How Long Did It Take You To Approach Your Wife/Gf?

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:whoa: relax.

Is the chick you're about throw in the bushes the chick you're always complaining about?
Seems like you hate her. Maybe you do. You kept saying you never wanted to get married and you've been with her for 10 years(?) and you know a chick for 6 months and you're calling her your future wife.

:whew: I feel sorry for your current girl.

be a girlfriend for 10 years, brehettes.

I love my current girl, I'm just not happy.

The relationship is severely limiting, and I don't mean in terms of other women.

:manny: It's just run it's course. Being married wouldn't have changed anything.
 

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Slow and steady. It'll be at least 4 months before I profess my feelings. By then, we should be pretty good friends.

That's the best way, get to know her even more. Just never leave someone for some else. Like you would leave your current relationship regardless if the person was there or not.

It sound sweet really.
 

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That's the best way, get to know her even more. Just never leave someone for some else. Like you would leave your current relationship regardless if the person was there or not.

Been trying to work up the testicular fortitude to do it for the last 9 months. Something always comes up or the time never seems right. Whether or not I end up w/ the new chick, there's no way I'm spending the rest of my life w/ the old chick so...

It sound sweet really.

Who knows maybe she's just destined to be a good friend or to show me what else is out there in terms of happiness but I am motivated.
 

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I love my current girl, I'm just not happy. :manny: The relationship has run it's course. Being married wouldn't have changed anything.

Doesn't sound like you love her. I don't know, I don't think someone that loves the person their with would be calling another person that they don't know that well their future spouse. But, that's just me. Good luck though. hope it works out.

Give your current girl a hug for me though. She's gonna be hurting for a while, maybe forever. 10 years is a long time. She's gonna need it. :(
 

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:whoa: relax. My bad.

Is the chick you're about throw in the bushes the chick you're always complaining about?
Seems like you hate her. Maybe you do. You kept saying you never wanted to get married and you've been with her for 10 years(?) and you know a chick for 6 months and you're calling her your future wife.

:whew: I feel sorry for your current girl.

be a girlfriend for 10 years, brehettes.

:wow:
 

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Doesn't sound like you love her. I don't know, I don't think someone that loves the person their with would be calling another person that they don't know that well their future spouse. But, that's just me. Good luck though. hope it works out.

Give your current girl a hug for me though. She's gonna be hurting for a while, maybe forever. 10 years is a long time. She's gonna need it. :(

Respectfully, don't tell me how I feel.
 

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My current girl...

To be quite honest, she approached me in a subtle way at first. I knew her back from HS, we wasn't really friends, just "hi" and "byes" back then. A friend a mine invited me over to this little get together he had and she was there. I spent more time talking to her because I haven't really seen her since HS. And she was looking right, so that helped. And she was gangsta about the way she came at me though. I was caught off guard at first but I embraced that shyt. We exchanged numbers, I didn't think nothing of it until she called me and told me where to be at as she was going take me out :ohmy: I thought that was dope, I end up paying for everything of course but that was dope. We been good since. And I like where it's going.

The girl made me breakfast man, and I'm a vegan...she tried...Keeper
 

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What do you mean? We had a good run. Helped each other grow and mature. Have some great memories, but the thing has just run it's course. It's always funny to me when people look at past relationships as "time wasted" if they don't result in marriage.

how old are you?

It really is though. that is a significant part of your life and baggage you will carry pretty much forever.

i mean if u don't want to be with her its better u just leave man. don't stay with someone just for comfort.
 

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how old are you?

It really is though. that is a significant part of your life and baggage you will carry pretty much forever.

i mean if u don't want to be with her its better u just leave man. don't stay with someone just for comfort.

34.

We're always growing, always changing. Yea, it's a significant part of my life. It would be no more or less "a waste" had I been single or had I been dating a dozen girls over that same time period. The time was going to pass either way and I could have learned different things or had different experiences, but that was my path. I won't ever look back on it with regret. That seems sad that people do that. Again, what we had was great, I just feel that it's run it's course.
 

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Been trying to work up the testicular fortitude to do it for the last 9 months. Something always comes up or the time never seems right. Whether or not I end up w/ the new chick, there's no way I'm spending the rest of my life w/ the old chick so...



Who knows maybe she's just destined to be a good friend or to show me what else is out there in terms of happiness but I am motivated.

I don't think there is ever a right time to leave somebody. I think staying in unhappy relationships are draining. But whatever is best for you guys, its your situation :salute:You are doing things the right way I think.

i came in here and just had to say dat you look like da black sideshow bob. :patrice:

thank you

Bob's hair had body :ld:
 
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