How do men expect women to be sweet, innocent and modest if...

[Art Barr]

You guys want your women to be innocent maybe not virgin innocent but innocent as in not have been involved with a lot of guys. Sexual or none sexual but it's okay for y'all to sleep with everything under the sun. I'm still waiting on a legitimate response instead of its a mans world.

when, you get secure in your sexuality.
you want that beast in the bed.

which is why females who don't look like much.
are always a viable option for a guy to cheat with.
as they generally have higher sexual inhibitions and welled in securing their sexual identity.
way before a prude who is attractive and thinks relationships between a male and female.
revolve around bullshyt that is not related to mating, first.

it is about mating first.....
your mate may not have money, or job security or any spoils.
yet, that is your mate.
just find the extreme value, and be glad you can or have found a mate.

all those other auxilliary items to a sexually secure female has no value.
if her libido is not pleased by whomever she is mating with.

you still sound like a prude.
or, you are asking question...
who is not secure in their sexuality, would ask, or pose as a question.


find you a heterosexual mate, fukk all that other shyt.
it is about mating, period.

art barr

 

[Art Barr]

It is because when I was with my ex many chicks tried to get at me but when I became single again they disappeared.

Its also funny because this happened to many guys I know as well.

the best way to have a lot of female mates as suitors.
is to have any female's sexual phermone on your person.

wish i could bottle the shyt up and spray it on, me.
when i walked out the house, personally.

don't believe me...
leave ya female lover's house without taking a shower.
watch how many females make themselves available.

or, you can try the small time test...
have your female mate show up to where you work at.
or have your female mate, drop you off.
on like the metra train line in front of females heading into work.
then, watch how many new female possible suitors.
try to invade your personal space, or just make a bold move.

females are distinctly feral when it comes to smelling another female's phermone on a male person.
just like the wild, where said female only mates with said alpha male.
or the male who just smashed some other female in heat.



art barr

 

[Art Barr]

Ok, for example a man who has a three some is looked at as a conqueror n shyt, but females that get a train ran on them are considered lowly and nasty. Women are viewed as gentle pure creatures, so when they do all this nasty shyt it throws people off from what they expect a women to be and act. Men are not looked at in the same manner, we dnt have that image to uphold.

a three some and a train are two different fukk'n things,......

also,..you need to understand virtue.
since females sex organs are internal.
the reason why a lot of sexual activity is taboo.
is because religion dominated population and disease control.
so, a female who partakes in a train or a threesome.
is viewed as being unclean and a lack of virtue.

a female who has a sexually healthy libido and does nuffin to dishonor her virtue is commitment level.
a female who violates her virtue is always non-committment level.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

The fukk outta here you thots are ridiculous. If a man isn't sleeping with hella girls you thots say to yourselves "what's wrong with him" and he isn't seen as desirable in your eyes so you give man know play. BUT if he does sleep with alotta girls you thots then get super wet over the nikka because every girl wants him and you wanna see what the fuss is about. This is exactly why we can be single and get no action but as soon as we get in a relationship you thots come out through the woodwork on some Halloween movie shyt.

Think women actually use logic brehs



***Yes I said thot plenty of times and no I'm not bitter before you start throwing that bs at me***

most females don't use logic, because they are the longest the group who has endured slavery the longest.
so, a lot of their movements, ways and action, are socialized from being victims of long term slavery.

american females because of slavery and later being used as a main catalyst to prey on via capitalism.
all subscribe to slave minded ways and act, that lack knowledge.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

Men are hunters...

Women who give it up fast are just victims of the vultures....

we live in sexually liberated and times of equality for women in america.
all american females sleep with male suitors on the first day in general, now.
nowadays if the female does not sleep with you on the first day.
chu a lame to her and you might as well delete her number.
sleeping on the first day, validates you are a mate to females now.

females are not about to sit and wait for you to be an alpha, now.
courtship died for females sometime around 2oo1.
definately around 2oo5, courtship became extinct.

any female making you court her in 2014 is a roster builder, or gold digger.
real females looking for a real mate, will all sleep with you on the first day, period.
all that date shyt is what they do to vics.

art barr

 

[Art Barr]

One important point that you women need to understand is that we as men dont care if you label us a hoe.

you are not a whore if you have your virtue in tact.
most guys who have a huge body count.
did so out of a feral nature to have sex.
which is perfectly natural and open for females to emulate.
as long as it is done in a manner that is safe and does not include a price list to negate their virtue.

a female can have as many mates as she ferally wants.
as long as no loss of virtue is included in her list of bangs.

a guy who sells his virtue for some materialistic or capital driven gain is a whore.
most guys like that don't exist.
most guys are out for the bang, and don't have any material or capital driven gain or alterior motives.

art barr

 

[Art Barr]

breh...seriously? the majority of women go to dubai, strip...fuk celebrities etc.....you believe this?

nikka,....

the lack of females with their virtue that you find sexually immediately ferally attractive.
is a very small number....
in other words,..
hell the fukk yeah,...
females nowadays in general have been strippers, celeb bukkaki victims, go to dubai, or the track, etc.
stop being naive...
it is so many portals for a female to enter in that avenue now than ever.

females are active now, breh.

especially completely attractive ones, who know how to advertise their beauty.

don't be naive, and out of touch...females be doing shyt, at an alarming rate, breh.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

If your ass was painful to look at then you are straight bushes status.

