Reverend Jesse Jackson
Somebody I Am
I'm sorry just can't.
I can't support anyone on here who is "pro-black community" but anti-marriage
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onelastdeath
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Why don't you elaborate?. There is no reason not to support your own people, but there ARE PLENTY of reasons someone could be anti-marriage. Especially with American marriage laws, and how the men are fukkED in divorces.
There are men who get kicked out of houses they paid for, aren't allowed to see their kids, give up half their cash, and have to pay alimony. Plenty of reasons to avoid marriage.
No one should get married just to strengthen the black community. This is your only life. There are other ways to show that you're committed to the growth and development our community
There are men who get kicked out of houses they paid for, aren't allowed to see their kids, give up half their cash, and have to pay alimony. Plenty of reasons to avoid marriage.
No one should get married just to strengthen the black community. This is your only life. There are other ways to show that you're committed to the growth and development our community
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Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
The two are not mutually exclusive.
Marrying just to get married is crazy talk
nikkas gon get back on the marriage tip, maybe around 2020
Marrying just to get married is crazy talk
nikkas gon get back on the marriage tip, maybe around 2020
Reverend Jesse Jackson
Somebody I Am
Marriage allows brothas a better chance at raising their seeds. Can't say the same if you just get a sista pregnant. It is basically up to her when/if you see the child.
onelastdeath
Banned
So you're basing this off the opinion that everyone wants to have kids? In a day in age where over 50% of marriages end in divorce. There is no reason to rush into marriage, whatsoever.
Reverend Jesse Jackson
Somebody I Am
Women definitely have to play the part in a marriage and not use the system to get over. Not disagreeing with that at all. We have to be in this together.
Living on islands is fine but don't complain about the black community being what it is.
onelastdeath
Banned
Women definitely have to play the part in a marriage and not use the system to get over. Not disagreeing with that at all. We have to be in this together.
Living on islands is fine but don't complain about the black community being what it is.
I feel like I should tell you something. A lot of this "pro-black" shyt, is out the window when things get intimate. No one is going to take being pro-black into consideration when it comes to being in an unhappy marriage. There are men (and women) who stay in unhappy marriages because it's cheaper to keep their spouse around .
There is no "in this together" when things get intimate. Marriage is a 2 person unity. All that other shyt is out the window.
that didn't answer or explain shytsound like you are pro-marcuz not pro-black community
Born2BKing
Veteran
Oh trust, our community isn't and it's working out really well for us right?
CashmereThoughts
Veteran
Idiocy. What the fukk does a city hall document have to do with being pro black?