why u think they come off that way
I remember one time my freshman yr we ordered like $50 worth of chinese and it was me, my 2 roommates and 3 other females in the living room. I answered the door and the b*stard did not want to step in the doorway of our apartment so I could count the money for him.
Chinese man was like "No Ill stay right out here no thanks"
me: "This b*stard thinks were gonna rob his ass"
me: "Since your so scared you get no tip"
Chinese man: