How Long Did It Take You To Approach Your Wife/Gf?

[RealAssanova]

I don't think there is ever a right time to leave somebody. I think staying in unhappy relationships are draining. But whatever is best for you guys, its your situation You are doing things the right way I think.



thank you

Bob's hair had body

bob also had big feet....so does that mean.....

 

[Raava]

bob also had big feet....so does that mean.....

I have smaller feet. for my height my feet should probably be bigger.

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

34.

We're always growing, always changing. Yea, it's a significant part of my life. It would be no more or less "a waste" had I been single or had I been dating a dozen girls over that same time period. The time was going to pass either way and I could have learned different things or had different experiences, but that was my path. I won't ever look back on it with regret. That seems sad that people do that. Again, what we had was great, I just feel that it's run it's course.

maybe waste was a wrong word as you probably had genuine feelings and times.

its just a shame man. so much time that's all. i don't know u or ur situation, if i did i may be singing a completely different tune.

i just see 10 years and i'm in the same boat its just we heading in different directions.

i don't know ur situation, sorry if i judged too fast.

 

[RealAssanova]

I have smaller feet. for my height my feet should probably be bigger.

well what you lack in one area i'm sure you make up in others.

just as long as you ain't a dwarf.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

maybe waste was a wrong word as you probably had genuine feelings and times.

its just a shame man. so much time that's all. i don't know u or ur situation, if i did i may be singing a completely different tune.

i just see 10 years and i'm in the same boat its just we heading in different directions.

i don't know ur situation, sorry if i judged too fast.

No worries it's all good man.

Tell me your story, breh.

 

[Raava]

well what you lack in one area i'm sure you make up in others.

just as long as you ain't a dwarf.

I'm 5'6 no where near a dwarf.

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

No worries it's all good man.

Tell me your story, breh.

been with my girl for 9 years. did the cheating thing. the one night stands, even that job affairs just to realize i got everything i want at home. finally got engaged in september. now i am excited to get married and have a family. we just worked everything out, infidelity, finances, family issues, so maybe i'm optimistic that others, like yourself, can do the same. i just believe if two ppl love each other enough they can make it through anything. even if the world is against them.

but hey maybe thats what u'll find in your new girl that u maybe never had for your current.

i fell in love with her looks and personality. and we get along really,really,really well. every moment i spend with her i just feel like a better person cuz i'm honestly a damn dirtbag that don't deserve her. (i'm being harsh on myself cuz i do a LOT for her)

i honestly hope u find hte same type of love breh.

that shyt you'd die for.

 

[RealAssanova]

I'm 5'6 no where near a dwarf.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

been with my girl for 9 years. did the cheating thing. the one night stands, even that job affairs just to realize i got everything i want at home. finally got engaged in september. now i am excited to get married and have a family. we just worked everything out, infidelity, finances, family issues, so maybe i'm optimistic that others, like yourself, can do the same. i just believe if two ppl love each other enough they can make it through anything. even if the world is against them.

but hey maybe thats what u'll find in your new girl that u maybe never had for your current.

i fell in love with her looks and personality. and we get along really,really,really well. every moment i spend with her i just feel like a better person cuz i'm honestly a damn dirtbag that don't deserve her. (i'm being harsh on myself cuz i do a LOT for her)

i honestly hope u find hte same type of love breh.

that shyt you'd die for.

Sounds wonderful, breh.

Maybe I can find that with the next one.

 

[Rominati]

I love my current girl, I'm just not happy.

The relationship is severely limiting, and I don't mean in terms of other women.

It's just run it's course. Being married wouldn't have changed anything.

Reading shyt like this honestly makes me sad man

Kinda makes you wonder, what is the point of getting in serious long term relationships when your young

 

[Ashley Banks]

Reading shyt like this honestly makes me sad man

Kinda makes you wonder, what is the point of getting in serious long term relationships when your young

Exactly.

I couldn't imagine being with someone for 10 years and they're just like " I'm not happy, bye bytch".

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Exactly.

I couldn't imagine being with someone for 10 years and they're just like " I'm not happy, bye bytch".

I'm not looking forward to the conversation. I honestly don't think she'll ever be the same again.

 

[Rominati]

Exactly.

I couldn't imagine being with someone for 10 years and they're just like " I'm not happy, bye bytch".

Like I told you in another thread Juice. What homie is going thru is perfectly normal in the modern day adult relationship. Both men and women go thru the feelings that he is going thru. Nothing is wrong "per se" in the relationship.

But that lust for more, jus makes you so dead and unhappy inside that you start to resent your partner

I know those times , those feelings, thats when women start to look for that "thrill" elsewhere, n when men go on the Coli and confess gameplans of leaving their life partners of 10 years for some random chick at the local plant fitness

 

[Drew Wonder]

I'm not looking forward to the conversation. I honestly don't think she'll ever be the same again.

You gotta do what you gotta do bruh so good luck. but damn, you fucked it up for the next nigga who tries to get with her Just know you'll more than likely create the angry and bitter woman that everyone on this website complains about

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Like I told you in another thread Juice. What homie is going thru is perfectly normal in the modern day adult relationship. Both men and women go thru the feelings that he is going thru. Nothing is wrong "per se" in the relationship.
But that lust for more, jus makes you so dead and unhappy inside that you start to resent your partner

No no no, there's definitely things wrong in the relationship. And before all the women come in like , yes they are things I have talked to her about MANY times over the years. Behaviors that I've allowed to fester over time (I'm not blameless) because I loved her. Times I've looked the other way, shyt we've even gone to counseling before, but in the end, she just gets lazy and reverts back to her old habits and I'm just tired of the cycle.

There is some resentment there. Not anything specifically that she's done but just the nature of being in a relationship is limiting and I look back on opportunities I had in the past to travel or advance my career, but I didn't or couldn't because it wasn't right for "us". shyt like that. I guess I'm just tired of compromising is all.