How do we feel about swinging/swinger's lifestyle??

[Isaiah Bradley]

That shyt is hustlin backwards to me. If you wanna do that, stay single. You can get a new broad every weekend @ the club if you try/have money/are buff or decent looking. If I waste my time settling down, the fukk am I gonna go pass my girl around and get with other nikkas bytches for? I don't share my girls well either. (Intentionally at least, )


I don't hate on people that do it though, if thats what it takes for your relationship to work, then go for it. Everyone spices their shyt up in their own way. It's to me though. I would throw my broad in the if she told me she was/is/wants to be a swinger.

but what if you want a family and azz on the side once in awhile, cheat on your spouse? or have a spouse who is real about shyt like that

the only reason nikkas don't co-sign polygamy is because society does not co-sign it, not because it's wrong or indecent. In other words, most of our views/opinions on the world are a product of societal pressures

 

[HelgaPataki]

Really its just an excuse for your woman to fukk other men without feeling bad about it and using you as a meal ticket. One thing you notice in a lot of these swinger relationships is that the man is the one who is in control of all or most of the money. She thinks your sex game is weak and she doesn't want to spend the rest of her life without knowing what a Lex Steele dikk feel like.

We've got a generation of females running around who aren't being raised right and their pop culture icons are the hoes from Jersey Shore, Kim K, and various other girls who derive their worth as individuals from the most valuable dikk they sucked(Kim K), how many dikks they suck(Snooki), or how big the dikk they suck ought to be(Pamela Anderson)

These dudes need to recognize that what their daddy/granddad/great granddad/uncles were telling them was truth--real game. You cannot turn a ho into a housewife. She'll either be upfront with her cheating(claiming she wants to be a swinger) or she'll be looking for men on some one night stand shyt on POF or craigslist while you're at work or out of town. Soon as you feel like your girl has some ho-ish tendencies you charge her ass to the game and get yourself a woman who's got a good head on her shoulders.

a lot of times the husband turns the wife to this life. some parties require the guy to bring a female since so many men are interested and try to attend.

 

[kash10003]

some people believe in it and thats fine, i think its a lot more problems than what its worth, but I'm pretty distrusting of people

but the people on this thread are just bored. all the talk about oh what if you want tail on the side and what not, trust me nikka you gonna be a lot more jealous of your woman than she is of you, and she gone take half

 

[Ohms Law]

but what if you want a family and azz on the side once in awhile, cheat on your spouse? or have a spouse who is real about shyt like that

the only reason nikkas don't co-sign polygamy is because society does not co-sign it, not because it's wrong or indecent. In other words, most of our views/opinions on the world are a product of societal pressures

The main reason guys don't cosign polygamy is because they don't want another guys jizz all in their spouse's mouth. WTF are you talking about.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

The main reason guys don't cosign polygamy is because they don't want another guys jizz all in their spouse's mouth. WTF are you talking about.

Polygamy is when a man has multiple wives, not the other way around. That's polyandry. Some people argue that because most animals try to spread their seed across different partners, it is natural for men to have multiple partners. Its a fairly strong argument considering that Polygamy has occured across several different cultures around the planet.

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

Nah, I could never. Someone always catches feelings.

 

[kevm3]

Joint is wack to me. All of 'that stuff' can happen outside of swinging but why in the world are you going to willingly give that behavior a pass?

 

[Rawtid]

I'm always concerned with the spread of disease anytime people step outside of their relationships willingly or not.

 

[dr. pill biden]

I don't care what kind of lifestyle consenting adults choose to take part in. Most swingers are in their 40s and up so they've already finished the "marital bliss" and child rearing portion of their lives, so if you have two like-minded people together that could be a lot of fun.

 

[Numpsay]

Been there done that. Its only for the most secure of people though, if one of the two partners has an ounce of insecurity then it isn't going to work. The swinger crowd is an older crowd though 35+ and people of those ages aren't attractive to me. They are cool as fukk though, and most are established business people so they don't mind throwing money around. The young people are few and far in between. My hoe and me at the time mainly used it for her to find other bytches to have sex with. We mainly soft swapped, full swapped once just for the experience. I got a bad ass island bytch, she got a fat overweight black dude.

 

[Isaiah Bradley]

The main reason guys don't cosign polygamy is because they don't want another guys jizz all in their spouse's mouth. WTF are you talking about.

you know what polygamy is?

 

[Isaiah Bradley]

Been there done that. Its only for the most secure of people though, if one of the two partners has an ounce of insecurity then it isn't going to work. The swinger crowd is an older crowd though 35+ and people of those ages aren't attractive to me. They are cool as fukk though, and most are established business people so they don't mind throwing money around. The young people are few and far in between. My hoe and me at the time mainly used it for her to find other bytches to have sex with. We mainly soft swapped, full swapped once just for the experience. I got a bad ass island bytch, she got a fat overweight black dude.

speak on that bloody cuz....how were you invited?

 

[lachreyatarbabypits]

 

[LezJepzin]

I consider myself as a swinger (see other thread about swinging) based on all the parties that I've attended but I can't do this if I'm in a relationship. I can't even think about it. The last time I was dating someone, I wouldn't even consider it. Maybe its my values, YES values. Plus I'm a selfish lover. I can't have my girl banging random dudes . and I can't do the same either when I'm in a relationship. Especially having intimacy like in a relationship. There isn't that in "The Lifestyle". Just fukking and sucking.

I've met a married couple who met while swinging and a woman who got knocked up/had a baby with her swinger friend and there's too many woman who are NOT into this out there to wife up. Even if they were, they need to be on the same page as me when we get into a relationship. It just makes no sense to consider yourself as a happily MARRIED couple to me to still do this though.

 

[Danie84]

More power to them.

However, it's not how I swing.