I had an affair in 2015. My wife called my side chick this morning.

[Broad Street Bully]

@Silkk my nikka get in here :skipmike:

 

[BedRoomI'z]

I don't even wanna read the story.
I can tell by the replies that it's some fukked up shyt

 

[#1 pick]

I lost.

I turned shyt around, went from welling weed to working for the Obama administration, and yet while I was getting my professional life together, my personal life was falling apart. shyt is just now hitting the fan.

I know I ain't shyt. Admitting it lets me know that I have a problem and now I feel like I can really work on it.

We all make mistakes but you gotta own this shyt. That's all that's left.

You did your wife so dirty she let a nikka hit raw in spite of you and like a typical DC nikka, married women means raw nuts and this nikka went head first. Breh, a video tho and you ate her out. You outchea living like R. Kelly. She hates you so bad, she will never look at you the same. You gonna have to work for this one.

Damn

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Before I get any shyt I am a PhD student, I have a fellowship and a full time professional career. I take care of my family.

Yet you still been fukking up your duties you took as a married man

Get off that high horse

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

What's really sad is your wife doesn't know she can do better. I hope she leaves your sorry arse and gets her life together.

People only stay in toxic situations because they believe there's no alternative.

If you really love your wife, you need to let her go! But you're not going to do that are you? Because the only person you really love is yourself!

nikka the whole point of her moving to Atlanta was so she could get independent. Ended up pregnant by a nikka that threatened to kill her.

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

I don't even wanna read the story.
I can tell by the replies that it's some fukked up shyt

Yeah I fukked up

 

[DamonDashsRocAFellaChain]

what a mess

Exactly. Poorly written post. I give it a C

 

[Neuromancer]

I lost.

I turned shyt around, went from welling weed to working for the Obama administration, and yet while I was getting my professional life together, my personal life was falling apart. shyt is just now hitting the fan.

I know I ain't shyt. Admitting it lets me know that I have a problem and now I feel like I can really work on it.

Self loathing will only lead to more mistakes. You need to forgive yourself for your weaknesses before you can ask for it from her. My therapist told me that.

 

[Raava]

What the hell Freddy did I just read?



I thought you was one of the good ones man

 

[ORDER_66]

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

I remember your threads on and since you said this is a 10 year thing, I'm assuming this is the same woman.
If it is, I am imagining this is going to get worse.
Should have cut the cord long ago.


And if you wanted to be anonymous, why didn't you post this under a throwaway alias?

I felt it should come from me. I did this shyt I deserve the ridicule and I ain't shyt. Posting from an alias would have allowed me a deflection. I needed to be real and this was a way for me to do that quasi-anonymously

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

Change your number.
Cut off off side hoes.
Make it work with your wife.

Is it really that hard? Did you get married young?

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

What the hell Freddy did I just read?



I thought you was one of the good ones man

Part of growth means admitting your sins. I am admitting mine

 

[DaRealness]

I can't even imagine dealing with this type of mess.

 

[Neuromancer]

Hit me with a hammer, beat me with a pipe and knock me unconscious in my sleep, yell at me and make it seem like I was abusing her and go to school with scratches all on me from her spaz sessions

Can I ask why you stayed?