How do I eliminate my growing resentment towards women?

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It’s one thing if it’s one woman, but I find it hard to resent all women. I mean, is your mother giving you hell too? Can’t find a nice woman in public to share a nice thought for a moment?

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Resenting women is very common amongst men at some point in their life. I resented them in my early 20's. My problem was I was messing with the wrong type of women...the fashionable, self-absorbed, entitled divas who thought they were the shyt. It always ended bad which made me salty. I had to breakaway, focus on myself (read books, worked out, self reflection) and I realized I was putting out the same energy as the women I was attracting. I joined the military, went to boot camp and when I came home for some reason I didn't hate women anymore. Changed up the women who I was going after and it was smooth sailing from that point on. So breh you may have to go focus on yourself for a bit to make sure you are putting out good energy. The law of attraction says you attract what you are.

Also, you have to understand that out of 100 women, 80 won't be worth a damn. This shouldn't piss you off, you just have to accept it and know that you must to sift through and find the 20 that are good women. Good luck breh.
 

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Stop looking at porn and seek healthy friendships or civil/amicable relationships

Then once you get good at suppressing your scumbag power level slowly power it back up...:mjlit:
I notice men who are pretty good at pulling women are usually in unhealthy relationships
 

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I notice men who are pretty good at pulling women are usually in unhealthy relationships
Close but no cigar.

Men who are good at pulling women, realize that there's always more women to be had.

The end result maybe an unhealthy or toxic relationship.

But the allure and thrill of chase associated gaining access to numerous women is what fuels a self perpetuating, insatiable appetite in the first place .
 

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I mean shyt... we all have. Everyone has been wrong- especially in relationships. Holding grudges hurts you more than anyone else. I’ve been through a lot when it comes to men so I understand why and how the frustration and grudge builds. However, I refuse to allow my experiences to change who I am or give that person power over my ability to be resilient and bounce back from the loss.

Life includes suffering. No one can escape that truth.
That's what it comes down to, regarding relationships between men, women, and people in general.

There's a continuum cycle of hurt people, hurting others because they were previously wronged or felt slighted.

So many people are quick to psychoanalyze the actions and behaviors of others, while contributing to trifling shyt themselves.

The dating world would be a better place, if everyone who sought a quality partner moved and behaved with the genuine nature of integrity.
 

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That's what it comes down to, regarding relationships between men, women, and people in general.

There's a continuum cycle of hurt people, hurting others because they were previously wronged or felt slighted.

So many people are quick to psychoanalyze the actions and behaviors of others, while contributing to trifling shyt themselves.

The dating world would be a better place, if everyone who sought a quality partner moved and behaved with the genuine nature of integrity.
:salute:To everything you said.

You’re absolutely right. Folks continuing cycles of pain and bullshyt because no one is healing and changing their behavior/making better choices. Quick to blame and shame without taking ownership or accountability of their own shyt. shyt is crazy. It’s like folks don’t accept the reality of being in relationships with others and all of the varied experiences that often Includes (which includes hurt feelings, disappointments, etc). Believing they should never be hurt is unrealistic. Holding another to a standard of behavior in a relationship is also pointless if said person doesn’t expect better from themselves also.


I’m guilty of psychoanalyzing shyt :skip: but I know It’s just my opinion and I’m probably wrong. My psycho analysis means nothing ultimately- and I’m aware of that.

I agree that folks are hypercritical. Quick to drag someone else through the mud when they need to reflect on self and make better choices.

When it comes to choosing a quality partner.. I think that’s a bit more difficult. But it should still be the goal nonetheless. And integrity should be valued by all... along with honesty.
 

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Resenting women is very common amongst men at some point in their life. I resented them in my early 20's. My problem was I was messing with the wrong type of women...the fashionable, self-absorbed, entitled divas who thought they were the shyt. It always ended bad which made me salty. I had to breakaway, focus on myself (read books, worked out, self reflection) and I realized I was putting out the same energy as the women I was attracting. I joined the military, went to boot camp and when I came home for some reason I didn't hate women anymore. Changed up the women who I was going after and it was smooth sailing from that point on. So breh you may have to go focus on yourself for a bit to make sure you are putting out good energy. The law of attraction says you attract what you are.

Also, you have to understand that out of 100 women, 80 won't be worth a damn. This shouldn't piss you off, you just have to accept it and know that you must to sift through and find the 20 that are good women. Good luck breh.

I've said it numerous times on this site that for me personally this process isnt worth it at all, at this juncture in my life, I'm off women in 2019, and the foreseeable future. If they choose cool, if not I'm apathetic to them and their plights.
:yeshrug:
 

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What I mean by example latest if a chick sees bad influences her whole life for a man then that will be her influence On What she expects out of them
Soooo... ur agreeing with me. ..
Or unknowingly proving my point
 
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