Really its just an excuse for your woman to fukk other men without feeling bad about it and using you as a meal ticket. One thing you notice in a lot of these swinger relationships is that the man is the one who is in control of all or most of the money. She thinks your sex game is weak and she doesn't want to spend the rest of her life without knowing what a Lex Steele dikk feel like.
We've got a generation of females running around who aren't being raised right and their pop culture icons are the hoes from Jersey Shore, Kim K, and various other girls who derive their worth as individuals from the most valuable dikk they sucked(Kim K), how many dikks they suck(Snooki), or how big the dikk they suck ought to be(Pamela Anderson)
These dudes need to recognize that what their daddy/granddad/great granddad/uncles were telling them was truth--real game. You cannot turn a ho into a housewife. She'll either be upfront with her cheating(claiming she wants to be a swinger) or she'll be looking for men on some one night stand shyt off of POF or craigslist while you're at work or out of town. Soon as you feel like your girl has some ho-ish tendencies you charge her ass to the game and get yourself a woman who's got a good head on her shoulders.