I don’t get on with my girlfriend’s friends :yeshrug:

Umoja

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You sound like the immature brat in this equation breh.

Treat it as an opportunity to network.
 

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As a woman I say this respectfully. But they do sound like insufferable doxies.

“Fukk dem hoes, unless you fukking them hoes.“
-Uncle Willis

Direct quote from my uncle’s crazy ass. But on the real, hopefully ur girl a.) has other more reasonable friends to balance out the c*ntosity or b.) is smart enough to keep ur relationship private from their undoubtedly jealous and miserable selves.

Those types will actively attempt to create insecurities in ur girl just so she can join them in their dusty clit coven while they try to push up on you themselves. Ya’ll think I’m exaggerating but a lot of these bytches out here are grimey! Oooohhh WEE!

Le sigh. Toxic femininity at its finest.
 

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:hhh:Long story short, my girlfriend has the most pretentious self-absorbed, conceited trust-fund baby twats for friends. I tried to make the effort to be cordial with these bootleg Sex And The City whores but I’ve had enough of them.

The kind that only eat “gluten free” products. :hhh:

The kind who will protest “occupy Wall Street” and submit their resumes to them the next day. :hhh:

The kind of morons who have never had to struggle in life, thus only finding purpose in trivial acts of philanthropy by tying themselves to trees of endangered rainforests.:hhh:

The kind of c*nts who get offended at being called “females”. :hhh:

The kind of females who claim patriarchy is archaic and counterproductive to their “feminist” ideals, but want to reap the benefits of this ‘oppressive’ system. :hhh:

I hate these two bit skanks with a passion. I’m starting to look at my girl a bit funny... you know what they say about birds. :patrice:
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This reminds me of my boy I used to stay with when I visited NYC when I was single. Top paid banker, fly spot in the City, etc. I was his wingman on some date with these model/marketing chicks once and it was hilarious. We ordered kebob/skewers since he said they weren't big on carbs.

These chicks only ate the bed of lettuce the skewers were served on :mjlol: I was like this is the most anorexic bullshyt I have ever seen.

The convo was even worse.


This one chick who was the third wheel went on a rant for 5 minutes about how she caught her boyfriend masturbating and how enraged and devalued she felt. :russ:

After that and hearing them talk I didn't even think about smashing.
breh, I’ve come to accept all birds babble regardless of their social status. Just nonsense. I could see their boyfriends were getting bored but didn’t have the balls to say anything.

The single one who said all men were trash, wants a sperm donor. I said to her “so what does that make you? A trash receptor?” Everyone laughed nervously. She couldn’t say shyt back. :mjlol:

They friends she just knew in school or she in that kind of sorority and social circle? I dated BW who went to boarding school, PWIs, etc. with which White girl friends but they also had Black friends and dated BM so it was kind of balanced out. Yeah they were bougie but they were pro-Black and eventually married Black for the most part.

As long as she doesn't say slick shyt about Black folks or demand you be a 'real man' like Brad (i.e. they think she should have higher 'standards' :mjpls:), I think she has them at a safe distance. She probably wouldn't have brought you to dinner if she was petrified at what those birds think.

Just know though if you and her ever fall out or there is side piece drama they are going to swoop in and try to convert her to nikkas-aint-shytism forever. It will be the whole "I told you so about Black men" discussion.
Nah she ain’t no c00n. Just grew up middle to upper class. Her friends are from all backgrounds (black, Arab, Asian, honky etc) so it isn’t too bad. I would’ve been worried if her college friends were mainly white though. :mjpls:

OP..

Those young ladies are young and immature, based on what you shared. You made the right decision to separate yourself from them.

But, are you OK with your gf still being friends with them? I ask because it seems like your gf still wanna be friends with them despite knowing how you feel about them.
I’m not one of those guys that will tell a woman who to be friends with. If she was friends with them before then cool. I’ll be cordial but I’m not spending my spare time hanging Out with people I have nothing in common with.

Now if she starts making “guy friends” then we’ll have a problem. :wtb:

You sound like the immature brat in this equation breh.

Treat it as an opportunity to network.
I’ve got a legion of Jews. I don’t need to network when my with phone is filled with “Goldbergs” and “Cohens”.
 

ThrobbingHood

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Sarcasm goes a LONG way.​

You'll be amazed at the stuff you can say that will express your utter disgust of their entire being and they'll just laugh.

:sas2:
Oh I do. That’s why they dislike me. it takes them minutes to realize I’ve insulted them through my sarcasm.


Man op has already got shyt going for himself and he does not need to network.
my nikka. You already know. :salute:


As a woman I say this respectfully. But they do sound like insufferable doxies.

“Fukk dem hoes, unless you fukking them hoes.“
-Uncle Willis

Direct quote from my uncle’s crazy ass. But on the real, hopefully ur girl a.) has other more reasonable friends to balance out the c*ntosity or b.) is smart enough to keep ur relationship private from their undoubtedly jealous and miserable selves.

Those types will actively attempt to create insecurities in ur girl just so she can join them in their dusty clit coven while they try to push up on you themselves. Ya’ll think I’m exaggerating but a lot of these bytches out here are grimey! Oooohhh WEE!

Le sigh. Toxic femininity at its finest.
I know. I’ve seen it before. My previous girlfriends’ friends were all cool and down to Earth. This is a different social circle though. The kind I would always ridicule. They’ve never had to struggle in life so their perception of humanity is parochial.
 
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