I have a rant...about women

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

IMO women who complain about not having a man is usually at the point where she sees her value decreasing and notices she doesn't get the attention she used to. On the flipside (not all cases), I don't hear it as much when they are still getting their fair share of attention. A combination of social media, propaganda through music and movies, and these messages being passed on in person has really mind-fycked a lot of people. Men are included but the most damage is with women.

I can see that. They want that old thing back.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Well then fukk Men thing is a perception.

hell you probably think of me as some hurt Red Pilled Kevin Samuels acolyte.

But again the point stands people in general want what they can’t have

and people especially women lie to themselves what being in a relationship means.

I’m in my aunt’s apartment right now and I can’t stand it.

It’s not that she’s doing anything but living in my own place for so long it’s jarring to have to accomodate other people.

That’s what being married is like. But humans want companionship and sex so that’s why you’re living apart together thing could work.

But the other problem is most women want dudes to pay bills and listen to their bullshyt so most women will demand that a nikka be in the same house so that they can be nagged to pay bills or listen to whatever feels she happens to have.

I think I actually agree with you.

at the aunt part

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

QFE

Sums it up right here

Women are too busy in competition with other women

To do the things that actually attract men ..

OP maybe you can help the women around you understand this

Oh no I don't care if they get a man or not. I just want them to stay out of my DMs with it.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I think in general the problem is the sense of entitlement people have. People feel like they deserve to be happy, to be successful, etc. I think it goes beyond women. It's a generalized thing in western society. It's just that women probably use social media more than men.

Also, OP might be stuck in a bad algorithm. Maybe check if there is a way to reset your algorithm.

The first woman was just some random thing that popped up. I just made a random (and reasonable IMO) comment and all hell broke loose.

The second chick is someone I follow. She normally posts stuff about her business. But reserves the love "vision" board just for me.

She’s correct and realistic.

And we need more Black babies in America specially FBA kids.

Which one?

The one saying that she should be able to have as many children as she wants and the community should foot the bill or the one who thinks being skinny will get her a man who will pay her bills?

can someone (who isn't risk adverse and has a thick skin plus tons of patience) wife this miserable woman already?

Oh you're still mad about that weirdo comment huh? You're still a fukking weirdo FYI.

Your friend is lonely, but needs to find peace in her loneliness. She needs to find peace within herself and in her life. Then, the desperation will subside and she can date with a clear mind and open heart.

Desperation can lead one into hell relationships and situationships. She's gotta overcome that first. The peace will come soon after. Cut out toxicity and BS that does not serve her or her goals. Doing so will clear the mind in a way she never thought possible.

Once she reaches this point, dating will get easier... A LOT easier. And fun! But she's gotta start with herself. Your mental/emotional health is everything in dating. It's where Coli brehs lose all the time.

Best comment in the thread. Rep

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

On wow 7 pages... let's see if ya'll are discussing the topic or discussing me

About 50/50

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Social media and reality tv have warped peoples minds. everybody chasing an illusion

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Like some of us can't read between the lines of your posts... To answer, not every woman wants to push men away and munch on carpet...You misandrists actually make this situation worse for them because as yall announce how much you want to "stick it to men" on this here internet (and get thousands of likes), men are pulling back and not centering women as much and those women that aren't with that misandrist program are being affected.

Like I said before, ya'll see what you wanna see. When have I ever promoted "munching carpet" or "sticking it to ya'll".

I don't even bother remembering most of ya'll screenname. Let alone putting any sort of additional energy into your existence.

There is a reason I have never been accused of doxxing or stalking one of ya'll like ya'll do me.

I don't give a flying fukk about ya'll. This just some shyt to do when I'm bored.

You just need the world to revolve around your weird ego or you become a victim.

More social media stuff..

Why not have conversations with ACTUAL women like the ones you meet at the workplace?

I guarantee you the outcome will be different

One of my former coworkers is currently in jail for trying to oppressively control her BD and eventually tried to stab him.



Yup definitely a different outcome.

Come on now, who would outright say that on a forum full of men? You tend to be slick with it, but you aren't as slick as you think you are. I notice you have a pattern of dapping posts about women wronging men and you always got excuses for terrible women. I tend to defend black men's image hard but If a ninja is wrong in their dealings with a women, I'm not going to support that. You tend to have no balance and got this feminist undertone to your posts while always trying to slickly sh!t on men.

