Men are attracted to secondary sexual characteristics. That's how we are wired. There is nothing wrong with that. Now we should have the discretion and discipline not to act on it all the time, which Tim displayed here. Also should have the discretion to keep it to ourselves, which he did not display here. That said, I don't get why you would say this at any point. What does this do for you or for her? Secondly, I don't get what it was about this chick in particular that had these dudes going crazy. Yes she was light skinned and pretty and had a cool personality but these dudes were rich and famous, didn't they have light-skinned pretty chicks throwing themselves at them? And she didn't even have the secondary sex characteristics like that, even as an adult. Dudes were really risking their freedom, careers and friendships and "fighting fighting" over this chick. I really don't get it. I know that some chicks just exude sexiness and draw you in even if they don't have body like that, but once again ya'll nikkas didn't have a bunch of chicks at your disposal?