I'm not mad. I make nikkas mad tho. You typing in caps. If I'm dusty why is that of any concern to you? Curious as to why you curious
I have a rant...about women
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#1 thing men look for in a woman long term is how she makes him feel.
A lot of women don’t think it is their job to make a man feel anything except an orgasm. Occasionally at that. They think sex is all a man cares about because providing it takes very little effort on the woman’s part.
But making a man feel happy, excited, playful, strong, supported, cherished, loved, appreciated is a lot harder and more nuanced. Meaning you have to actually think about him and look for signs and changes in his moods. Can’t be selfish.
So desperate women are typically selfish women, they go hand in hand.
A lot of women don’t think it is their job to make a man feel anything except an orgasm. Occasionally at that. They think sex is all a man cares about because providing it takes very little effort on the woman’s part.
But making a man feel happy, excited, playful, strong, supported, cherished, loved, appreciated is a lot harder and more nuanced. Meaning you have to actually think about him and look for signs and changes in his moods. Can’t be selfish.
So desperate women are typically selfish women, they go hand in hand.
this thread was made in bad faith, this is a misandrist posting about the ills of women on a male dominated forum thinking we would agree. SIKE, take that to LSA we can read inbetween the lines of narcissistic misandrist bullshyt 
do you think we cant read your post history? the fact other posters ITT have called you out on your BS and you're still deflecting
do you think we cant read your post history? the fact other posters ITT have called you out on your BS and you're still deflecting
Yes sirYou spit too many facts, are you definitely a woman?
The healthiest unions are two regular people who love each other, have regular ass jobs and do regular ass shyt within their budgets. The reciprocation isn't as transactional as you make it seem. Either you're that person or you're not. It's not conditional and if it is conditional it's conditional to start dating seriously. Men and women are starting whole families based on the condition of a fat ass and good sex. That's it.
I told brehs to hold tight like 1-2 years ago because the pushback would eventually come.
Normal, healthy women who want normal, healthy relationships are, in fact, starting to speak up.
Again, the ppl in the healthiest unions are NOT on social media. They don’t talk about their relationship because they understand the importance of privacy and know how toxic social media is.
Men who treat their women well are called “simps” and women who treat their man well are called “pick mes”.
If I have a man who is going above and beyond for our household, TF do I look like complaining about cooking and cleaning a house?
I’m not entertaining a man who can’t handle business, because my default is to perform for that type of man. And as I said before, if I can’t attract the right type of guy after my family did their job, then that’s on me and it’s in my best interest to remain single.
My life will be exponentially worse if I bare a child for a man who doesn’t have a plan and cannot execute. So if I attract that type of man, yes, he’s better than the others and I need to show him that and do “my part”. And if he’s chosen me then there’s something about me that’s better than his other options, and he shows me that by making my life easier, better than it was without him.
There’s give and take in the dance between man and woman.
So chica, what you’re saying about the desperate women is true, but the goal is to have enough self worth and awareness of the realities of life to not place oneself in that type of relationship. And enough common sense to not enable those couples/people.
I personally don’t know any woman who would open up her purse to give money to a married woman who is making irresponsible decisions with her husband (i.e. having kids they can’t afford).
This chick you’re talking about…she’s crazy, but rest assured most Black women ain’t pulling out our money for no shyt like that.
I told brehs to hold tight like 1-2 years ago because the pushback would eventually come.
Normal, healthy women who want normal, healthy relationships are, in fact, starting to speak up.
Again, the ppl in the healthiest unions are NOT on social media. They don’t talk about their relationship because they understand the importance of privacy and know how toxic social media is.
Men who treat their women well are called “simps” and women who treat their man well are called “pick mes”.
I been told people there's gonna be a civil war within women eventually....
Tomatoe, tomato
It’s not about it being fully conditional, but partly- of course.
You might love a woman, but part of her showing her love for you is how she treats you and performs in your relationship/marriage. A man may love a woman, but part of that love is shown in how he shows up in the life of that woman. There’s no decent father in the world who would hand his daughter off to a guy simply because he “loves” his daughter, because he knows how his daughter’s life will change once she becomes a wife and mother.
And yes, majority of couples are two people with regular jobs making it work. For sure. But there’s a difference when we’re talking about a man who has decided to take a wife and lead a household. THAT is what I’m referring to. There’s a different level of maturity and responsibility on your shoulders if you are intentional about marriage and family, and you need more than love.
It’s coming.
The hoe culture and the unreal expectations have to get stomped out. The labels push it, impressionable young girls (and older women trying to compete) fall for it, and men enjoy it because you have a bunch of dumb women sharing their bodies with men who shouldn’t have them.
I’ve expressed my issues with crazy, dysfunctional, delusional men on here, so I feel ok saying what I see on the ladies’ end.
Most women ain’t like this, but the women screaming on social media are definitely going to influence some young women. Just like the dudes only negatively influence young men.
So yea it has to get shut down.
feelosofer
#ninergang
But statistics show that women are more broke and more overweight…
Black men are literally the most in shape men of any group after Asians.
Exactly.Is it genuine love or desperation though?
Let every woman tell her story and she will tell you how she is better than the next women yet isn't getting any better results. I have been guilty of the same but thankfully I know better now.
I told brehs to hold tight like 1-2 years ago because the pushback would eventually come.
Normal, healthy women who want normal, healthy relationships are, in fact, starting to speak up.
Again, the ppl in the healthiest unions are NOT on social media. They don’t talk about their relationship because they understand the importance of privacy and know how toxic social media is.
Men who treat their women well are called “simps” and women who treat their man well are called “pick mes”.
If I have a man who is going above and beyond for our household, TF do I look like complaining about cooking and cleaning a house?
I’m not entertaining a man who can’t handle business, because my default is to perform for that type of man. And as I said before, if I can’t attract the right type of guy after my family did their job, then that’s on me and it’s in my best interest to remain single.
My life will be exponentially worse if I bare a child for a man who doesn’t have a plan and cannot execute. So if I attract that type of man, yes, he’s better than the others and I need to show him that and do “my part”. And if he’s chosen me then there’s something about me that’s better than his other options, and he shows me that by making my life easier, better than it was without him.
There’s give and take in the dance between man and woman.
So chica, what you’re saying about the desperate women is true, but the goal is to have enough self worth and awareness of the realities of life to not place oneself in that type of relationship. And enough common sense to not enable those couples/people.
I personally don’t know any woman who would open up her purse to give money to a married woman who is making irresponsible decisions with her husband (i.e. having kids they can’t afford).
This chick you’re talking about…she’s crazy, but rest assured most Black women ain’t pulling out our money for no shyt like that.
They're all bad women and you got the game figured out. Lol
This thread has nothing to do with you. Why are you comparing yourself to these women? Why are you talking about how much of a domestic servant you can't wait to be? There is nothing in this thread about domestic labor.
The 2nd women talks just like you. She is extremely conservative. What do you think is in those DM she sends me? I'm not sure why you think you are so much better than her or you know more than she does. Honestly ya'll sound exactly alike, but she is just probably older than you.
This is such an ego driven and weird response.