I don't believe black men can truly be attracted to white women over black women

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Finding someone attractive and literally worshipping or insulting the opposite sex of your own gender to justify IR dating is two different things.

People be wack as fukk doing that nonsense.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Nah if anything BM have low expectations with all women...including BW. The low end BW have higher expectations than the BM seeking them. I see plenty of 1s, 2s, and 3s with babies, flooded DMs and thousands of likes on their IG who demand BM who are 8s, 9s and 10s

this is true Too

but with a a p*ssy u have a advantage somebody will fukk u.

 

[International Playa]

I prefer black women but I'm NOT gonna turn down women from other races.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I'm not defending guys going for women above their level. It's just silly to believe average women dont reject average guys especially black women.

Most black women do have a "type" and there's a lot of black men who dont fit their ideal of a mate.

they do I'm sure. I dont ir date so idk if other women have a type like that. my assumption is women is women i seen very average black men be very successful with bw.

alot of pawgset and paagset can get a bw its probably not the one they want tho.

i used to be like that but I learned if u start low get experience than u usually can go higher.

I got nothing against ir daters do what makes u happy.

the bw got a certain type I think some truth but its exaggerated on here.

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

Many Black men also pander a lot. You can always tell the ones who don’t mean that ish and just saying that to save face.

9 times out of 10 if a black woman says she wants only a black man, she means it. How many times have we caught these dudes while cheesing with nonbw. I don’t take most black guys who do the most seriously.

The ones who dont try too hard are more genuine. People like attractive people, I get that. There are nonblack men I find attractive the same way that black men find nonbw attractive.


As for the second paragraph, a lot of the younger black girls peep game early that while they were the darnest to not consider nonbm for dating black dudes have no qualms dating/sleeping/marring nonbw then complaining about black guys dating interracial.

So much so it would be the biggest pawgers who have the most to say about the BW going interracial. I am sure many black Women have in their families brothers/uncles/fathers who date white/nonblack unapologetically but have a lot to say if the girl brings a white man home. Then all of sudden you hate Black men lol...or all black men aren’t bad.

All that queens stuff ain’t genuine 99% Its fake flattery.

So damn bitter

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Makes no sense to get a white woman when we have light skins

 

[Ya?]

So damn bitter

I think the coli takes the cake on bitterness and miserableness.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I'm not defending guys going for women above their level. It's just silly to believe average women dont reject average guys especially black women.

Most black women do have a "type" and there's a lot of black men who dont fit their ideal of a mate.

How old are you? And what is this type?

I literally see bw with all kinds of bm. I see fat bw with fat bm, nerdy bw with nerdy bm, “earthy/hippie bw” with her equal black male counterpart, trash with trash(lol), and attractive bw with attractive bm. I live in a middle class diverse area in Charlotte, but tend to see these combos all over Charlotte. Families. Married with kids. Of varying ages, but most mostly in that 30 age range, do I see a great variation of black couples of every type. Hell my last boss was a fat black nerdy woman, and her husband was a fat black corny nerdy guy.

I’m not seeing married bw with only one certain type of bm. I’m seeing all types of bm eating with bw and in relationships with their “equals”. I do see IR too, bw and bm doing it. But actually I don’t see these couples as much, and when I do, they don’t have the same variation as the black couples. The majority of the time the bw or bm is more attractive than the “other” they are with. I very rarely see a black person with an actual 7 or 8, like brehs suggest on here, and I’ve lived in Chicago, philly, Cincy, Nashville and now Charlotte. The ww and wm are always average(5 or 6 anyway) and that’s regardless of how paid or attractive the black person is. Always makes me wonder “why” when they really could have gotten a better looking black person, like their peers who are like them(whether it’s nerds, blue collar, hippie natural sista, etc).

But I realize it’s more complex than that. Most people are going to go for what comes the easiest as far as that goes. And by far ww are more aggressive, sexually loose, and frequent. Likewise, bw in certain positions are around more wm, working with them often, which brings more opportunity to date. So I see how these arrangements happen.

Honestly I don’t know if I want to get married, but if I do, it would most likely be a bm. At the same time I’m not one to limit myself just like y’all—I’m attracted to every kind of men EXCEPT most wm(just don’t age well imo) so i could potentially settle down w/ anyone.

 

[Ya?]

How old are you? And what is this type?

I literally see bw with all kinds of bm. I see fat bw with fat bm, nerdy bw with nerdy bm, “earthy/hippie bw” with her equal black male counterpart, trash with trash(lol), and attractive bw with attractive bm. I live in a middle class diverse area in Charlotte, but tend to see these combos all over Charlotte. Families. Married with kids. Of varying ages, but most mostly in that 30 age range, do I see a great variation of black couples of every type. Hell my last boss was a fat black nerdy woman, and her husband was a fat black corny nerdy guy.

