Dzali OG
Dz Ali OG...Pay me like you owe me!
Nah. Taking pride in your different culture from us is one thing. Outright DENYING your blackness is another. They don't need to go hand in hand.
They ain't our cousins. That's us. Slave ships just dropped them off at a different spot.
You have to understand "blackness" is a mostly American construct. The blackest newa in Africa doesn't call himself black. He's Sudanese or igbo, etc.
It's like going to Sudan and complimenting a woman on having a extra phat ass. She may not know what you're talking about and may be offended if they font endear "extra phat ass".
And no, I don't think of them as us. They have different mixtures, different history, language, etc. It's OK to have a cousin.