Men and women, especially young, need to procreate with suitable partners based on merit and character and less on trivial desires such as looks, sexual prowess, fantasy lifestyles, etc.
The dating game in our communities is very fierce these days, meaning there are a lot of people linking up and having children with individuals they are not compatible with, but they check all the trivial desire boxes, which further creates dysfunctional households when the children are born. Y'know sex, looks, fantasies, and shyt.
For example, a woman might seek and have a baby with a man who's over 6ft feet and he checks all the boxes in terms of his appearance and sexual prowess, but when it comes to merit, and by that I mean he has no job, barely has a home/apartment that he could call his own, lack of education, etc but also the character, and when I say that, I mean he's bum in the sense that he's not a good person (selfish/self-centered), a user/freeloader, lacks everything else that could make him a worthy man, a suitable partner when it's time to be a family man, y'know husband and/or father material.