I don’t take it personal when women play texting games

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[MicIsGod]

Yup. But that’s not the whole reason. They really need to see they are only wasting their own time

You think you're convincing them that? You might be 9th guy they met that day she don’t give a fukk lol

 

[jadillac]

If it's long enough reply back "who this??".

When she tells you who it is (of course you really know who it is) just reply back "oh my bad, I deleted your number after you didn't respond. I thought you wasn't interested anymore".

This puts in her head that you're not thirsty and will remove her from your world in a heartbeat.

But legit having other chicks on the roster cures all of this. It makes you truly not care if she texts back or not.

Nah breh.

This never works. I used to try this years ago. No chick with more than 1 option is going to take this as an kick in the pants to do righr by you.

They'll hit you with "oh okay" and move on. Now mayb they weren't really interested anyway but that text you're describing will close the door completely

 

[the elastic]

You can't take ANYTHING women do personally. You're setting yourself up for failure if you do. Just know they're different but also the same as us.

 

[MicIsGod]

Nah breh.

This never works. I used to try this years ago. No chick with more than 1 option is going to take this as an kick in the pants to do righr by you.

They'll hit you with "oh okay" and move on. Now mayb they weren't really interested anyway but that text you're describing will close the door completely

Now you just look butthurt.

 

[Van Cleef]

Yup. But that’s not the whole reason. They really need to see they are only wasting their own time

listen to these songs it will help you learn emotional detachment

 

[TheOptimisticCynikal]

Lots of interesting takes. Best advice seen so far that I think works is:

a) Have options. Not necessarily even in terms of females, but have options with what you preoccupy your mind on

b) If you can gauge that there's some type of interest or comfortability between y'all, invite her out. It seriously cuts out a lot of bs and let's you know what is what

c) Don't take things personally. I think dudes underestimate how much attention the average woman gets. Even ones you may think ain't all that bad, trust, dudes hitting her up thinking it's an easy lay up just like you

 

[Blessings]

When you see everything as a response, life is easier.

She didn't text you back and you want to double text? She already responded breh, the answer was no.

/this


When nikkas gotta create threads about waiting for her response or clocking her...we already know what time it is

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I mean... I barely respond to women cause I'm busy. I got 3 missed calls from some ladies over the weekend and still haven't called them back cause the 6 certs 6 fig life keeps me busy

Still haven't called them back. I just don't feel like talking to them right now.

 

[Jazzy B.]

This is all facts. I think a lot of the frustration I see on this board with women is a lot of posters just don’t understand or accept how women move. Like if a chick is talking to you everyday and then dosent respond for 3 or 4 days, she clearly has a situation going on. And we as men naturally feel like, well why don’t you just say so? But women don’t really feel obligated to tell us, so you just gotta read the actions. If she actually like you like that, a lot of times they simply trying to weigh they options or decide that nikka they with or you. That’s just the game. If you got enough motion you not tripping on no shyt like that

The key is don't take a woman seriously/have zero expectations until she is your girlfriend/y'all are "exclusive".

The difficulty is that the average man has limited options compared to the average woman which leads to men getting fixated with one specific woman.

So if a woman stops responding at a point like you said most men will want to know why/feel a way.

 

[WaveGang]

How can she chase you, if you chase her?

Stay busy and respond when you can. Be direct and assertive but playful and protective like an older brother

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Cotidamn if dry dikk was a thread

 

[BlackJesus]

listen to these songs it will help you learn emotional detachment

Learn emotional attachment not by meditation or training but by listening to a couple rap songs

 

[Koli_Kat]

The key is don't take a woman seriously/have zero expectations until she is your girlfriend/y'all are "exclusive".

The difficulty is that the average man has limited options compared to the average woman which leads to men getting fixated with one specific woman.

So if a woman stops responding at a point like you said most men will want to know why/feel a way.

This. The sooner you detach yourself from the outcome, the better

 

[Van Cleef]

Learn emotional attachment not by meditation or training but by listening to a couple rap songs

listen to them while you're meditating and training