I dont really feel bad when wives who "let themselves go" get cheated on...

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And again, y'all are comparing is 30yr old mistress to his 60(SIXTY) something wife? :what:

Of course not, but let's be real, there's a lot of things she can do to spruce up.

My mom and dad have been together for 30 years (last week was their anniversary of their first date :to:), married for 26, so they are in their 50s in the age game. Of course my mom does not look the same and neither does my dad but they try their best to look good for each other. They work out together, he pays for her to get her hair done and spa appointments, she shops for him.

My mom still looks like she's in her 40. But she's chocolate and we know that black don't crack. :youngsabo: :whew: My dad was getting kinda chubby, but he got in the gym to lose some of that weight to look good for that woman :obama: I'm sure they still be fukkin'. :steviej:

That shyt is beautiful. :to: More beautiful than givin' up and settling into things. :scusthov: If you want something from your S/O, ask. :manny:
 

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Of course not, but let's be real, there's a lot of things she can do to spruce up.

My and dad have been together for 30 years (last week was their anniversary of their first date :to:), married for 26, so they are in their 50s in the age game. Of course my mom does not look the same and neither does my dad but they try their best to look good for each other. They work out together, he pays for her to get her hair done and spa appointments, she shops for him.

My mom still looks like she's in her 40. But she's chocolate and we know that black don't crack. :youngsabo: :whew: My dad was getting kinda chubby, but he got in the gym to lose some of that weight to look good for that woman :obama: I'm sure they still be fukkin'. :steviej:

That shyt is beautiful. :to: More beautiful than givin' up and settling into things. :scusthov: If you want something from your S/O, ask. :manny:

I agree. But this nikka probably didn't ask or tell her shyt.

He just slid out like "gotta go take care of secret CIA biz, see u later".
 

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I agree. But this nikka probably didn't ask or tell her shyt.

He just slid out like "gotta go take care of secret CIA biz, see u later".

Maybe. As I stated earlier that is bad on his part.

But we both know that she looks in the mirror, has low self-esteem about her appearance but does nothing about it. She could do something as well, not just for him, but for her own conscious/confidence.

After spending so much time with a person, you know when things are changing or when something is off.

You know y'all women got that intuition. :mjpls:
 

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:laff: the funny thing with that some of these guys think that having money, staying in shape, and being attractive means that they are entitled to a good woman but yet they think and say things like YBE says. then when no women wants to have anything to do with them, they talk about "how come women don't want me?" well, do they expect a woman to give them the time of the day when they're shytting on women on a daily basis. :dry:

fukk outta here, fakkit.

Anyway, I JUST had this convo with my female coworker. We were talking about fat people and she said her man is getting a lil :flabbynsick:, gut starting to poke out and theyre only in their 20s. I started laughing and told her straight up I wouldnt put up with my wife getting fat. I dont wanna climb into bed with fat either now or 30 years down the line. She agreed and told me he better start working out or its gonna be splitsville.
 

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She looks in that mirror everyday. She knows she ain't poppin'. Tell her something.

If that wouldn't work, I'd try to work myself into her self-improvement as many ways as I could so it could seem more like bonding rather than me just telling her about her self. Go to the gym with her, hire a consultant for both of us, hit the spa together, etc. I feel like at that age, women just want companionship and want to do things with their husband.

After that many years, it'd be fickle to fukk it all up because I didn't have the balls to say a couple of sentences.
After that many years, companionship is #1 . I learn that from my parents too.
 

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Women need to realize not every nikka is gonna be like Pierce Brosnan

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If you let yourself go before age 40...that's unacceptable, imo. After that, it's hard to keep mother nature at bay...you gonna get outta shape a bit.

still, you should try your best
 

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fukk outta here, fakkit.

Anyway, I JUST had this convo with my female coworker. We were talking about fat people and she said her man is getting a lil :flabbynsick:, gut starting to poke out and theyre only in their 20s. I started laughing and told her straight up I wouldnt put up with my wife getting fat. I dont wanna climb into bed with fat either now or 30 years down the line. She agreed and told me he better start working out or its gonna be splitsville.

shorty is talkin to ANOTHER nikka about how her man is gainin weight and if he don't shape up she gonna split...so she obviously don't have no respect for him...and she most likely didnt speak to him about her concerns...which means she most likely ALREADY either fukked around on him or is scoping out her options...from the way u explain it shorty don't seem loyal anyway...
 

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One of the few white men on this planet that actually aged well :ohhh:

He happen to look better older than he did in his 20's. She didn't have a shot. Even so, I am pretty sure the kids, the sacrifice, and the lack of attention she needed did her in. As a man, we have to love the woman.
 

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After that many years, companionship is #1 . I learn that from my parents too.

Exactly. I don't see how people do it.

real talk, look at this shyt

dude is basically in charge of the entire army and then running the CIA. I can't even be mad at him for trying to get some decent trim.

Apparently, he was trying to get more than decent trim. Dude had 2 different chicks on the side. :heh:
 

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I plan to stay in shape, but when I'm 60 plus, I'm not stressin about some wrinkles and some fat.

I'm gonna be watching my soaps, doing crochet, and waiting my bff to pick me up for bingo night.

You're bugging if you think soaps will be around when you're 60. They're dropping like flies.

I'm still getting over my One Life to Live getting cancelled in January :sadbron:

All My Children, like this dude's wife, was looking sick and flabby and needed to go though.
 
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