How do men expect women to be sweet, innocent and modest if...

[Art Barr]

I've addressed this already and you're right. As crass as this may sound it has to be said: You don't want him to cheat, you just want to know he can. I'm saying as soon as you find out a man is using you to learn how to please women, you value him less and look for alternatives. And that's natural.


What a message board dude says he wants and what he actually accepts in real life have nothing in common. Men in general (but on the internet in particular) are very vocal about the ideals they desire. They may even act like that's what they require in their personal life. People are full of shyt. That's not gonna change.

But it's important to know the difference between men vocalizing their ideals (concerning looks or 'values') and women truly requiring a man who's got some reasonable experience with women. Women need that whether or not they vocalize it. It's essential. It's not grandstanding from message board geeks.

And because of that, visual manifestations of that attract women. The best way to get women is to go out with an attractive platonic female friend. The best wingman there is.

man, the best way to go out and get females is by yourself and hunt.
fukk all that wingman, bullshyt.

you go hunt by your cotdamn self., breh.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

If he had everything else in order, I could work with a virgin. You can learn to get better at sex. A man being a whore doesnt guarantee him fukking like a sex gawd.

an experienced guy is always looking for the female suitor to give the premium to.
the problem is, the female to give the premium to is few and far between.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

My girl told me she'd would of never fukked with me if I was a virgin and it's a man jobs to fukk so he has experience. She's pretty much the definition of good woman too. Light skin, educated, virgin when I met her and she cooks.

a virgin,....

man, i can't stand female virgins.
shyt is huff as hell, fukk'n a virgin, and they have to many sexual inhibitions and no sexual maturity or sexual security.


fukk all that bullshyt,.....
i need that female beast in the bed...i don't have time to be teaching rampup booster courses.

i already lived that shyt for sixteen plus months, and it was huff as hell.
had to have whole roster of other wack in the sack broads to fill fullfilled everyday.

give me that one beast in the bed, who knows how to keep social tranquility and i am good.


art barr

*enjoys sleeping in his own bed,....


art barr
*would enjoy ditching this wack roster of non beasts in the bed for that one beast in the bed, with no hesitation.

 

[Art Barr]

because its no secret that some men have slept with tons of women but still suck in the bed. You have to realize that not every woman is going to be honest with a man and tell him he sucks.

a real man, is not asking for a report card on his sexual performance from a female.
the dude asking question about what his dikk do to a female is an insecure lame.
why would a self respecting male ask how his performance was.

a self respecting male is not going to ask you about his performance.
he is just going to make another sexual advance to fukk you again.

if you as a female desire a better output, maybe you as a female need to know how to trigger said performance out of said male.

that is what a female.
who is a beast in the bed is about, and always on......

any broad complaining about bad sex, is wack as hell in the bed, and an inexperienced lame.
who don't know how to turn up, and get her guy to turn up.
plus, has sexual security issues.





art barr

 

[Captain Crunch]

man, the best way to go out and get females is by yourself and hunt.
fukk all that wingman, bullshyt.

you go hunt by your cotdamn self., breh.


art barr

Clubs are included in this?

 

[Art Barr]

BS! There are genuinely good guys and moral guys out there who isn't just trying to "smash" anything that looks decent with a vagina. Believe it or not some males have a higher conscious than that. You fukking douche.

that is why females don't date the nice guy.
nice guys are only nice, to get a reward.
that is a fact,......
being a nice guy is beta.

females know they lack and operate on illogical ideals from slave mentality.
so, they institute period of false logic to learn how to follow real logic from a guy.
a nice guy will disassociate himself from said logic.
to hopefully reap the spoils of being nice.

which females find disengenuine and why they term the nice guy in a deragatory fashion.

females deal with the socalled a$$hole, or the person who typically operates in a logical fashion.
females use this as a way to strengthen their social understanding of the world.

females will always follow men.
so, when you follow the illogical lead a female purposefully knows is illogical.
she will not follow you, because you are disallowing logic.
she knows is supposed to be present regardless of her ills.
which she then will deem you as a niceguy, and untrustworthy further down the line.
after garnering whatever spoils from her, as a reward for being nice.


also,..since females are and still suffer from slave mentality.
you have to realize they are after the spoils and on the take, as reparations.
so, they also shun the nice guy.
as it is easier to take and place blame on the so-called mean guy.
to cover up their nefarious ideas and execution of the take.





art barr

 

[Art Barr]

Clubs are included in this?

hell, the fukk yes.

i damn near, went out to the club everyday by my damn self from twenty to twenty six.
you don't need no wingman at the club.
plus, how you gon take a female to the tel, or back to her crib.
when you got some cotdamn wingman, there.

