How do we feel about swinging/swinger's lifestyle??

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With the decline in traditional family values, more people are redefining their husband/wife relationship.

I would like to know how taboo swinging is on the Coli (minus the trolls).

Do you ever see yourselves taking part?

If you know people who lead that kind of lifestyle, how do you feel about it?

I'm 100% against it and don't know how people allow their wife to get fukked in front of them. If it gets to the point where ''the spark just died'' we might as well go our separate ways.
 

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I dono bout myself personally...but I know a married couple who swings n by golly maybe it's the key to a successful marriage :manny: they seem
Happy enough....I mean aren't secrets and cheating behind someone's back ultimately what kills a relationship? If u can cope w the fact that u share that girl , do u



Ps I don't think they watch each other have sex w other ppl tho
 

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Not something i would ever involve myself in. Not only because i wouldn't want a spouse getting rammed by random guys :skip: but also because i no longer has to urge to be sleeping with multiple women. Learned early in life that lust really gets you nowhere.
The swinger lifestyle is something i don't think il ever understand.
If being sexually free means so much to you, why even get into a relationship?
:manny: really. People are just different i guess. Still doesn't make much, if any sense.
 
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absolutely.

Like I said before, an old head put perspective in my life when he said that if you could control you emotions and insecurity at the thought of your girl fawking another dude, then you've lowered your chances of catching a case by 75%

If you could masturbate to the thought, congrats, you are a Jedi Knight with ice cold water running through your veins

Swinger lifestyle, suggest an open and honest relationship, where both folks admit some side sex only compliments the relationship. No ego, no insecurity, and no cheating :wow:

I just gotta find the right bytches though
 

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absolutely.

Like I said before, an old head put perspective in my life when he said that if you could control you emotions and insecurity at the thought of your girl fawking another dude, then you've lowered your chances of catching a case by 75%

If you could masturbate to the thought, congrats, you are a Jedi Knight with ice cold water running through your veins

Swinger lifestyle, suggest an open and honest relationship, where both folks admit some side sex only compliments the relationship. No ego, no insecurity, and no cheating :wow:

I just gotta find the right bytches though

So youre down for this huh.
What happens when she catches the herp and gives it to you?
What happens when she accidentally gets knocked up?
What happens when she swallows the others guy nut that afternoon, and kisses you on the mouth that evening?
Whats happens when you friends and family find out your girl whores herself out for free with your blessing?
What happens ? :ld:
 

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:heh: You know what i mean though.

Yeah fair enough I do

In theory it would be great to have both a loving relationship and also fukk bytches whenever - but I couldn't handle the jealousy I don't think - or as you say the social stigma

:manny:
 

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So youre down for this huh.
What happens when she catches the herp and gives it to you?
What happens when she accidentally gets knocked up?
What happens when she swallows the others guy nut that afternoon, and kisses you on the mouth that evening?
Whats happens when you friends and family find out your girl whores herself out for free with your blessing?
What happens ? :ld:

:childplease::rudy:

All of dat shyt can happen with/without eam bein apart of a swinger's lifestyle brosephs.
 
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That shyt is hustlin backwards to me. If you wanna do that, stay single. You can get a new broad every weekend @ the club if you try/have money/are buff or decent looking. If I waste my time settling down, the fukk am I gonna go pass my girl around and get with other nikkas bytches for? I don't share my girls well either. (Intentionally at least, :to:)


I don't hate on people that do it though, if thats what it takes for your relationship to work, then go for it. Everyone spices their shyt up in their own way. It's :scusthov: to me though. I would throw my broad in the :trash: if she told me she was/is/wants to be a swinger. :birdman:
 
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no. the guys are :flabbynsick: there are so many of them in comparison to women i'd feel like a piece of cheese in a room full of roaches with the lights off
 
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So youre down for this huh.
What happens when she catches the herp and gives it to you?
What happens when she accidentally gets knocked up?
What happens when she swallows the others guy nut that afternoon, and kisses you on the mouth that evening?
Whats happens when you friends and family find out your girl whores herself out for free with your blessing?
What happens ? :ld:

:childplease::rudy:

All of dat shyt can happen with/without eam bein apart of a swinger's lifestyle brosephs.
 

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Really its just an excuse for your woman to fukk other men without feeling bad about it and using you as a meal ticket. One thing you notice in a lot of these swinger relationships is that the man is the one who is in control of all or most of the money. She thinks your sex game is weak and she doesn't want to spend the rest of her life without knowing what a Lex Steele dikk feel like.

We've got a generation of females running around who aren't being raised right and their pop culture icons are the hoes from Jersey Shore, Kim K, and various other girls who derive their worth as individuals from the most valuable dikk they sucked(Kim K), how many dikks they suck(Snooki), or how big the dikk they suck ought to be(Pamela Anderson) :snoop:

These dudes need to recognize that what their daddy/granddad/great granddad/uncles were telling them was truth--real game. You cannot turn a ho into a housewife. She'll either be upfront with her cheating(claiming she wants to be a swinger) or she'll be looking for men on some one night stand shyt off of POF or craigslist while you're at work or out of town. Soon as you feel like your girl has some ho-ish tendencies you charge her ass to the game and get yourself a woman who's got a good head on her shoulders.
 
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