How do you feel about your sig other's social media followers?

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I just find it hard to believe that women in committed loving relationships are on instagram posting selfies of themselves daily and their loving husband or bf is OK with it.

You want me to start directing you to their accounts or something?
 

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I just find it hard to believe that women in committed loving relationships are on instagram posting selfies of themselves daily and their loving husband or bf is OK with it.
Yes, some men are secure and they don't try to control their women when they KNOW for a fact that she's loyal, faithful, committed, honest, and 100% about her man....especially if she's not even posting tasteless pics of herself. If you know that your s/o is a good woman and all about you, will you really obsess/care that much about her selfies?
 

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Actually I'm fine being single.

I've been celibate for 3 years, yeah I'll casual go out on a date to a movie or whatever. But I'm not looking and life is enjoyable :banderas:

:duck:

Ultimately, no one wants to be single...come on!
 

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Actually I'm fine being single.

I've been celibate for 3 years, yeah I'll casual go out on a date to a movie or whatever. But I'm not looking and life is enjoyable :banderas:
I'm fine being single too...and being celibate as well...not saying that you cannot be happy with your current situation, but eventually, everyone wants to find that special someone...maybe it will come at a later point in life.
 

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Shaming tactics.

Its not control its respect, its like if I'm dating a girl but I'm on a dating site but only looking for friends :childplease:

Many women nowadays can't conform to the leadership of a man. Its disrespectful to be married or in covenant with someone and continue on living like you were single. Continue on posting those pictures, getting likes and random men giving you the :shaq: the :noah: while you giggle and look.





Yes, some men are secure and they don't try to control their women when they KNOW for a fact that she's loyal, faithful, committed, honest, and 100% about her man....especially if she's not even posting tasteless pics of herself. If you know that your s/o is a good woman and all about you, will you really obsess/care that much about her selfies?
 

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Shaming tactics.

Its not control its respect, its like if I'm dating a girl but I'm on a dating site but only looking for friends :childplease:

Many women nowadays can't conform to the leadership of a man. Its disrespectful to be married or in covenant with someone and continue on living like you were single. Continue on posting those pictures, getting likes and random men giving you the :shaq: the :noah: while you giggle and look.

Agreed, but that doesn't mean you can't make your IG private and just have it there for your close friends/family....posting a selfie isn't the problem, it's how you're conducting yourself. If you're posting selfies while flirting with random men, then I understand.
 

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Not me.

Being tied down to a decaying fossil is the life for some not me.

Average first marriage = 7 years

I'm fine being single too...and being celibate as well...not saying that you cannot be happy with your current situation, but eventually, everyone wants to find that special someone...maybe it will come at a later point in life.
 

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Not me.

Being tied down to a decaying fossil is the life for some not me.

Average first marriage = 7 years

It's sad when people base their lives on statistics. I'm not saying that to offend you or judge you. I'm just saying what I think. I've always grown up with the idea that I can defy statistics...doesn't mean you will always come out on top, but to avoid something because you truly believe you cannot be the exception is just not something I even think about.
 

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The moment your girl says she wants any social media account, you lost.
 

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So should a man be secure and let his women go to the club with the girls?


Agreed, but that doesn't mean you can't make your IG private and just have it there for your close friends/family....posting a selfie isn't the problem, it's how you're conducting yourself. If you're posting selfies while flirting with random men, then I understand.
 
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