You don't need to be all that attractive but you can't look so bad I want to turn my head

this is the begining in why you have issues finding a mate.
you don't have any actual fukk'n standards.
you need to develop some levels of attraction.
all that i don't care how a person looks is complete the talk of a developing gold digger or roster builder.
who either has lost her virtue from a pisspoor relationship.
or on the cusp to losing her virtue.
by giving into chasing after the ugly type, with no standards.
then, basing her type on other auxilliary factors that have nuffin to do with mating.
which is a lack of virtue.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

That's too vague of a question. You know what I mean lol. But I've accepted this double standard within our society and I don't let it bother me. All I can do is be the best me and hope a quality gentleman notices.

actually it is not a double standard.
it is most females sold their virtue.
or lost their virtue, when they patterned their mating habits.
behind the cheater guy who played them to the left.

so, if you go about listening to the ways of the cheater to find a mate.
you as a female don't have your virtue.
as you are giving power to the nefarious acts of someone who is dishonest to you.
thus, you are dishonest to yourself, and are thusly, a dishonest person.

if as a guy,...
i have to adhere to some bullshyt rule of assuming to be busy.
plus, can not ferally pursue you naturally how i am attracted to you.
yet, have to adhere to most females in general all operating on the take to vic, the cheat.
then, the problem is with females basing how they find a mate on a cheater.
which is immature and the biggest issue in the male/female dialectic.

art barr

 

[Art Barr]

Jay-Z spoke on this in 96'

"TOO MANY bytchES WANNA BE LADIES, SO IF YOU A HOE, I'MMA CALL YOU A HOE, TOO MANY bytchES IS SHADY"

jay also, said the most poignant thing on females about virtue, too.

JAY : ONCE A GOOD GIRL IS GONE!! SHE IS GONE, FOREVER....



art barr

 

[KOOL-AID]

a three some and a train are two different fukk'n things,......

also,..you need to understand virtue.
since females sex organs are internal.
the reason why a lot of sexual activity is taboo.
is because religion dominated population and disease control.
so, a female who partakes in a train or a threesome.
is viewed as being unclean and a lack of virtue.

a female who has a sexually healthy libido and does nuffin to dishonor her virtue is commitment level.
a female who violates her virtue is always non-committment level.


art barr

nikka we basically saying the same thing

 

[Killer Instinct]

Every guy wants to be " hood " these days. That's why they think it's cute to be "that nikka" instead of being a man. Do you know how many times I have heard a black guy say to another black guy.... You ain't a real nikka like me

How can some of you get upset when men make blanket statements and then turn around and do the same? When a man here states that all women are superficial, loose whores who only chase and wish to be associated with certain types of men, it's stated that they need to improve their social circle and they surround themselves with low quality women. Staying true to that rhetoric, does the inverse not apply to you, because to me it sounds absolutely no different. If every black man you come across wants to be a thug and "hood", you're surrounding yourself with the low hanging fruit and have no one to blame for your situation other than you.


That's if we're keeping it consistent, but of course this is thecoli.com, so consistency and logic frequently take the back-burner to whatever ones projection of reality is, no matter how illogical it may be.

 

[Art Barr]

The problem is that sleeping around often is a red flag that indicates lack of self esteem and other issues that will cause trouble in a relationship. If she just enjoys sex and goes for what she likes in a responaible way I don't care and am not judging, but unfortunately most of the time that's not the case and promiscuity is a means with which she tries to fill a void in her life. In that case, I stay away. I don't really care about the number of dudes a woman has been with, just about the implications

poignant prolific posting!!!


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

The two sexes are not the same. Compared to men, women are not easily pleased. Therefore, men take pride in learning how to please women and the experience that comes with it.

It's nature, really. Women want men with experience. Men want women with loyalty. It's hardwired. Deal with it.

you are viewing this from a socialization based ideal.

females and males all are sexual beings.
the only reason females are frowned upon for exuding their natural sexual self is population/disease control.
where it has been grafted into the socialization of females to shun their natural sexual desires.
for the sake of the greater good,.....

you also, have to take into account,..
that we are socialized in a roman catholic ideals as well.
where females were slaves and only used to populate the army.
as mostly all of rome was socializing a completely gay built society.

so, females being shunned and cast into the shadows.
as slaves and property is also to blame for why things are the way they are.

we are in a society that is based upon making females slaves.
plus, other nefarious acts.
that have stifled the male/female dialectic.
just as much as the prolonged social dysfunction of the male/female dialectic.

yet, the society we are in,..
have presented more dysfunction than the natural social dysfunction.
as the society that we are in.
is made up of ideals that resent females and are made by gay ass roman pagan based logic, narcissism, and deflection based agendas.



art barr

 

[Art Barr]

Women settle down with whores just like men do. That doesn't mean it's ultimately the kind of mate the truly want but some people are willing to overlook the past if they don't continue the behavior while they're with them.

females use the cheater.
as it is easier to vic and place blame on someone who is publically known as untrustworthy.
cheaters are the biggest simps in the universe.
as they are not in love with the action of sex.
they are in love with appealing to the mind of said females.
then, publically denouncing they are enthralled with said females past a feral sexual attraction.
using the ideals of a guy who gets a lot of females to protect their simpdom.

you not good at getting females if you cheating in a committed relationship.
you are a liar, and you are lying to yourself and your committal.


art barr