I don't believe black men can truly be attracted to white women over black women

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Different strokes breh:yeshrug:


Cause that bytch is trash and I wouldn't give her the time of day.

My guy posted a porn gif as a reference and I have mentioned before about the media and porn pushing this weird fascination when it comes to IR.
A young breh will watch that type of shyt and think "yeah I need me a bad latina"
 

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My guy posted a porn gif as a reference and I have mentioned before about the media and porn pushing this weird fascination when it comes to IR.
A young breh will watch that type of shyt and think "yeah I need me a bad latina"
That's why I let it go breh. Porn really fukks up dudes minds. You see it in how a lot of dudes approach and deal with women these days. Back when I used to watch porn I used to watch mad white girls and lowkey think "I gotta fukk as many white hoes as I can". When I stopped and really started talking and fukking with females I realized I'm not even attracted to white women like that. Maybe a Latina on the right day but outside of sex I had no interest in any chick who wasn't black.
 
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What attracted u to him even tho he seem to not like black woman

We worked at the same company but different departments. I remember when my work friends and I were talking about some of the attractive bm at the job—because it was a large company with a decent size amount of bm. And he was one of them that we were talking about, because he was attractive—tall, muscular, nice looking face, could dress well, etc. And he kept to himself and was so focused on his work in a way that no one else was around—I found that attractive. I was telling my work friends that I thought he looked good, and they all said not to even bother because he seemed like the type that only dated white girls.

But it didn’t add up to me because every time I saw him he was always staring at me. I pretended like I didn’t see him, but I knew he was attracted to me. So I told my work friends yeah I don’t think so, but if he does, I bet you I still pull him anyway. The next time I had an oppportunity, I let him know I was interested. And he talked to me, and he was flirting instantly. So I figured he was into more than just white girls.

From the jump we vibed really well. It became obvious that he did date white girls once I got to know him. I just figured that he had to like bw or else why else would he be interested in me. But I kept talking to him because we had an amazing connection tbh. I didn’t find out that he really only dated white girls and his real views on bw until I had already got into a relationship with him. And by that point tbh, I overlooked it, because we had a great connection, and he had a lot of qualities that I admired, he taught me a lot—actually changed my life a bit too. He also had a big dikk lol. So to answer your question, a lot attracted me to him, and kept that attraction going, enough to where I rationalized it as okay. :yeshrug:
 
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We worked at the same company but different departments. I remember when my work friends and I were talking about some of the attractive bm at the job—because it was a large company with a decent size amount of bm. And he was one of them that we were talking about, because he was attractive—tall, muscular, nice looking face, could dress well, etc. And he kept to himself and was so focused on his work in a way that no one else was around—I found that attractive. I was telling my work friends that I thought he looked good, and they all said not to even bother because he seemed like the type that only dated white girls.

But it didn’t add up to me because every time I saw him he was always staring at me. I pretended like I didn’t see him, but I knew he was attracted to me. So I told my work friends yeah I don’t think so, but if he does, I bet you I still pull him anyway. The next time I had an oppportunity, I let him know I was interested. And he talked to me, and he was flirting instantly. So I figured he was into more than just white girls.

From the jump we vibed really well. It became obvious that he did date white girls once I got to know him. I just figured that he had to like bw or else why else would he be interested in me. But I kept talking to him because we had an amazing connection tbh. I didn’t find out that he really only dated white girls and his real views on bw until I had already got into a relationship with him. And by that point tbh, I overlooked it, because we had a great connection, and he had a lot of qualities that I admired, he taught me a lot—actually changed my life a bit too. He also had a big dikk lol. So to answer your question, a lot attracted me to him, and kept that attraction going, enough to where I rationalized it as okay. :yeshrug:
Me reading the first half::ehh:

Me reading the end::picard::mjlol:
 

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We worked at the same company but different departments. I remember when my work friends and I were talking about some of the attractive bm at the job—because it was a large company with a decent size amount of bm. And he was one of them that we were talking about, because he was attractive—tall, muscular, nice looking face, could dress well, etc. And he kept to himself and was so focused on his work in a way that no one else was around—I found that attractive. I was telling my work friends that I thought he looked good, and they all said not to even bother because he seemed like the type that only dated white girls.

read your original post - they think and move like that because it's their way of coping with growing up in those parts of town. Life for them would be a lot more tougher if they didn't grow up thinking white was the standard because then that puts them in the position where they would have to constantly question what is going on around them. That's why he knows black woman are more attract but his standard is white woman. A lot of white washed folks when they grow up and join the rest of the world - they begin dating black people but still have those thoughts and coping tactics still in place.

That is why you don't raise your kids in those environments, it's not good for their future self-image.
 

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FOH chick. Spare me the lame coli trope of are you black chick. Are you?
Once again, you so excited, you done fukked up your reading comprehension.. I asked if you were African-American, not if you were black. Calm down, b. I thought I was supposed to be the emotional one.

At the end of the day we can't really dictate what anybody does. All we can do is set a good positive example for people to follow and hope that they do. Outside of that people are gonna do what they do.
How do other men do it? Anybody know?
 

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read your original post - they think and move like that because it's their way of coping with growing up in those parts of town. Life for them would be a lot more tougher if they didn't grow up thinking white was the standard because then that puts them in the position where they would have to constantly question what is going on around them. That's why he knows black woman are more attract but his standard is white woman. A lot of white washed folks when they grow up and join the rest of the world - they begin dating black people but still have those thoughts and coping tactics still in place.

That is why you don't raise your kids in those environments, it's not good for their future self-image.


Exactly. He admitted that he was partial to ww too because of where he grew up. Mostly white area. His brother only dated white girls too. His parents were white washed too. It was pretty much inevitable lol.
 

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Once again, you so excited, you done fukked up your reading comprehension.. I asked if you were African-American, not if you were black. Calm down, b. I thought I was supposed to be the emotional one.


How do other men do it? Anybody know?
Your question is confusing...what are you actually asking? How do other men do what?:jbhmm:
 

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I just wanna experience all flavas before I leave this earth. Of course ima settle down with a black woman but these pawgs are freakier and nastier "from my personal experience" so gonna have some fun first, it is what it is.
 

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Exactly. He admitted that he was partial to ww too because of where he grew up. Mostly white area. His brother only dated white girls too. His parents were white washed too. It was pretty much inevitable lol.
I grew up that way, it was a constant battle fighting with what I knew what the real/end issue was. Still doesn't excuse grown folks who know they are walking on eggshells around their neighbors, classmates

Once again, you so excited, you done fukked up your reading comprehension.. I asked if you were African-American, not if you were black. Calm down, b. I thought I was supposed to be the emotional one.


How do other men do it? Anybody know?
Nah it's honestly talking to other people about why they think or move like that and when you really channel where it stems from or whatever. They see what is true. Men constantly have these conversations in person, when you lay down the list of what they ask for in woman - there no way a black woman doesn't fit all of those qualities. I've opened the eyes of many brothers around me in this particular topic - even those ex-c00ns now sort for black woman to court

They never sit down and spend actually time dissecting why they are doing what they are doing. Sometimes you have to do that shyt for them especially man to man. My youngest brother friend stopped dating white woman when we broke down why would he think it's okay to date someone whose family is racist.
 
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