Ummmm, the video in the OP came to the right conclusion but with the wrong logic.
The source he used to make this might well be a red-pill convo where the guy basically puts down a single mother who thinks she should have the same choices in partner as a similarly yoked but without child woman. The entire framing was wrong.
That said, you shouldn't be playing with your kids feelings by dating and introducing random mofos on the regular. The question the dude asked the woman don't say shyt about him wanting to be in the vicinity of the kids for predatory reasons. He on his Dhalsim shyt with that reach.
Edit: Went to the tiktok and its male feminist babble. Derrick Jaxn's cousin.