I have a confession; I have a problem. I'm a serial dater...

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man i been trying to tell you the same thing for a long time while you in my DMs. do that ish
life is so much better when you not living for bytches n blunts.
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I felt like this once. There's a quote from Charlotte in Sex in the City. They're outside at a sidewalk cafe iirc and she like "I've been dating since I was 15- WHERE IS HE???? :why:"

I too had been dating since I was 15. Four years later, while I truly loved the game, it was getting boring. nikkas blowing up my phone, mad gf's, things came to a head. I dealt with the shyt, tied up loose ends, and said to myself, 'Self. Bestie. Sit yo ass down somewhere and figure out where you going, what you doing, and what you should be doing next. Cuz this aint it.'

Met my man a few months later. He fulfilled my whole list. I retired at my peak and with the best possible result. When you hear that voice, listen. 🙏🏽 :pachaha:
 

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I felt like this once. There's a quote from Charlotte in Sex in the City. They're outside at a sidewalk cafe iirc and she like "I've been dating since I was 15- WHERE IS HE???? :why:"

I too had been dating since I was 15. Four years later, while I truly loved the game, it was getting boring. nikkas blowing up my phone, mad gf's, things came to a head. I dealt with the shyt, tied up loose ends, and said to myself, 'Self. Bestie. Sit yo ass down somewhere and figure out where you going, what you doing, and what you should be doing next. Cuz this aint it.'

Met my man a few months later. He fulfilled my whole list. I retired at my peak and with the best possible result. When you hear that voice, listen. 🙏🏽 :pachaha:
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One day it's going to register that you're actively cultivating stronger baby-mama energy than the females who follow that same playbook.



Bitter medicine, I know.
 

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I just love getting past the first stage of dating where I can come over her house and take a shyt. Cuz that's really the only hold up in meeting new women, I got IBS and there's numerous times I turned down the puzzy after a date cuz I had to go home and take a shyt.
 

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OP..

Off top, it seems like you may have an issue with making a commitment to one woman which is based on some fear you may have...

I'd suggest that you seek therapy and find out what's going on with you that way you can move forward..

For the record. I was in your shoes somewhat for many years, but my situation was a lil different.

My issue was connecting with women and @ one point, I wanted to quit, but I stood strong and eventually I found someone who want to deal with me beyond casual dating..

Best of luck to ya!
 
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