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Wild self

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Mfers in here are delusional

Women nowdays come home from work tired and ain't cooking and cleaning like that but still expect you to pay all the bills .

That's why when you go see em they crib always messy as hell and full of door dash orders.

But if you do decide to pay everything, nothing wrong with that. Your choice.

:hhh: their bodies filled with SODIUM when they eat out all the time.
 

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You can't be independent and be led by a man, if you want the 60s way of living, barefoot, pregnant, on the knees, dinner at 6....

If not, you are just like every couple, both working to make ends meet...no shame in either one..
 
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-Bullshyt. Women have always been out here thirsting after deadbeats with nothing to offer. A specific group of women do that.

-No, not all men do.
Women dating deadbeats doesn't make what I said wrong.

Most women ideally want a man greater than them. That doesn't mean they aren't willing to get dikked down by a deadbeat. Or that they can't fall in love with one.

It just means that the highest attraction they'll feel to a man is usually one greater than them.

The two aren't mutually exclusive.

Only a fraction of women truly prefer deadbeats in
 

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I didnt say its about manhood (not sure where you got that from)...
its about your standing in the relationship and the options it gives you.

women act waaaaaayyyyyyy different when you take care of the important bills

most women arent made to work and stress to hold down a household...
makes them masculine

you cant expect a woman to work full time,
pay the bills,
cook dinner
clean the crib
and then suck you off with a smile while going 50/50

not to mention they generally like to feel like their man is "better than them"
She's not holding down the household if you're both working.

You can absolutely expect a woman to do the domestic stuff and still be sexually available, if you're doing your fair share of the chores, And she's actually attracted to you and not just there for the security.....Just like you still have to "communicate " and be a present husband when you come home from work tired too.
 

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Straight out the social media scammers playbook. “business coach” “Wealth build” “join our community”

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Any woman with 600,000 followers is not gonna be wife material

:francis:
 

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She's not holding down the household if you're both working.

You can absolutely expect a woman to do the domestic stuff and still be sexually available, if you're doing your fair share of the chores, And she's actually attracted to you and not just there for the security.....Just like you still have to "communicate " and be a present husband when you come home from work tired too.

Exactly, if your salary permits her to be docile, then that's what it's gotta be, but staying home with a messy house while she watches Youtube Shorts and orders Uber Eats is the ultimate dream for most women...It is a fine needle to thread living like you are in the 20s...
 

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Exactly, if your salary permits her to be docile, then that's what it's gotta be, but staying home with a messy house while she watches Youtube Shorts and orders Uber Eats is the ultimate dream for most women...It is a fine needle to thread living like you are in the 20s...
a woman that loves you is going to want to contribute in some sort of way
 

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glad brehs know the game

all code words for you to pay 100%
If it's your woman tho aint all money shared anyway?

How it is in my household anyway. Everything paid on certain rewards credit cards and cards paid in full every month.

Wouldn't do that with no girlfriend tho gotta be wife and she gotta be smart and respectful with the money
 

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If it's your woman tho aint all money shared anyway?

How it is in my household anyway. Everything paid on certain rewards credit cards and cards paid in full every month.

Wouldn't do that with no girlfriend tho gotta be wife and she gotta be smart and respectful with the money
:mjlol:
 

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Steadman still pimps Oprah and her money lonnng af.
i like oprah but she has awful taste in men. she dated john tesh and ROGER EBERT in the 1980s (he looked like this at the time before his jaw rotted off)

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clearly she has a good heart if she can look past... THAT.. to the human inside. but still, yuck

why does this pic make me think of mc serch? :scusthov: lol
 
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Nothing wrong as long as she keeps her mouth shut, follows orders, keeps the house clean and cooks (well) every night except for Fri (door dash) and Sat (dine out).

She wants HIM to adhere to old school values but does SHE want to adhere to the old school expectations for women? If she does, then I see no issue.
 
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