I don’t get on with my girlfriend’s friends :yeshrug:

ThrobbingHood

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simp ass nikkas...heres the thing about your girls "friends", these are your worst enemies and most nikkas dont even know it. That friend is going to partially be the reason she starts cheating on you, that friend will be the same one that will greet you with a smile and then egg your girl on at the club to fukk a nikka in the bathroom..that friend hates your girl and wants to secretly destroy what she has with you...my wifes best friend passed me a note that read "come over tonight if you want it" while we were at the hospital while my wife was having our child..your girls friends are your worst enemies in regards to your relationship..believe what you want, this is the truth.
You posted nothing but facts. Rep.


It sounds counterintuitive but this might be a good thing if your girl’s friends aren’t necessarily your friends
Breh, I’m not friends with women. Just hearing three or more in a group babble about nothing is enough for me. Most annoy the fukk out of me.

oh college friends?
you'll be fine they'll drop off in her 30's
God willing.
 

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Be cordial, don't expect a response and keep doing your thing with your girl. But best believe they talk shyt about you. The way you talk, how you act around them, the way you dress and how your girl needs a new man. Just be mindful that you are who you surround yourself with and if they are toxic, they will rub off on your girl.

Truth be told, I have stopped seeing women because I couldn't stand their friend's asses. You are in a bind brother because a girlfriend is a a lot more important then some woman you are seeing.
Please believe I hear you. I really have no interest in meeting women I’m not trying to fukk. I have nothing to gain fraternizing with them. Not saying there aren’t cool females but that’s why I have my girl. I’ve already got my homies.

Oh yeah, I know they’re talking shyt about me. The whole evening I was giving it back to them. They thought I was going to be one of those docile negros. :mjgrin:

How does she feel when you tell you don't like her friends?

Does she hear you out and try to reason with you, or does she shrug what you say off and 100% agree with her friends?
She knows what kind of guy I am sure she didn’t expect me really get on with them. She can tell when I’m using my restraint not to curse their dumb asses out. She knew I was making a sacrifice hanging out with them this week. She knows I’m right most of the time but she tries to be neutral in those “debates”.

They’re not really her ‘friends friends‘. She has a much smaller circle from before college. But she tends to hang out with them more if that makes sense, due to them working in similar circles.
 

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She knows what kind of guy I am sure she didn’t expect me really get on with them. She can tell when I’m using my restraint not to curse their dumb asses out. She knew I was making a sacrifice hanging out with them this week. She knows I’m right most of the time but she tries to be neutral in those “debates”.

They’re not really her ‘friends friends‘. She has a much smaller circle from before college. But she tends to hang out with them more if that makes sense, due to them working in similar circles.


Ohh ok. Kinda like if she changes her job, she'll have no use for them
 

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She knows I don’t bite my tongue. I usually avoid going on these group dates. I’d rather her hang out with her friends and I with mine. We don’t need a D.C./Marvel cross over.

She forced me to hang out with them and their boyfriends. Proper beta male faggits. None of them had my back when the single one called all men trash and I called her out.

I can’t be around these kind of people.
An, just as long as she know. Cause I been with broads who'd talk shyt in the wetspot about all her female friends and criticize them rightfully and then just flip it on you, when you talk shyt back about 'em in another setting on some bi-polar shyt.

Like only she supposed to criticize her friends, not you, even though she includes them in y'all's shyt and expect you to just keep mum like some bytch. Can't stand females that do that.
 

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The kind that only eat “gluten free” products.

This reminds me of my boy I used to stay with when I visited NYC when I was single. Top paid banker, fly spot in the City, etc. I was his wingman on some date with these model/marketing chicks once and it was hilarious. We ordered kebob/skewers since he said they weren't big on carbs.

These chicks only ate the bed of lettuce the skewers were served on :mjlol: I was like this is the most anorexic bullshyt I have ever seen.

The convo was even worse.


This one chick who was the third wheel went on a rant for 5 minutes about how she caught her boyfriend masturbating and how enraged and devalued she felt. :russ:

After that and hearing them talk I didn't even think about smashing.
 

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My girl is black... her friends are ‘diverse’. :mjpls:

They friends she just knew in school or she in that kind of sorority and social circle? I dated BW who went to boarding school, PWIs, etc. with which White girl friends but they also had Black friends and dated BM so it was kind of balanced out. Yeah they were bougie but they were pro-Black and eventually married Black for the most part.

As long as she doesn't say slick shyt about Black folks or demand you be a 'real man' like Brad (i.e. they think she should have higher 'standards' :mjpls:), I think she has them at a safe distance. She probably wouldn't have brought you to dinner if she was petrified at what those birds think.

Just know though if you and her ever fall out or there is side piece drama they are going to swoop in and try to convert her to nikkas-aint-shytism forever. It will be the whole "I told you so about Black men" discussion.
 

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This topic reminds me of Gina's flakey friend who came to visit:

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OP..

Those young ladies are young and immature, based on what you shared. You made the right decision to separate yourself from them.

But, are you OK with your gf still being friends with them? I ask because it seems like your gf still wanna be friends with them despite knowing how you feel about them.
 
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