I mean according to ya'll I'm this huge man hater but ya'll can't produce a single post of me outright condemning men. That’s funny.

Ya'll just feel like a personal choice I have made doesn't serve you so you wanna pretend like it means more than it does.

I can't help ya'll sensitive and shyt.

And these women out here seem desperate to yall?

They seem more rude, arrogant, and superficial to me.

I mean I'm interested it ya'll prospective. I don't date women.

So this thread, judging by the responses, is really about OP's search for a man, and this supposed “friend” is really a metaphor for herself ?

If I wanted a man I'd respond to all the DMs these nikkas send lol

Aren't you 40, OP? Why are your friends so fukking childish?

The first woman is a random on the internet. The second person is an associate. I never said they were friends sir.

2nd point, nikkas be thirsty point blank period. So if she sending bat signals on social media nikkas biting. Just not the dudes she interested in. I’m sure her big head little body ass ignoring all type of dudes

Most women are damn near mentally ill with their unrealistic expectations in relationships maybe it’s because of social media idk. Men for the most part if they sane and just doing okay in life they can find somebody to settle down with. If u ever came across them “can’t find a man or can’t find a good man “women they are literally damn near mental ill. They got so many issues that idk where to even start.

And women always been kind of sorta desperate for attention from men..all that thirst trapping and bbl-ing is to attract men. Maybe they only trying to attract a specific 15% of men but for sure they trying to attract men. All them IG chicks with high followers are just hoping to get chose by a High value dude at end of the day.

For the record, the chick has probably been on 4X the dates I have been on. She dates heavily. I think she hasn't achieved her goal for other reasons, but it's not because she isn't giving men a chance.

I hear you on the second paragraph.

All imma say is misery loves company. OP’s post is signed sealed proof. Fellas, if you meet a woman that has friends that are in the “all men bad, girl power” mindset do not expect her to be any different.

If you and your lady are going through a rough patch and she has a friend/s like op just know you’re on borrowed time.

Right god forbid there is someone in her life that doesn't tell her to stay with you regardless of what you do...we wouldn't want that. Lol

And I did NOT tell that woman to leave her man. Where did you even get that from?
Ya'll are such liars. Lol You literally just make shyt up.

I told her I wouldn't fund her broke ass household and she tried to shame me for it.

 

[Redwood]

Women value men more than social media says it does and it's starting to show because more women are starting to clap back at the 'indendent women and free lancers' fukking it up for them.

Is it genuine love or desperation though?

 

[Gloxina]

Well then you can see what's happening. Women that actually want some kind of stability with your average man are rebelling against the witch coven that tells them do nothing and expect everything.

Hopefully more relationships will land in the middle this generation. Sad to say but alot of these dumb ass dudes don't know what to do with a woman who's going to take care of them on that level.

I told brehs to hold tight like 1-2 years ago because the pushback would eventually come.

Normal, healthy women who want normal, healthy relationships are, in fact, starting to speak up.



Again, the ppl in the healthiest unions are NOT on social media. They don’t talk about their relationship because they understand the importance of privacy and know how toxic social media is.

Men who treat their women well are called “simps” and women who treat their man well are called “pick mes”.



If I have a man who is going above and beyond for our household, TF do I look like complaining about cooking and cleaning a house?


I’m not entertaining a man who can’t handle business, because my default is to perform for that type of man. And as I said before, if I can’t attract the right type of guy after my family did their job, then that’s on me and it’s in my best interest to remain single.


My life will be exponentially worse if I bare a child for a man who doesn’t have a plan and cannot execute. So if I attract that type of man, yes, he’s better than the others and I need to show him that and do “my part”. And if he’s chosen me then there’s something about me that’s better than his other options, and he shows me that by making my life easier, better than it was without him.


There’s give and take in the dance between man and woman.


So chica, what you’re saying about the desperate women is true, but the goal is to have enough self worth and awareness of the realities of life to not place oneself in that type of relationship. And enough common sense to not enable those couples/people.


I personally don’t know any woman who would open up her purse to give money to a married woman who is making irresponsible decisions with her husband (i.e. having kids they can’t afford).

This chick you’re talking about…she’s crazy, but rest assured most Black women ain’t pulling out our money for no shyt like that.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Like I said before, ya'll see what you wanna see. When have I ever promoted "munching carpet" or "sticking it to ya'll".

