How do I tell my girl she needs to lose weight

[andre patton]

just start playing with her fat. start shaking the jelly around. tell her how its fun and gross at the same damn time.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Congratulations. You finna be a daddy.

 

[Johnny Kilroy]

Just leave her ass. If she runs after you there might be hope after all.

 

[Big Blue]

Lets keep it 100


She was 5'3 160

She got up to 180 now


She was already fat when he met her

 

[Another Man]

Youre bout to enter a minefield breh....

 

[Jayson_bourn]

Went through this with a chick I was Fukin wit in college.. When she hit me wit the question I started speaking in technicalities

her:Do you think I'm getting fat?

Me:Like how do you mean?

When I first met you, you were smaller than you are now...I don't know if that's the same as saying you're fat now...what's fat to you?

Then I got these responses in the following order.






I was able to get my point across without a fight, and I was never asked the question again. Which is the actual goal. If you want her to lose the weight she'll need to find reasons for that without your help..

 

[Mr swag]

Went through this with a chick I was Fukin wit in college.. When she hit me wit the question I started speaking in technicalities

her:Do you think I'm getting fat?

Me:Like how do you mean?

When I first met you, you were smaller than you are now...I don't know if that's the same as saying you're fat now...what's fat to you?

Then I got these responses in the following order.






I was able to get my point across without a fight, and I was never asked the question again. Which is the actual goal. If you want her to lose the weight she'll need to find reasons for that without your help..

So........did she lose the weight?

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

Funny how this works. And she know she getting fat too.

Why the fukk do you gotta say it nice? And it don't even matter if you do she still gone have a problem.

We went to the fukking doctor. I'm acting like I'm looking at the body weight to height chart like is this new. Her fat ass chime'n in "that aint for black people"

Meanwhile my shyt match up perfect w/ the chart.


I don't have an anwser.

 

[Jayson_bourn]

So........did she lose the weight?

It might be a rare case.. but actually she did. I had a pretty stable regiment at the time of a morning jog, a light workout during the late afternoon and a short jog to end the night she came with me on alot of these (which kinda fuked wit my pace but ) It started to show even though her eating habits hadn't changed

Maybe she valued my opinion ? Maybe she used my opinion as validation that if I noticed she got bigger then others would too? Kinda hard to say

Either way I don't think I was the deciding factor.

 

[Guess Who]

Happened with my ex...wanna know what happened? Well she's my ex.

Worst part is a really really loved this girl, but she just kept getting heavier and heavier and heavier even after our convos...I tried everything mentioned in this thread. Our sex life quickly fell off, I couldn't get hard for her anymore, got addicted to porn, and that was all she wrote for us. I just couldn't be with a woman I had zero physical attraction for anymore...it sucks.

Then we broke up, she lost 40 lbs mad quick...we reconciled briefly and she ended up even heavier than before.

I still miss her.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

You have to be really subtle and supportive about it, for example.


"Hey, this yoga studio downtown has discounts on memberships this month, we should sign up and go together"