How and when did you know/realise that he/she was in love with you?

Ms.CuriousCat

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Was it something specific they did or said?

Was it when they told you they loved you?

Did it come as a surprise or had you already figured it out?
 

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I had a really bad case of the flu after barely recovering from a bad case of meningitis. I almost never get sick but I got hit with 2 crazy sick episodes back to back.

My girl was in the middle of finals week and she was by my side whenever she wasnt taking tests. Took care of me like a mother would take care of her sick child. Attended to my every need for almost 10 days while studying for 5 finals, most science classes.

I had been dealing with her for almost a year but we were exclusive for only 4-5 months. Our relationship was serious (we'd see each other everyday) but that took it to another level. That's when I knew
 

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I had a really bad case of the flu after barely recovering from a bad case of meningitis. I almost never get sick but I got hit with 2 crazy sick episodes back to back.

My girl was in the middle of finals week and she was by my side whenever she wasnt taking tests. Took care of me like a mother would take care of her sick child. Attended to my every need for almost 10 days while studying for 5 finals, most science classes.

I had been dealing with her for almost a year but we were exclusive for only 4-5 months. Our relationship was serious (we'd see each other everyday) but that took it to another level. That's when I knew

Have you done that language of love test? I would be curious to know where you come out.

I found out she was afraid to lose me when I didn't really have too much invested between us

Did she tell you she was afraid to lose you?
 

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Have you done that language of love test? I would be curious to know where you come out.



Did she tell you she was afraid to lose you?

Yeah she told me. Along with her behavior changing up. She always tried to act as if she didn't care or was unbothered about me so I was pretty much out the door and she fessed up, showed me a side I never saw before and everything has been going great since.
 

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redacted. thought this was locker room :francis:
 
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When I pushed her away, and she stayed. And she asked me to never do it again with her voice cracking and tears falling from her eyes. I told her I was sorry, and she hit me in the chest and said she was "...so fukking worried".

...that way I learned a different kind of fear. It changed me.
 
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