Hotep on hotep violence: Erikha Badu vs Twitter feminists

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If you believe that rapist are out of your control, than why would you believe that telling young women to dress moderatley would help stop a rapist?

A woman can be raped or sexually assaulted anywhere, while wearing anything.

If we want to do something about it, why not educate the younger generation of young boys about sexual assault and what it means. Also, more openness about any deviant desires young men and boys may have so we can help them psychologically.
Again why do you lock your doors if you believe just telling people and other awareness is the key? Only males have deviant behavior now? Just say people not no just males stuff and let's be real you living in a fukking utopian world if you think cats going to openly in large amounts tell you their deepest desires that we know people judge negatively. Come on fam you and @Ronnie Lott sounding real crazy on this issue.
 

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Again why do you lock your doors if you believe just telling people and other awareness is the key? Only males have deviant behavior now? Just say people not no just males stuff and let's be real you living in a fukking utopian world if you think cats going to openly in large amounts tell you their deepest desires that we know people judge negatively. Come on fam you and @Ronnie Lott sounding real crazy on this issue.
So I guess that's it....nothing we can do besides tell them to dress better, and pray...
 

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So I guess that's it....nothing we can do besides tell them to dress better, and pray...
I guess you can't answer questions yourself nikka? Do you or do you not keep,your fukking doors open since we should just tell the robbers that's wrong and that's it. Whats good with your lack or understanding? You sped or something?
 

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I guess you can't answer questions yourself nikka? Do you or do you not keep,your fukking doors open since we should just tell the robbers that's wrong and that's it. Whats good with your lack or understanding? You sped or something?
No I dont keep my doors open. But its not like we just say "Lock your doors and pray, you can't stop the robbers anyway" there are still laws, police, and preventative measures out there that put the onus on the thieves themselves rather than just telling the people what they should do to avoid being a victim. Its 50/50. The problem with you guys and these arguments is, neither side wants to concede on anything. I gave you an ideal that I believe would cut down sexual assault, and your 1st response is "Nobody"s willing to tell anybody about their deepest sexual desires. Rapist just gonna rape anyway" well what's the point then?

I think dressing modestly is a good thing for both genders. But, also informing boys very early about the negative effects of sexual assault and harrasment is also important.

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Hotep in the modern slang from what I've read and understood is basically is dudes who appear to be pro black but only fight for men's rights while putting down others (ie black women calling them bedwenches etc)
ie Tariq Nasheed
 

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No I dont keep my doors open. But its not like we just say "Lock your doors and pray, you can't stop the robbers anyway" there are still laws, police, and preventative measures out there that put the onus on the thieves themselves rather than just telling the people what they should do to avoid being a victim. Its 50/50. The problem with you guys and these arguments is, neither side wants to concede on anything. I gave you an ideal that I believe would cut down sexual assault, and your 1st response is "Nobody"s willing to tell anybody about their deepest sexual desires. Rapist just gonna rape anyway" well what's the point then?

I think dressing modestly is a good thing for both genders. But, also informing boys very early about the negative effects of sexual assault and harrasment is also important.

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With bold you just trying to promote your biased and silly agenda? Same shyt goes for sexual assault regarding everything you said. Unless you live in some lawless country there are laws, police, and preventative measures out there too for assault so again whats your point?

Ain't no problem with "you guys" cause your fukking ideal is fukking stupid straight up. You just mad that bullshyt got called that. You out here acting like you said some groundbreaking shyt that had merit and I was like nah fam fukk that ideal. Its stupid cause again do you tell everybody all of your non crazy secrets? I guess to be right you'll say yes but most people don't and usually its not even unlawful stuff. Its just probably just morally wrong like wanting someone else's mate, killing somebody(this is unlawful), racial/sexual thoughts, etc. Now you want cats to fukk up their life's and be like hi my name is boo boo the fool and I'm a fukking potential pedo? Yeah fukking right fam that ain't never about to be the norm so yep I'm shytting all over that ideal. The point is what you said in the first place (bold) that basically I've been saying. That's the point not this made up new age shyt you probably tell your friends and they stupid enough to co sign.

Nah we going to inform the girls too about the negative effects of sexual assault and harassment not just the boys. FOH we don't live in some one gender population. Cats always trying to pump an garbage agenda smh
 

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Hotep in the modern slang from what I've read and understood is basically is dudes who appear to be pro black but only fight for men's rights while putting down others (ie black women calling them bedwenches etc)
ie Tariq Nasheed

That's just idiocrocy at its finest...who decided that it was okay to use that term? sounds like cacs and feminist would benefit from that sort of devisive launguage ...but you know who loses? Educated black people...be careful how you use your words...words are more powerful than most people know.
 

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That's just idiocrocy at its finest...who decided that it was okay to use that term? sounds like cacs and feminist would benefit from that sort of devisive launguage ...but you know who loses? Educated black people...be careful how you use your words...words are more powerful than most people know.

