to live life care free in their prime. Men have from 27-38ish.
What if you end up getting a divorce after 38 :ohhh:
 

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I know ambitious young men still building themselves and they have regular relationships with fine women. It's not an either or situation. It's a balance. All work and no play will get u no play

If you dress nice, are working on yourself and have game there is no reason you can't hook attractive women in your 20s.

U know how many attractive women are around? U think every hot girl in college is sleeping with 30+yr old men?

Stop thinking women are something you'll easily get once u get more money or age. There's regular 20+ yr old guys with hot women that don't think it's a big deal. But u want to wait till u get that job, that nice car, that big place before u talk to her in confidence.

But u coulda had that confidence on your way up and bag as well on your way up but hey have it your way. Wait till your 30 let her have fun then u can earn her when ur ready and she's done having fun

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Willingly seeking out bullshyt to sift for knowledge is like eating a shyt sandwich for the corn kernels. Seems like a waste of time to me but do you
What did I seek out? I read some shyt that happened to be posted here. Just like you :pachaha:

Stay focused breh. You’re lacking reading comprehension.
 

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Do you accept the answer of "some men just can't and won't have sex and relationships with women when they are in their 20's, they need to stack paper, and skills, knowledge and trade then when they become 30 the women will come to them."

That's acceptable to you?

It's telling men to give up or forgo their youthful years. That's stupid to me. I'd rather tell a cat to go to the bar every fukking weekend and twice during the week to practice talking to women, spitting at women, being in the same space as women, being around women so they (the men) can be comfortable, not goofy or creepy. I'd rather tell them to do that rather than all these abstract forms of "build yourself up! :salute:"

That's like when people say "start your own business." Well, what are the steps?

Goal setting needs to be specific, measurable. Achievable, realistic, time based.

If I tell a guy "go to xxx bar Wednesday night and Monday night" he knows when and where to go.

"Talk to 5 women, play pool with one, darts with another, buy a third a drink by the end of the night " he knows his objective, he knows what he has to achieve, the goals are achievable and realistic, he has to do it before the bar closes so it's time based. He gets valuable experience that can't be bought. He learns what works and what does work.

Is this guy telling you to go to college? To graduate? To go to grad school? To invest in stocks? Start a business? Buy a nice car? Own a house? Earn a certain income? To work out?

What are the specific parameters that's going attract broads? What's going to make a 22 year old broad who doesn't give a fukk about life but looks good and wants to have a good time tonight or for a while want to choose at 32 year old guy rather than another 22 year old guy who is in the same position as her?
I agree with only this part. I don’t think p*ssy will suddenly fall in your lap once you hit 30 and got bread.
 

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I agree with only this part. I don’t think p*ssy will suddenly fall in your lap once you hit 30 and got bread.

Ok so that's an acceptable answer to you.

So who are the people or what is the criteria for the men who just won't or can't get p*ssy?

Cause when I hear that I'm thinking about a young breh asking me directly and I can't fathom saying "don't worry about it, focus on you and when you're older then worry about it."

I'd tell a breh how to approach women, how to dress, work out, etc, tangible things he can do today to get him toward his goal.
 

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Ok so that's an acceptable answer to you.

So who are the people or what is the criteria for the men who just won't or can't get p*ssy?

Cause when I hear that I'm thinking about a young breh asking me directly and I can't fathom saying "don't worry about it, focus on you and when you're older then worry about it."

I'd tell a breh how to approach women, how to dress, work out, etc, tangible things he can do today to get him toward his goal.
only the bolded.

You’re right. Gotta crawl before you walk.
 

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This is gospel, when I clocked that these hoes are far more insecure in themselves than I am/was, I started being a lil more brazen in my dealings with em. Most times brehs be shook of these chicks thinking they aint worthy enough not knowing these chicks feel the same but worse. I see it Especially with these lightskin chicks brehs gas over :russ:that be taking a million and one selfies, they aint doing it because they confident, its they seeking validation as they dont feel worthy and have low self esteem. Thing is these lightskin hoes know that brehs will :bow: so they have this air of confidence and stick their noses up at brehs but deep inside its a facade.

Brehs just gotta have some courage and will find it aint all that hard.


so you really did smash that amirahdyme chick?:ohhh::ohhh::ohhh:
 
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