Husband sends wife excel spreadsheet outlining when she denied him sex

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They were both only 26 when this happened? :damn:
Its the same sad story you see time and time again. Some lame white guy meets his love interest in college, he graduates at 21 years old and proposes to her his senior or post grad year. Guy lands a farely decent job after school making 60k+ and marries the girl. Right after marriage he mortages a house. So now he is 23-24. Now be has bills on top of bills, his job wamts him to work 50-60hrs a week. His wife is checking off her checklist, graduate check, meet man who has degree, money, and etc.. Check. Now his wife is complacent with the lifestyle he rushed into.she starts either cheating or masterbates but never wants to have sex with the lame, in fact she is turned ofd because he rushed and gave her everything within a 4 year time, she has no reason left to provide sex.

Reason why i went in deep because i have read the same story over and over, nikkas be quick to give their college girlfriend the world at 21 and by the time they hit 27-28 the relationship is burnt out.
 

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Its the same sad story you see time and time again. Some lame white guy meets his love interest in college, he graduates at 21 years old and proposes to her his senior or post grad year. Guy lands a farely decent job after school making 60k+ and marries the girl. Right after marriage he mortages a house. So now he is 23-24. Now be has bills on top of bills, his job wamts him to work 50-60hrs a week. His wife is checking off her checklist, graduate check, meet man who has degree, money, and etc.. Check. Now his wife is complacent with the lifestyle he rushed into.she starts either cheating or masterbates but never wants to have sex with the lame, in fact she is turned ofd because he rushed and gave her everything within a 4 year time, she has no reason left to provide sex.

Reason why i went in deep because i have read the same story over and over, nikkas be quick to give their college girlfriend the world at 21 and by the time they hit 27-28 the relationship is burnt out.
GMB.

She feels like she has power over him and she's disgusted by it.
 

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Sounds like he wasn't trying. What did she say when he asked for the 7th time?

"I just came from the gym, and I feel gross"
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I'm not sure how even took that as a no.

He took it as a 'No' when she didn't go & bathe after feeling 'sweaty & gross'...

Maybe he should've made her a nice warm bubble bath or got in the shower with her the following morning when she decided to finally bathe :deadmanny:.
There's more than one way to get what you want...
 

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The whole thing is bizarre.
At the same time, as a married person I wouldn't feel even remotely comfortable having to repeatedly ask to have sex with the person I'm married to; you should know whether or not they're in the mood.
Dude should just be one of those weirdos who asks for an open relationship, instead of looking like a punk on Reddit.
 

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nikka batting average is horrible as fukk.
with ratios like that ole girl clearly isnt into him as much as he is into her.

Me and my girl have lead productive and at times stressful lives trying to get that paper but we always encouraged each other to leave that shyt at door step. been together forever and through it all we still find time to have sex on average twice a week MINIMUM. And that's not just to keep me happy either. If i go more than 3 days without trying to have sex she'll spazz on me and i'm a sex addict.

Ole boy is justified in how he feels but he handling it like a bytch though. At least man up, and tell her your grievances face to face so you can get to the bottom of all this and have some closure if you decided to dead the relationship. Not answering phone calls and shyt? She's still your woman and you owe it to her to at least check in with, just common courtesy. Dude sounds like a piece of shyt himself from what I gather which prolly ties into the lack of sex.

And she doesnt have to be cheating because she aint giving it up. Maybe her hormones are fukked up. Does dude even speak up before it gets to the point where he has to type up power point presentations to illustrate how dry his dikk is?
 
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He took it as a 'No' when she didn't go & bathe after feeling 'sweaty & gross'...

Maybe he should've made her a nice warm bubble bath or got in the shower with her the following morning when she decided to finally bathe :deadmanny:.
There's more than one way to get what you want...
That was a bs excuse not to give him ass cut it out
 

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He should let her catch him fapping and watching porn. Every time she says no he needs to whip it out in front of her and just beat it lol

:mjgrin:
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She's not letting him 'check her temperature' so she just might feel relieved that he's relating to himself instead.
 
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