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What about - if he seems nice - exchanging IG accounts and writing for a bit and if it feels right going for 2-3 drinks/dinners before deciding where it is going? It takes something for a man to say something to a woman he might be interested in - and if all you do is reply mean, well, there's always Tinder.
 
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Hey Kant, I think we should grab dinner and discuss politics, video games and manga :smile:
When dudes say 'grab dinner' I always think 'dude, you're sounding like you want to be buddies. I get that it's tough to approach a woman because nobody likes rejection, but if you act like a buddy and she acts like a buddy back... don't talk about the friend zone later'.

How about

'Hey Kant, I think you're a really interesting girl and I'd like to take you to dinner and we can talk politics and video games.'

really interesting + I'd like to take you to dinner = date
let's grab dinner = she will fukk a dude and tell you about it

ijs

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When dudes say 'grab dinner' I always think 'dude, you're sounding like you want to be buddies. I get that it's tough to approach a woman because nobody likes rejection, but if you act like a buddy and she acts like a buddy back... don't talk about the friend zone later'.

How about

'Hey Kant, I think you're a really interesting girl and I'd like to take you to dinner and we can talk politics and video games.'

really interesting + I'd like to take you to dinner = date
let's grab dinner = she will fukk a dude and tell you about it

ijs

:yeshrug:

I feel you


imo

take you to dinner = he's paying
Grab dinner = dutch


I'm not trying to take Kant out for real :whoa: :pachaha: I'm just playing ( not that I wouldn't)


I'm more about become a friend/acquaintance 1st anyway so that works out for me.:manny:
 

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Hey Kant, I think we should grab dinner and discuss politics, video games and manga :smile:

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@OP

What about - if he seems nice - exchanging IG accounts and writing for a bit and if it feels right going for 2-3 drinks/dinners before deciding where it is going? It takes something for a man to say something to a woman he might be interested in - and if all you do is reply mean, well, there's always Tinder.

If it were at a house party or some social event where we at least had a conversation at first then sure.

Don't you have self defense training?

Combatives is a perishable skill if you don't practice it. I haven't done it all year.
 
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