@HarlemHottie sup
Thats good way of looking at it. I'm not an "everything happens for a reason" type of dude but I don't think the situation is as bad as people are making it out to be. She still has a relationship with the father and it seems like she not dropping out of school. Also, it seems like her father is willing to help raise the child.19/20 really isn't that bad of an age to have kids. My mom was 19 when she had me. Pops was 21. They divorced when I was like 2, but by the time they were mid 40's no more kids in the house and they could stack and do them. Now my mom is 60 with terminal cancer. Had she waited until my age (39) I'd be like 21 and so fukking lost. shyt I'm scared of being in my 50's with a teenage daughter, but thats life. Her having them early could be a blessing fam. You'll be able to help out more, play with the kids more. Help your daughter get where she has to go in life, and be able to communicate and be on the same page as her. In the end, you also get to spend more time watching each generation of you grow. shyt low-key if my daughter gets pregnant at 20 I'll be happy. 60 year old grandfather. Like I said earlier, I'm 39, my grandfather was 41 when I was born. Enjoy your clan. Puff your chest out and know you have generations of yourself roaming the earth.
That ain't that uncommon. Back in middle school one of my nikkas had a kid that was like two years old already when I met him in 7th grade.
Wyd for new years
My nikka. Happy New Year!!
yall crack me up everyday on hereDamn, I just did the 42 Dugg whistle after reading that - yikes
Happy New Year Frenchi!My nikka. Happy New Year!!
Mine too.My Dad got married to Mom when she was 19.
Happy New Year Frenchi!
*thats your new name
Sat my black ass in the house.Wyd for new years
Thats wassup. I'm proud of you.
Sat my black ass in the house.
trying to start 2021 off positively. dude at least is trying which is a better sign than him not bothering to commit at all. at my age, ive seen the years pass as women in my life go through this, and the married ones tended to have a decent father for their kids in the long run, so i would say the ring is a sign more than a source of anything....
a ring on her finger., really?? Now you have two “engaged” -married
Teenagers with no income or viable job prospects raising each other, when they weren’t fully raised by their own parents at that age, raising a baby and all growing up together.
This ring has magical superpowers that will automatically generate income, maturity, peace of mind or something??
Sh1ts a ghetto mess, I have done nothing but bring shame to my family's name. Her and her mom are pregnant at the same time. I had her hella early and my son will be an uncle at six lol.
I had a feeling she was pregnant too, she was sleeping too much.