I don't even bother remembering most of ya'll screenname. Let alone putting any sort of additional energy into your existence.

There is a reason I have never been accused of doxxing or stalking one of ya'll like ya'll do me.

I don't give a flying fukk about ya'll. This just some shyt to do when I'm bored.

You just need the world to revolve around your weird ego or you become a victim.



One of my former coworkers is currently in jail for trying to oppressively control her BD and eventually tried to stab him.



Yup definitely a different outcome.



I mean according to ya'll I'm this huge man hater but ya'll can't produce a single post of me outright condemning men. That’s funny.

Ya'll just feel like a personal choice I have made doesn't serve you so you wanna pretend like it means more than it does.

I can't help ya'll sensitive and shyt.



I mean I'm interested it ya'll prospective. I don't date women.



If I wanted a man I'd respond to all the DMs these nikkas send lol



The first woman is a random on the internet. The second person is an associate. I never said they were friends sir.



For the record, the chick has probably been on 4X the dates I have been on. She dates heavily. I think she hasn't achieved her goal for other reasons, but it's not because she isn't giving men a chance.

I hear you on the second paragraph.



Right god forbid there is someone in her life that doesn't tell her to stay with you regardless of what you do...we wouldn't want that. Lol

And I did NOT tell that woman to leave her man. Where did you even get that from?
Ya'll are such liars. Lol You literally just make shyt up.

I told her I wouldn't fund her broke ass household and she tried to shame me for it.

Well desperate is not something I see too much from them in my perspective… Americanized women at least

The culture is cooked for real.

Maybe at work with the older single women, but that is rare af compared to whats actually left out here.

To me, from what I’ve seen at least.

 

[feelosofer]

Is it genuine love or desperation though?

Human beings need social interaction, companionship and love but if it's something that you (not you personally of course) don't get; you long for it and maybe get a bit desperate, then maybe after the coping begins.

 

[Redwood]

Human beings need social interaction, companionship and love but if it's something that you (not you personally of course) don't get; you long for it and maybe get a bit desperate, then maybe after the coping begins.

I'd rather be loveless than lovelorn

 

[Brolic]

Aren't you 40, OP? Why are your friends so fukking childish?

Birds of a feather…

 

[alpo]

What stood out about your rant was these incidents all played out over social media DM s, Live, posts etc. Social Media has raised a certain generation of women and men hence a lot of the issues that plague society.
What's occurring IMO is a shift in society when it comes to being in relationships and with wanting women. First, y'all all look and act alike. Wigs, eyelashes, entitled and bad attitudes to name a few characteristics. It's so bad nikkas spray OFF on themselves to keep these predators away from them.
I don't think women are desperate because the shyt they do to themselves like BBLs, wigs , eyelashes, n always posting eating seafood boils is to stunt and flex on the next bytch and other bytches. nikkas don't like none of that. So the desperate shyt you think females are doing are not the things nikkas want or try to wife.

Nikka you just mad because Tantia not acting right with you. I swear you nikkas stay thinking them hood-rats are all black women. I can tell you dusty as hell

 

[Gloxina]

Is it genuine love or desperation though?

It’s genuine.

Y’all have got to remember that normal people with actual healthy families, friends, connections, etc are not online posturing for all this toxic, negative attention.

When the crazy ppl get loud enough, some normal ppl break through and pushback before shyt really starts effecting real life.

Men who have their shyt together are still out here choosing and women who look good (and especially those who aren’t crazy) are still sorting through suitors.

The normal, healthy ppl in real life are associating with people who are like them.

That’s the quiet part folks ain’t saying out loud because it offends all the men screaming about golddiggers and the women who have difficulty attracting men who want to give them a nice life and pursue something real.


I have a cousin, divorced with 1 child, dating a (black) woman, similar age, divorced with 1 son.

Brought her to his parents million dollar house filled with educated relatives and I know she looked around and said “wtf I found a unicorn”. Every time I see her she’s all smiles, her son is perfect little gentleman and they are blending well. Another divorced relative just put a princess cut diamond on the hand of his fiancée who is his exact age. Both highly educated, divorced, successful.

These ppl are meeting and uniting every damn day. In their 30s, 40s and 50s.


Low brow people have low brow issues, and one of the biggest signs of that is not understanding discretion and anonymity. <— which I’ve stated on here before