I don't respect folks who have babies with randoms that they're just smashing.

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Easier to have a baby than finding a legitimate connection :francis:

I have a cousin who had a daughter at 42. She’s not married. Probably figured it was now or never. I know countless women in similar situations who are 35+ who I’m pretty sure did the same.

Becoming a single mother over 30 is a totally different ballgame. There’s a legit ‘expiration’ they face. We in the midst of societal shift it’s no longer just some ghetto shyt
I have 3 female peers who basically did the same thing. Got knocked up in their early to mid 30s by men they clearly were not in relationships with IMO just to have a kid. Only 1 of the women have the childs father in their life.

Did i mention all 3 of these peers are 30+ Black women, live in the south and have Sons? :francis:
 

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I have 3 female peers who basically did the same thing. Got knocked up in their early to mid 30s by men they clearly were not in relationships with IMO just to have a kid. Only 1 of the women have the childs father in their life.

Did i mention all 3 of these peers are 30+ Black women, live in the south and have Sons? :francis:

Yep. And it’s only gonna become more common with this gender war stuff.

On one end you have women legit hating men, but on the other end…the flesh is weak.

I don’t think the average man realizes the physiological things that occur to a woman when she’s ovulating. (This is a benefit of listening to women irl). Nggas be taking these women’s rhetoric as gospel. Believing in their tough talk. Man…Catch that same women when she’s ovulating. Her body is screaming at her to not only have sex but procreate. I should make a thread :jbhmm:
 

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Can’t argue shyt like this on the coli.

You ever known a sexy woman with a bunch of diseases?

Have you ever had sex with a woman taking msnbc/cnn commercial pills?

I say that to say, look at the stats of the things babies are being born with
 

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Me:

'I'm a single mother I have 3 children'

Random guy I'm getting to know:
':scust:'

Me:
'They all have the same father, we share custody'

Random:

'U wanna make another one? :shaq:'

Dating is crazy in 2023 I need help!

What’s the problem??!?! So he’s willing to be a father to your 3 kids and the cost is only a 4th?! Ok?!?! That’s a good deal you better pull out that period tracker and take it :mjtf:
 

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Yeah shyt wild how mfs just be poppin babies out all willy nilly like they are toys or some shyt.

I think those people believe kids give them purpose and/or they need something to love them not realizing this is a lifetime commitment. Mental babies having babies :wow:


Edit: Or they are just against abortion

This response nails it.

Lot of these women who do this have self esteem issues.

They stay getting pumped and dumped, and deep down they don't think they have what it takes to attract a quality, valued man that will see them as worth sticking with..

But they know a child will never leave them and has no choice but to stay with them and love them unconditionally. So they just say fxck it, sit back relax and let it happen consequences be damned.
 

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This response nails it.

Lot of these women who do this have self esteem issues.

They stay getting pumped and dumped, and deep down they don't think they have what it takes to attract a quality, valued man that will see them as worth sticking with..

But they know a child will never leave them and has no choice but to stay with them and love them unconditionally. So they just say fxck it, sit back relax and let it happen consequences be damned.


Pure facts
 

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Crazy how there are people in this thread saying "This isn't my business and does not concern me"

Wow. People's decisions DIRECTLY AND INDIRECTLY effects society. Both economically and socially. And we wonder why society is what it is now :wow:
Right.

Across this nation too many of our communities are being terrorized by "other people's business" and these dumbasses got the nerve to fix their faces n say this ish?

Dummies
 

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Yep. And it’s only gonna become more common with this gender war stuff.

On one end you have women legit hating men, but on the other end…the flesh is weak.

I don’t think the average man realizes the physiological things that occur to a woman when she’s ovulating. (This is a benefit of listening to women irl). Nggas be taking these women’s rhetoric as gospel. Believing in their tough talk. Man…Catch that same women when she’s ovulating. Her body is screaming at her to not only have sex but procreate. I should make a thread :jbhmm:
:mjlol:
 

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Me:

'I'm a single mother I have 3 children'

Random guy I'm getting to know:
':scust:'

Me:
'They all have the same father, we share custody'

Random:

'U wanna make another one? :shaq:'

Dating is crazy in 2023 I need help!
Me if single: 3 kids and single, what were you doing.

Me: same dude, oh, that means you valuable, the hitta stayed and the ass and titties sit nice, what's up girl? :wow:

Yeah you right, we just too Simple. Sorry. Even the most intelligent of us just have primal thoughts and desires. You look like a snack, we want all of the snack. Just the male in us.

You ever thought about long distance?
 
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