Meh, you're kinda supposed to be in your feelings when you're married to somebody
and everything you do effects the other person.
All that "I don't get emotionally involved" playa shyt goes out the window, when alimony and child support will ruin your life. Hell, what your wife/husband does affects everybody in your family. Your kids, your parents, their parents, brothers, sisters, etc. . . can be effected by your decisions.
You can lose your house, your car, your job, your friends, etc. . . over shyt that happens in a marriage. It's not a joke
Not saying they deserved death or anything, but claiming that a dude who's signed his life over to a woman isn't supposed to be "in his feelings" when she completely fukks up his life is a ridiculous concept and shows you either aint married or shouldn't be married.