You actually want to stay single![]()
Did he really say "where yo boyfriend at"![]()
whats the best way to approach you?
Hey Kant, I think we should grab dinner and discuss politics, video games and mangaBe on friendly terms with me and ask to hang out over a meal.
When dudes say 'grab dinner' I always think 'dude, you're sounding like you want to be buddies. I get that it's tough to approach a woman because nobody likes rejection, but if you act like a buddy and she acts like a buddy back... don't talk about the friend zone later'.Hey Kant, I think we should grab dinner and discuss politics, video games and manga![]()
Don't you have self defense training?I'm about to get a box cutter because my dad wants me to wait to open carry.
This situation I didn't feel threatened, I always reject strangers, I just wish I was kinder about it.
When dudes say 'grab dinner' I always think 'dude, you're sounding like you want to be buddies. I get that it's tough to approach a woman because nobody likes rejection, but if you act like a buddy and she acts like a buddy back... don't talk about the friend zone later'.
How about
'Hey Kant, I think you're a really interesting girl and I'd like to take you to dinner and we can talk politics and video games.'
really interesting + I'd like to take you to dinner = date
let's grab dinner = she will fukk a dude and tell you about it
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Hey Kant, I think we should grab dinner and discuss politics, video games and manga![]()
@OP
What about - if he seems nice - exchanging IG accounts and writing for a bit and if it feels right going for 2-3 drinks/dinners before deciding where it is going? It takes something for a man to say something to a woman he might be interested in - and if all you do is reply mean, well, there's always Tinder.
Don't you have self defense training?
You need a sparring partner?
If it were at a house party or some social event where we at least had a conversation at first then sure.
Combatives is a perishable skill if you don't practice it. I haven't done it all year.
You need a sparring partner?
Dudes ask that a lot. Friday night a guy asked me where my wedding ring was.Did he really say "where yo boyfriend at"![]()
Weapons can be taken away from you. But ok.nah, I'm ok with just having the box cutter![]()