you hunt by your cotdamn, self.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

but you dont get what im saying? there is women that are so attractive that they will get hit on from anyone, anywhere. And really they have plenty to pick from. its the same with men who are extremely attractive. i get what you are saying but looks play a factor. dont front. take for example @Phoenix_Knightly23 she is very pretty and plenty of guys simp her. If this was not the internet and everyone was face to face. most of you guys would be going after her and she could take her pick out of the men to see who she wanted. But if she was ugly she couldn't do that.Because they guy wouldnt be checking for her.

hey @Phoenix_Knightly23

real talk,...
who da fukk is, phoenix_knightly23?


i don't come on here to find no mate.
only reason we need to validate a female's pix.
is so, we know she is not that fukk'n amphibian transsexual ass nikka, ****.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

Marriage will always be special, sacred and valuable. Whether or not people see it that way is another story.

females killed the idea of marriage by using it to be on the take.
instead of generally and genuinely wanting the married life.

marriage is dead, and females killed't it.


art barr

* former illinios state divorce attorney exam manager...

 

[Art Barr]

If you're putting an emphasis on sex as a basis to marry someone you're already losing and it's best you not be married anyway.

it is always about mating first, period.

after you find a mate,...
if you are compatible in a fifty fifty corporate merger.
with an incredible social dynamic is the only time you should be getting married.
the reason why marriage is dead is because it became a method to take, and not about being in a fifty fifty merger with a heterosexual lover.

art barr

 

[Art Barr]

It's a lot easier to find a respectable man than it is a sweet, innocent and modest woman. The latter is a thing of past history.

JR WRITER : REAL!!!



art barr

 

[KinksandCoils]

you should not be having conversations about your sexual past to a possible suitor or a confirmed mate.
as, it can breed heat, and contempt.
leading to self imposed mistrust and change the ebb and flow of a possible stable relationship.

anyway,...fifteen women at twenty three is not a lot.

from fifteen to twenty he could have slept with three woman a year.
which is a woman every four months.
you just are sexually immature.
so. you have and pose these questions or create a avenue for this type of convo.
when, it is none of your business.
only way your sexual history is known.
is if you have a sex industry trade job.

then, the person has no virtue and is incapable of having a committment based relationship, period.
any person entertaining a sex trade worker.
as a mate on a committed level is a vic.

if a person is not selling their virtue.
or creating a price list as a requirement to committ or find a mate.
then, you should have no problem with them as a possible suitor.
nor, should you be asking questions pertaining to their sexual history.

art barr

Wrong. One I haven't slept with a lot of men so my sexual history isn't bad. Two me and the guy started off as real cool friends and it came up. We could talk about anything 15 women isn't horrible but it's not selective in my opinion like he was making it seem

 

[KinksandCoils]

this is the begining in why you have issues finding a mate.
you don't have any actual fukk'n standards.
you need to develop some levels of attraction.
all that i don't care how a person looks is complete the talk of a developing gold digger or roster builder.
who either has lost her virtue from a pisspoor relationship.
or on the cusp to losing her virtue.
by giving into chasing after the ugly type, with no standards.
then, basing her type on other auxilliary factors that have nuffin to do with mating.
which is a lack of virtue.


art barr

I guess your know it all smart ass didn't see the other post where I said what I wanted in a man

 

[KinksandCoils]

How can some of you get upset when men make blanket statements and then turn around and do the same? When a man here states that all women are superficial, loose whores who only chase and wish to be associated with certain types of men, it's stated that they need to improve their social circle and they surround themselves with low quality women. Staying true to that rhetoric, does the inverse not apply to you, because to me it sounds absolutely no different. If every black man you come across wants to be a thug and "hood", you're surrounding yourself with the low hanging fruit and have no one to blame for your situation other than you.


That's if we're keeping it consistent, but of course this is thecoli.com, so consistency and logic frequently take the back-burner to whatever ones projection of reality is, no matter how illogical it may be.

The people I hear say that aren't even my friends so your point doesn't apply to me. I'm in school so I'm referring to conversations that have been made about people I know. Not my circle.

 

[KinksandCoils]

it is always about mating first, period.

after you find a mate,...
if you are compatible in a fifty fifty corporate merger.
with an incredible social dynamic is the only time you should be getting married.
the reason why marriage is dead is because it became a method to take, and not about being in a fifty fifty merger with a heterosexual lover.

art barr

Wrong. If you are religious and you and your partner have waited till marriage than it's not always about sex when sex hasn't happened.