“i don’t care how independent I am, I want my man to Provide, Protect, and lead me!”

[Killer Instinct]

if thats your woman paying the bills aint tricking.

you cant be treated as the man if you cant handle man shyt

going 50/50 with a chick aint it

49% of black households made less than 50k a year in '21. The average black male age 20 - 29 made 25k. At age 30 - 39, they made 41k. For 2024?

The median weekly earnings for Black men in the first quarter of 2024 were $935.

I have no idea where some of you dudes reside where a guy in 2024 that's making 28k - 37k after taxes is paying a mortage, car note, phone bill, groceries, buying diapers, formula, and footing the bill for his wife's hair & nails, but it isn't reality.

 

[Umoja]

if thats your woman paying the bills aint tricking.

you cant be treated as the man if you cant handle man shyt

going 50/50 with a chick aint it

Big simp.

 

[Arcavian]

Shut up bytch swallow
Shut up bytch gargle

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

Men are naturally providers and she acknowledges that regardless of her independent status and I see nothing wrong with it. But this is going to fall on deaf ears because it’s a black woman saying this. I bet she wouldn’t get this much flack if she was a white woman saying this.

 

[Still Benefited]

Browsing her IG, she's scamming. Credit repair, real estate investing, etc.

I came in to give her flowers. Beautiful,righteous and submissive is a wonderful and rare combo in these troubling times. But Ill just say this brother needs to be careful. This could just be a post to let the world know for sure "Hes the ring leader,im just the face"


Hopefully its exactly as it appears and they are a normal couple not scamming. And if they are just selling dreams and hopes,people need to stop calling that scamming. Their business is selling knowledge, which black people have been programmed to hate for some reason.

 

[TheJet]

All the women agree with this, what exactly does independent mean

I read it as she wanna stack her bread and spend mine.

 

[Canon]

glad brehs know the game

all code words for you to pay 100%

 

[Canon]

So she gets a freebie and live life saving her money, at the expense of yours? What kind of adult does that?

you see it

 

[Koli_Kat]

She wants to be independent only when it's convenient for her.

 

[jilla82]

49% of black households made less than 50k a year in '21. The average black male age 20 - 29 made 25k. At age 30 - 39, they made 41k. For 2024?





I have no idea where some of you dudes reside where a guy in 2024 that's making 28k - 37k after taxes is paying a mortage, car note, phone bill, groceries, buying diapers, formula, and footing the bill for his wife's hair & nails, but it isn't reality.

what youre highlighting is an entirely different issue

this all goes back to Kevin Samuels talking points...

so yes...
if were talking about broke/middle class couples of course they should be splitting

What I said was "that aint it" meaning its not optimal

 

[Bumblebreh]

They want a man to trick on them and pay 100% of their bills.

Simp shyt.

Lazy materialistic hoes dont deserve companionship or procreation.

It is not simping if you are providing for your girlfriend or your wife. The truth is men feel more masculine when they can provide, and it has been like that for many generations. You obviously do not want to spend most of your money on a person that does not value you. But my point still stands.

 

[Wild self]

It is not simping if you are providing for your girlfriend or your wife. The truth is men feel more masculine when they can provide, and it has been like that for many generations. You obviously do not want to spend most of your money on a person that does not value you. But my point still stands.

Like someone said on here, why cater to superficial desires off of women that have historically high divorcees and high stress? Let her be alone and make her pay 100% of her bills.

 

[Wild self]

I didnt say its about manhood (not sure where you got that from)...
its about your standing in the relationship and the options it gives you.

women act waaaaaayyyyyyy different when you take care of the important bills

most women arent made to work and stress to hold down a household...
makes them masculine

you cant expect a woman to work full time,
pay the bills,
cook dinner
clean the crib
and then suck you off with a smile while going 50/50

not to mention they generally like to feel like their man is "better than them"

Good luck killing the husband with stress, and she has to do 200% of that all by herself. These greedy women want to be lazy and do NOTHING and even wanting to cut corners on raising a family. A lot of these people shouldn't have children, period.

 

[Koli_Kat]

Mfers in here are delusional

Women nowdays come home from work tired and ain't cooking and cleaning like it's 1970 but still expect you to pay all the bills .

That's why when you go see em they crib always messy as hell and fridge full of door dash orders.

But if you still do decide to pay everything, nothing wrong with that. Your choice.

 

[jilla82]

The bolded should be done by both.

Idk man, but the healthiest marriages I've seen always has the bolded being done by both husband and wife.

Your woman will never be tight if she comes home and the floor is glowing and the counters clean and the room smells like fabulouso with the oven timer going.

Flip it for the gentlemen and it remains the same.

Like what are we doing that people are still tripping over this rudimentary ish?

probably because black women generally run the households in Black America

most of us dont grow up seeing a man at the head

this is just my personal experience but from what ive seen a woman wants to cook/clean for her man.

im not saying she has NO financial obligations...
but a lot of dudes seem to be dependent on their woman to make ends meet

that leads to a woman eventually treating their man as a little boy