How do you get arousal from someone your not attracted to?

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I am facing this dilemma and now it's basically unavoidable. I've been leading on this one girl cuz she works at an airport and I can fly for the super cheap, first class anywhere round trip is like $400 dollars and she be hooking me up with free flights. Well, now we're going to do our first big trip together and I just can't bring myself to fukk this girl. It's to a destination I've always dreamed of going, so I will finally be able to scratch it off my bucket list. I honestly don't know what I'm going to do. I intend on getting drunk every night and having whisky dikk each and every time, just cuddle her until we both go to sleep. But there is nothing sexually attractive about this girl. Zero. She is like Vanessa off of the Bernie Mack show but with even less sex appeal. But she has been making plenty of hints that she expects some dikk. :mjcry:
 

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I am facing this dilemma and now it's basically unavoidable. I've been leading on this one girl cuz she works at an airport and I can fly for the super cheap, first class anywhere round trip is like $400 dollars and she be hooking me up with free flights. Well, now we're going to do our first big trip together and I just can't bring myself to fukk this girl. It's to a destination I've always dreamed of going, so I will finally be able to scratch it off my bucket list. I honestly don't know what I'm going to do. I intend on getting drunk every night and having whisky dikk each and every time, just cuddle her until we both go to sleep. But there is nothing sexually attractive about this girl. Zero. She is like Vanessa off of the Bernie Mack show but with even less sex appeal. But she has been making plenty of hints that she expects some dikk. :mjcry:

You shouldn't have let it go that far lol

Just bring some Cialis and hope the liquor makes her more attractive
 

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I need to know.

My girl ain’t lost the Covid weight, and I be wanting to fukk less and less. She won’t go to the gym for any extended period of time… I love her, but it’s getting rough out here.

Didn’t make it any easier when she brought up adding a third. She picked the girl, shawty was game and was just my type, but all three of our schedules never lined up. . . So….. I took it as a pass and ran with it (by myself).

I’m to old for this behavior.

:snoop:
 

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Happened to me one time:francis:.

Jawn I talked to from Jersey a while back wanted me to come through. So I took the Transit up to the spot and lost my PSP in the process. She met me and looked like wet clothes hanging from a umbrella.

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We fukked and she wanted me to spend the night. I digress the offer while she was rubbing my arm.

Got on the Transit and never looked back again:hubie:

To this very day I felt like a b*stard for that because I should have just chilled and watch some cartoon with the jawn, but my dikk had a mind of its own at the age of 23:hubie:
 

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Happened to me one time:francis:.

Jawn I talked to from Jersey a while back wanted me to come through. So I took the Transit up to the spot and lost my PSP in the process. She met me and looked like wet clothes hanging from a umbrella.

animedisappointed.gif

We fukked and she wanted me to spend the night. I digress the offer while she was rubbing my arm.

Got on the Transit and never looked back again:hubie:

To this very day I felt like a b*stard for that because I should have just chilled and watch some cartoon with the jawn, but my dikk had a mind of its own at the age of 23:hubie:
U were able to get it up?
 

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I need to know.

My girl ain’t lost the Covid weight, and I be wanting to fukk less and less. She won’t go to the gym for any extended period of time… I love her, but it’s getting rough out here.

Didn’t make it any easier when she brought up adding a third. She picked the girl, shawty was game and was just my type, but all three of our schedules never lined up. . . So….. I took it as a pass and ran with it (by myself).

I’m to old for this behavior.

:snoop:
So u had sex with the other person?
 

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some people just got that "it" factor i.e. charisma, style, humor, etc.

for example i've never found cardi b to be attractive but she does have that something that made her a name even before she started dropping music
Yeah idk what it is but some women are just sexy

Even women who are ugly or not conventionally attractive. It’s just something about the way they carry themselves.

It’s even worse when she’s actually fine asf :damn:

Like when they walk into a room you can sense it, very strange.
 

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I need to know.

My girl ain’t lost the Covid weight, and I be wanting to fukk less and less. She won’t go to the gym for any extended period of time… I love her, but it’s getting rough out here.

Didn’t make it any easier when she brought up adding a third. She picked the girl, shawty was game and was just my type, but all three of our schedules never lined up. . . So….. I took it as a pass and ran with it (by myself).

I’m to old for this behavior.

:snoop:
Put a corset on her when fucming, if she gained weight its gonna make her ass look fatter
 

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what about her isn't attractive? face? specific body parts? vibe? attitude? If it's one of these it's easy for the rest to still make you be aroused by a woman so it's not surprising.
 

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Yeah idk what it is but some women are just sexy

Even women who are ugly or not conventionally attractive. It’s just something about the way they carry themselves.

It’s even worse when she’s actually fine asf :damn:

Like when they walk into a room you can sense it, very strange.

i wouldnt say nene leakes is ugly but i dont normally like reality tv birds or black women with blonde hair. i would beat the breaks off that tho

or dana bash from cnn. look like a dog in the face but theres something about her.
 
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