How effed up is it that almost the most important decision in life is made at age 17?

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One can argue that it doesnt have to be the most important because there are other options....but how messed up is it that at age 17, they make highschool students choose what they want to do in life, where they want to do it, and how they must make it happen in terms of student debt. As a 21 year old now looking back at the 17 year old self...although i made a decent choice as far as where to go, love the field of Finance and am debt free so far I still regret not picking a different school which I am trying to transfer to after my internship.


My concern is just that they dont supply kids with the knowledge needed to make these decisions. Debt is something obviously foreign to these kids so I wont even speak on that. But at them university fairs, you just have a bunch of schools that for some reason have the right to claim theyre the best in this, this and that...when in all actuality are considered laughing stocks when it comes to the industry you wanna get into. The average student takes this shyt like :krs: and runs with it because even magazine ratings dont offer much knowledge, and at that point all you really know about for research is google and each individual schools website which will hold even more bullshyt.

Combine that with parents who dont wanna pay for their kids to live in dorm rooms or off campus housing away from home you have kids choosing universities they think are good....but more so for the convenience.

I see people at work and they're depressed saying they went to X University and had a 4.0 GPA thinking theyd be hittin...then they are un for a rude awakening because they werent in a target school. :snoop: I refuse to end up like them :to:.

A damn shame. Once upon a time you could have people that came off farms to work admin jobs at banks, then rise up to be the managing director of commodities trading @ Citi with nothing but a high school diploma at the beginnings :rudy: . Now you need that, a bachelors, 2 years experience at a great institution, extracurriculars and to know someone to be on the interview list full of 50 other students.Read about it all the time on Bloomberg when it comes to some of these execs. SMH.
 

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To me you only need to go to school for professional designations/ fields. Fnance, accounting, medcine, law, engineering, info tech etc.

Those parents forcing students to hit hp university just to do it...whether its sociology, social work,or liber arts are in for a rude awakening man. Can be learning trades as a substitute and actually contributing to society.
 

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When I graduated high school, I was given the choice to either go to college or be excommunicated by my family.

I wish I could go back and tell my younger self "fukk yo family, nikka!"

But to be fair, my mom wasnt trying to force me to go just because.

She told everybody it was so I can make "Us" some money. Greedy bytch.

But anyway, I've always thought it was amazing how many people think having ANY kind of degree means you have the Philosopher's Stone and can turn lead into gold.

shyt is a trap perpetuated by "dumb" people who sit and dream of the riches they would have if they were "smart".

To me you only need to go to school for professional designations/ fields. Fnance, accounting, medcine, law, engineering, info tech etc.

Those parents forcing students to hit hp university just to do it...whether its sociology, social work,or liber arts are in for a rude awakening man. Can be learning trades as a substitute and actually contributing to society.

exactly.
 

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I read your post. You're not alone i bet most peiple use the same sorta rationale. I picked mine because its consistently rated top 100 in the world by megazines like TIME. Little did i know that top 100 school doesnt mean top business program. As a result i didnt apply to canadas best business school because its a rumored party school and i didn't want the distractions.
 

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for thousands of years of human history you were considered a man from around 13-15, and the vast majority of the time your path in life with pre-determined.

Enjoy the opportunities and choices you have, and quit being a typical American bytch :birdman:
 

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for thousands of years of human history you were considered a man from around 13-15, and the vast majority of the time your path in life with pre-determined.

Enjoy the opportunities and choices you have, and quit being a typical American bytch :birdman:

Life was simpler back then. People were groomed differently, life was shorter and it only proves my point. Back then you didnt have to go to four years of college and high school yet you could still rule your civilization breh. If you read the og post innfull youd get my sentiment. The wasnt an economy as we know ot today. Apples and oranges. Even in the 60s you didnt need all this shyt.
 

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Life was simpler back then. People were groomed differently, life was shorter and it only proves my point. Back then you didnt have to go to four years of college and high school yet you could still rule your civilization breh. The wasnt an economy as we know ot today. Apples and oranges. Even in the 60s you didnt need all this shyt.

Fair enough, but at the same time we are given so many choices, so many options that often we feel entitled to shyt that we don't deserve. Not everyone loves what they do to make a living. Its called life.
 
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