I don’t take it personal when women play texting games

[MicIsGod]

Right, once you see them in person, they will usually tell you why they benched you/didn't respond, once someone said:
"yeah I had to block you I got engaged". I was like but I never even called you lol -

Often "ghosting" is someone just saying "not right now", without actually saying I am fukking with someone else, and it's kinda serious, because its not "official" yet, or because she isn't sure, it leaves plausible deniability, even if both her and I know what's up

but what I tell my boys is stop all that cutsey texting, and have an invite. Let's go here. Let's hit this place. You will get your answer a lot faster, then going back and forth about nothing, and worrying why she didn't respond to your "goodnight" text within 18 minutes - all that is chump shyt honestly.

note: this only applies to people you actually know. not apps.

Pretty much. I quickly set up a meet. Let’s you know how many are there just to waste time. Oh this doesn’t work? When you go straight to setting a date without extra texting it never works? Congrats, you see how many women are there to play around. Lol

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

When you see everything as a response, life is easier.

She didn't text you back and you want to double text? She already responded breh, the answer was no.

Only solid response in this thread

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

If you even have to tell her that, she ain't the one breh.

Naw not at all. If a shorty got a situation she not about to just drop that nikka she with day one and be with you. My whole point was if you actually like somebody like that then you have to put some type of pressure on them.

 

[Diondon]

I mean, a dikk register cleansing period is sometimes required
But if you aint for games, find one that aint playing games
Some women out here serious as hell

 

[Jazzy B.]

There’s no such thing as “text games”

If a woman takes long to reply outside of work hours she’s not that interested.

Women literally see your text when it comes in. When they’re not interested they swipe your message alert UP.

Women who are fully interested want to text you all day and respond fast. They also want to see you.

Don’t overthink the game.

 

[BlackJesus]

U can’t build chemistry over texting
Now phone call is different

Texting back and forth to someone u haven’t met is a waste of time and will always lead to someone flaking

If you can’t build chemistry over text on a screen I guess sexting and romance novels aren’t a thing for women?

 

[BlackJesus]

There’s no such thing as “text games”

If a woman takes long to reply outside of work hours she’s not that interested.

Women literally see your text when it comes in. When they’re not interested they swipe your message alert UP.

Women who are fully interested want to text you all day and respond fast. They also want to see you.

Don’t overthink the game.

Not always true. Some women play power games. Don’t always assume women have naive or straight intentions.

Interest is something that also waxes and wanes with women. They could be totally into you you one week and respond every hour and disinterested the next if you say something they don’t like.

All you can go off of is if they keep responding and still want to see you.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Granted some people are just busy but in most cases if she's not responding she doesn't want to talk to you, or is bored, or is talking to people (friends, guys, etc) who are more compelling. Never double text, it makes you look like a loser. I don't even care if you're trying to confirm a date and need her to respond in a timely manner. Nothing wrong with weeding out people who act like they're entitled to you taking them out. Just go silent and if she responds after the agreed upon date time, tell her you went with someone else lol.

I don't agree with the tit or tat thing of "oh she responded 5 days later so I'll respond 5 days later." If she responds 5 days later without a compelling explanation, and you can see via her social media that she's been on her phone having fun the entire time...you can respond but she's prob not into you fam. She doesn't owe you a quick response or explanation, and you don't owe her anything either.

 

[Turbulent]

When that happens to me i respond normally whenever i get to it. So i don't wait to respond. But at the same time im giving no energy to the reply, not furthering the convo.

 

[AngryBaby]

U should only be texting to set up a meet up

Y’all texting back and forth like it’s 2010 lol
Waste of time

This...minimize conversations throught text. Barely do that shyt. Only set things up. Then its just a yes or no, or they say yes then flake.

Thats really all you can do. A lot of ya'll nikkas like texting too much.

I even have a GF and we only text when we're needing to, or maybe a random thought or two.

 

[Ahadi]

Example: better to lose on a high than a small win that's not even real.

Like send the real invite: Come with me to _____ next weekend and get ghosted

rather than sending How was your day or some weak ass shyt, and get a weak response.

why does my boy always text pleasure to meet you - lol - and never an invite. Psychologically it's your ego trying to protect you from rejection.

it's very normal very human, but it will hold you back.

Yup. This is my go to.

I was on hinge and told 3 women “I’m going to be at _____ you’re welcomed to join”

1 was excited and asked what time (the baddest one)
2 said “no thank you” | cool - “unmatch”
3 didn’t respond until the next day, talking about “I went to dinner and enjoyed it” | “unmatch”

It just weeds everything out quicker.

 

[Forsaken]

When that happens to me i respond normally whenever i get to it. So i don't wait to respond. But at the same time im giving no energy to the reply, not furthering the convo.

This is the way.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Yall talking to one woman exclusively?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Pretty much. I quickly set up a meet. Let’s you know how many are there just to waste time. Oh this doesn’t work? When you go straight to setting a date without extra texting it never works? Congrats, you see how many women are there to play around. Lol

Instead guys be texting good morning
How’s your day?


And then 5 days later ask for a date

And

Cricket

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

If you can’t build chemistry over text on a screen I guess sexting and romance novels aren’t a thing for women?

Maybe After you guys linked up

Doing it before is a waste of time