I had an affair in 2015. My wife called my side chick this morning.

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Love and my daughter. I was really experiencing some depressive shyt and I felt I didn't deserve better then my life changes. Just being honest
I can understand staying for your child. I would also say see a therapist. Not as a jab, because as stated in see one. You need to learn to love yourself. Maybe even except yourself. I wish you the best.
 

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My wife packed her bags but I know she ain't got nowhere to go. Which makes it even that much more sadder. The only way she will leave is if some simp comes and picks her up and even then sex will be obligatory and she already knows that since she is my child's mother, that will never be an option for her. I really want to keep her, I just know that I fukked up a lot over the years. She has too. But it's getting to the point where I see that she has invested her life in me and I keep on hurting her and it is taking a toll on me.

I just need to be a better man.
:jbhmm:Could you expand on this?
 

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nikka you dumb as hell. If you cheat treat it like murder. Get burner phone. Dont tell these hoes your real name. Never let them know where you work or stay. Make sure they live in another side of town so there is no chance your wife and sidechick interact. Make sure your lies make sense for example have a homey be an alibi. Destroy all evidence(condoms,receipts from hotel,dinner etc). Pay everything in cash so there isnt a paper trail. ETC. In the end you made you mess and have to deal with the consequences. As a man that is what we have to do when we fukk up. Sloppy,sloppy,sloppy:scust:
 

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So childish. Both of you should be ashamed. Kids should not be exposed to this level of unstable fukkery!

Why on earth would your wife get pregnant during a fukking separation?? Why on earth are you besties with your side chick? Why does she have your damn number? Moving a woman in for a month!

Divorce and now! You both have very low morals and even lower self-esteem. Fix your issues and then move on from there. A healthy relationship for either of you cannot happen at this moment but only after you get yourselves healthy first.
Not trying to defend OP but Dwayne Wade and Gabrielle Union went through the SAME thing. He got some side bytch pregnant during break time. shyt happens :yeshrug: its trifling as fukk, but it happens
 

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This reaction is killing me :laff::laff:
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I eat my husband's dikk. Who the fukk dikk is your wife eating? Log off and go raise her and that other dude's child. Dumbass PhD candidate.
:huhldup: :damn:
Get that bullshyt outta here. I make 60k and she has no income nikka at the end of the day this shyt comes down to finances. I know you in Springfield so if you bout that life come save her :pacspit: otherwise shut the fukk up
no income? U need to quit this bytch...no disrespect :whoa:

Hit me with a hammer, beat me with a pipe and knock me unconscious in my sleep, yell at me and make it seem like I was abusing her and go to school with scratches all on me from her spaz sessions
yeah, quit your wife. U need to breakup with all involved. U gonna fukk around and get killed...end up like Georgy :wow:
 

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This reaction is killing me :laff::laff:
:laff: :laff:

I eat my husband's dikk. Who the fukk dikk is your wife eating? Log off and go raise her and that other dude's child. Dumbass PhD candidate.
:huhldup: :damn:
Get that bullshyt outta here. I make 60k and she has no income nikka at the end of the day this shyt comes down to finances. I know you in Springfield so if you bout that life come save her :pacspit: otherwise shut the fukk up
no income? U need to quit this bytch...no disrespect :whoa:

Hit me with a hammer, beat me with a pipe and knock me unconscious in my sleep, yell at me and make it seem like I was abusing her and go to school with scratches all on me from her spaz sessions
yeah, quit your wife. U need to breakup with all involved. U gonna fukk around and get killed...end up like Georgy :wow:
 

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This reaction is killing me :laff::laff:
:laff: :laff:

I eat my husband's dikk. Who the fukk dikk is your wife eating? Log off and go raise her and that other dude's child. Dumbass PhD candidate.
:huhldup: :damn:
Get that bullshyt outta here. I make 60k and she has no income nikka at the end of the day this shyt comes down to finances. I know you in Springfield so if you bout that life come save her :pacspit: otherwise shut the fukk up
no income? U need to quit this bytch...no disrespect :whoa:

Hit me with a hammer, beat me with a pipe and knock me unconscious in my sleep, yell at me and make it seem like I was abusing her and go to school with scratches all on me from her spaz sessions
yeah, quit your wife. U need to breakup with all involved. U gonna fukk around and get killed...end up like Georgy :wow:
 

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Wifey in the kitchen now cooking up some collard greens but I'm scared to eat em :mjcry:
This muhfukka gone wait and kill me in sleep on some Tyler Perry shyt and then go find a light skin nikka that got dreads with my insurance money :mjcry:

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Do not eat anything she gives you. Lol frfr. You did her real dirty. She really might try that shyt. Don't beat yourself up man. Your past is your past. Just try not to hurt ya wife anymore even if that means divorcing her. You two could be good parents and not be married. She'll always be the love of your life no matter who's she with.

If you love her like you say you do you'd be fighting for her happiness and independence. If she's dependent on you for things how do you know she'd choose you if she could provide those things on her own?

Respect yourself breh. Respect her. Respect your family.
 
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