I’m not seeing married bw with only one certain type of bm. I’m seeing all types of bm eating with bw and in relationships with their “equals”. I do see IR too, bw and bm doing it. But actually I don’t see these couples as much, and when I do, they don’t have the same variation as the black couples. The majority of the time the bw or bm is more attractive than the “other” they are with. I very rarely see a black person with an actual 7 or 8, like brehs suggest on here, and I’ve lived in Chicago, philly, Cincy, Nashville and now Charlotte. The ww and wm are always average(5 or 6 anyway) and that’s regardless of how paid or attractive the black person is. Always makes me wonder “why” when they really could have gotten a better looking black person, like their peers who are like them(whether it’s nerds, blue collar, hippie natural sista, etc).

But I realize it’s more complex than that. Most people are going to go for what comes the easiest as far as that goes. And by far ww are more aggressive, sexually loose, and frequent. Likewise, bw in certain positions are around more wm, working with them often, which brings more opportunity to date. So I see how these arrangements happen.

Honestly I don’t know if I want to get married, but if I do, it would most likely be a bm. At the same time I’m not one to limit myself just like y’all—I’m attracted to every kind of men EXCEPT most wm(just don’t age well imo) so i could potentially settle down w/ anyone.

I agree...

 

[Exlurkernegro]

How old are you? And what is this type?

I literally see bw with all kinds of bm. I see fat bw with fat bm, nerdy bw with nerdy bm, “earthy/hippie bw” with her equal black male counterpart, trash with trash(lol), and attractive bw with attractive bm. I live in a middle class diverse area in Charlotte, but tend to see these combos all over Charlotte. Families. Married with kids. Of varying ages, but most mostly in that 30 age range, do I see a great variation of black couples of every type. Hell my last boss was a fat black nerdy woman, and her husband was a fat black corny nerdy guy.

I’m not seeing married bw with only one certain type of bm. I’m seeing all types of bm eating with bw and in relationships with their “equals”. I do see IR too, bw and bm doing it. But actually I don’t see these couples as much, and when I do, they don’t have the same variation as the black couples. The majority of the time the bw or bm is more attractive than the “other” they are with. Always makes me wonder “why” when they really could have gotten a better looking black person, like their peers who are like them(whether it’s nerds, blue collar, hippie natural sista, etc).

But I realize it’s more complex than that. Most people are going to go for what comes the easiest as far as that goes. And by far ww are more aggressive, sexually loose, and frequent. Likewise, bw in certain positions are around more wm, working with them often, which brings more opportunity to date. So I see how these arrangements happen.

Honestly I don’t know if I want to get married, but if I do, it would most likely be a bm. At the same time I’m not one to limit myself just like y’all—I’m attracted to every kind of men EXCEPT most wm(just don’t age well imo) so i could potentially settle down w/ anyone.

I'm 24. I'm willing to bet you're older than me and didn't grow up in this era. A lot of black women in my age range have a certain type and don't like guys in their own lane.

 

[Ya?]

I'm 24. I'm willing to bet you're older than me and didn't grow up in this era. A lot of black women in my age range have a certain type and don't like guys in their own lane.

Black women have been accused of this in every era. And black guys have a certain type too. So ...

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I'm 24. I'm willing to bet you're older than me and didn't grow up in this era. A lot of black women in my age range have a certain type and don't like guys in their own lane.

Funny I’m 32. And when I was your age, I was hearing the same thing. Bw only like thugs. Bw only like men like xyz. It was such a common saying i heard that at one point I started tuning that shyt out. Yet, as much as my peers were saying that around that time, many of them are my age now, and only a few ended up with an “other”, most ended up with their black counterpart. They grew up, and realized that there options with bw weren’t as limited as they thought. Trust me. your young and y’all are silly asf, when you get in my age range, you see who actually settle downs with who, and the majority of time bw are not settling down with thugs.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

It is unnatural to be attracted to a White female before a Black one. Nature doesnt work that way.

Where is the source on this ???

y’all just say anything and expect us to take it as fact.

 

[ViShawn]

Where is the source on this ???

y’all just say anything and expect us to take it as fact.

Smart dumb nikkas.

 

[Exlurkernegro]

Funny I’m 32. And when I was your age, I was hearing the same thing. Bw only like thugs. Bw only like men like xyz. It was such a common saying i heard that at one point I started tuning that shyt out. Yet, as much as my peers were saying that around that time, many of them are my age now, and only a few ended up with an “other”, most ended up with their black counterpart. They grew up, and realized that there options with bw weren’t as limited as they thought. Trust me. your young and y’all are silly asf, when you get in my age range, you see who actually settle downs with who, and the majority of time bw are not settling down with thugs.

You're referring to older women and couples so of course your view is gonna be different from mine.

Black women have been accused of this in every era. And black guys have a certain type too. So ...

Only cause it's true. Of course black men have a certain type, but we're also diverse with our preferences. By nature men are less picky than women and that's a fact.