how do you brehs deal with other Black people who are color struck ?

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Matter of fact, i do remember once having an argument with my little sis who was goddamn 12 or so at the time. She black as a mothafukka, amazing complexion before puberty hit her. Our family has some issues with eczema and she would break out in blotches if she was in the sun too much over time.

I was telling her how she was lucky she had even-toned dark skin(my skin is fukking 5 different shades depending where you look) and she was arguing "im not dark skinned":wtf:Like I was cussing at her.
This went on for damn 10 minutes. Obviously i couldnt quite articulate why i found it frustrating she said that, so i dont know if anything positive came of it, but thinking back that shyt was surreal. You couldnt get much darker than she was. She definitely didnt get that from the family, so i always wondered who she was around to have her convinced it was a bad thing, unless it was 100% subliminal. White girls all over tv with long manes and fair skin and whatnot, showing a shortage of dark skinned role models for the sorts of things she was interested, even though my mom went out of her way to keep things black in the household.

That aint shyt breh. I hear my lil sis refer to herself as "my white ass" . That's unacceptable in my book and I dont even fukk with her like that . She too far gone
 

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well ive seen it from both sides, I get called red and yellow by strange men, ive been asked if i was mixed and refered to a "blackish" by a poster on here, but on one side of my family im the darkest one and get treated like i sullied the family genealogy.
Ugh, the ill-worded "red/yellowbone" shyt. I have always hated those terms, as they made no sense to me. Obviously when i was young and thought of red, i thought native american, and yellow i always thought oriental:francis: I have a middle sister that is high-yellow like Tisha Campbell who was always referred to as "sunshine".
The white in her side of the family was 2 generations removed but she came out super light. I never asked her how people reacted to her outside of our home, but i did see instances of her being approached by black males on some "yellowbone" tip. Usually the absolute darkest brothas too:wtf: Our family dont put up withnonsense
So i can only imagine the ether she dropped. People say creepy things to people they perceive as "exotic" for sure.

To be fair though, a lot of issues that should be discussed in the Black community are primarily discussed online, meaning only a small percentage of the Black community are participants, which is also an issue.
You know what, you have to be right on is one. It would make sense because for the most part people cant openly discuss these things, not because people wont talk about it, but because everyones perspectives are a bit skewed on it. My mom spoke openly about racism in our house (even though she would say some cringeworthy shyt about other races that made me take her opinion with a grain of salt) but colorism was not a conversation, as most of it seems subconscious rather than overt. Hard to call something out when you have been born to find it the norm.
 
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well ive seen it from both sides, I get called red and yellow by strange men, ive been asked if i was mixed and refered to a "blackish" by a poster on here, but on one side of my family im the darkest one and get treated like i sullied the family genealogy.

:mjlol: yellowbone. My lil sis nickname within the family (aunts and uncles) was Beige


Beige :mjlol:
 

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That aint shyt breh. I hear my lil sis refer to herself as "my white ass" . That's unacceptable in my book and I dont even fukk with her like that . She too far gone
God, this ain't nearly the same, but i caught the nickname "whiteboy" after i geeked out cause a kid brought a skateboard to school one day...i happened to be able to do a handful of tricks:francis:

It was one of the most puzzling and lowkey hurtful things because while i felt comfortable with all races, i knew who i was even as a kid, but i wondered if i was "black enough" if everyone questioned my choice of words and style of dress and what i was into.
 
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God, this ain't nearly the same, but i caught the nickname "whiteboy" after i geeked out cause a kid brought a skateboard to school one day...i happened to be able to do a handful of tricks:francis:

It was one of the most puzzling and lowkey hurtful things because while i felt comfortable with all races, i knew who i was even as a kid, but i wondered if i was "black enough" if everyone questioned my choice of words and style of dress and what i was into.

You must be from some country ass deer eatin town .

In Cali , there's hella black skateboarders . Even more so back when I was growing up because of Tony Hawk Pro Skater , Skate ,etc
Skatin is dope, I just cant even ollie :francis:
 

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My new doctor always talks about my "good hair" :francis:

Whenever she brings it up I just give an awkward laugh
 

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You must be from some country ass deer eatin town .

In Cali , there's hella black skateboarders . Even more so back when I was growing up because of Tony Hawk Pro Skater , Skate ,etc
Skatin is dope, I just cant even ollie :francis:
Nah, im in the dead center of Chicago:russ: The people i was hanging out with at the time though were hood as fukk:francis: They gave me shyt at every turn. Next thing you know, one of them guys start auditioning for school plays:wtf: The other was drawing anime:mindblown:Even got to do a mural for the school and a design of the senior yearbook:mindblown: Like damn. Call dudes lame for liking shyt then turn into artists:russ: Skateboarding was popping with black kids as hard yet back in early 2000s until Tony Hawks Pro Skater dropped. About that time brothas stopped hating so damn much and traded loitering on corners for hanging at the skateparks. And ollies are easy:ahh:
 
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