There's two terms for Hotep. I'm talking about the modern terminology slang of it

Do your googles, its right there. Dont know if its right or wrong, I'm just saying that's what its cool and assumed thats what it was:yeshrug:
 

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It's not nonsensical you're just Being disingenuous. The only logical conclusion to draw from what you've said is that you don't think that dress codes are necessary.
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Do you think that outfit is appropriate for a teenage girl to wear to school, yes or no? Don't dodge the question either.

You're drawing conclusions and talmbout logic like you didn't bother to read the part of my post where I said I don't take issue with dress codes. I don't have to be against dress codes AND find some of her statements to be problematic; they're not one and the same. Dress codes aren't the problem for the thousandth time. I take issue with her implying female students are inherently responsible for men becoming distracted and so the only way to keep men focused is to wear longer skirts. That's bullshyt. Being. A. Girl/Woman. Is. Enough.

No that outfit is not appropriate for school, just like a bikini isn't. The concern runs deeper than "your male teachers won't be able to teach" though.


You're contradicting yourself. If you don't take issue with dress codes then why are you taking issue with what Badu has said?

One more time:

Dress codes aren't the problem for the thousandth time. I take issue with her implying female students are inherently responsible for men becoming distracted and so the only way to keep men focused is to wear longer skirts. That's bullshyt. Being. A. Girl/Woman. Is. Enough. It's more layered and nuanced than a skirt.


You're lying. Nobody has made the argument that longer skirts would completely stop/hinder/obliterate the sexualization of of female students. Erykah didnt imply that if girls simply wore longer skirts that they wouldn't be a distraction to anyone. Those are your arguments and implications projected onto others. You do do that because you can't argue against what people are actually saying. All Badu and people who agree with her are saying is that school girls shouldn't wear short skirts to school because it's inappropriate. Since you cat argue against that you create straw men arguments pulled from your own ass to argue against.

Lying where?

She absolutely, positively did though. Because based on these tweets, to keep all the focus focused girls need to wear longer skirts. So men aren't distracted Otherwise men are distracted and that's a problem that can only be solved by girls wearing longer skirts. No responsibility on anyone else anywhere else. No acknowledgement that no matter what a girl/woman wears they are sexualized.


You're either dodging the point or it continues to fly over hour head. Bikinis being beachwear isn't the point. School isn't the club either. Short skirts on underaged girls are inappropriate especially in a learning environment. That's the point.

But you are the only one who mentioned bikinis, and no one has advocated for them to be worn to school either. Club wear is irrelevant too. If it were just about the skirt itself, we'd be having a different conversation. It's not. It's bigger than that. "Girls should wear longer skirts to avoid distracting heterosexual men in school because nature." Not "Short skirts on underaged girls are inappropriate in school." She specifically singled out girls and hetero men with this and zeroed in on girls' bodies all in one swoop.


This is a problem with a lot of women who have a feminist mentality. You can't accept responsibility for your own actions. You can't even hold women responsible for dressing appropriately at school. In your mind females have no responsibility for the type of attention that they bring to themselves. To you, girls can wear short skirts and other provocative clothing that shows off their bodies, but it's all the mens' fault if they look at them in a sexually way. These is why feminists aren't to be taken seriously.

The fact that you literally believe it's even possible for it to be a girl's responsibility to make sure she isn't sexualized by men is crazy. I keep saying that a girl doesn't have to wear a short skirt to get attention, she doesn't have to wear a short skirt to be a distraction to a man, she just has to exist. Because to exist as a girl/woman in a hypersexual society is to exist in a sexualized space when it comes to heterosexual men. The assumption that provocative clothing is the beginning or the cause of sexualizing someone is laughable. It's what makes Erykah's tweets problematic.

I'm done though. Good chat.
 
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No that outfit is not appropriate for school, just like a bikini isn't
This was all that needed to be said because that's the point. Skirts like the one in the pic that I posted are inappropriate to wear to school because they can cause a distraction and the wrong attention from teachers and students. The rest of that bullshyt you wrote is a deflection.
 

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With bold you just trying to promote your biased and silly agenda? Same shyt goes for sexual assault regarding everything you said. Unless you live in some lawless country there are laws, police, and preventative measures out there too for assault so again whats your point?

Ain't no problem with "you guys" cause your fukking ideal is fukking stupid straight up. You just mad that bullshyt got called that. You out here acting like you said some groundbreaking shyt that had merit and I was like nah fam fukk that ideal. Its stupid cause again do you tell everybody all of your non crazy secrets? I guess to be right you'll say yes but most people don't and usually its not even unlawful stuff. Its just probably just morally wrong like wanting someone else's mate, killing somebody(this is unlawful), racial/sexual thoughts, etc. Now you want cats to fukk up their life's and be like hi my name is boo boo the fool and I'm a fukking potential pedo? Yeah fukking right fam that ain't never about to be the norm so yep I'm shytting all over that ideal. The point is what you said in the first place (bold) that basically I've been saying. That's the point not this made up new age shyt you probably tell your friends and they stupid enough to co sign.

Nah we going to inform the girls too about the negative effects of sexual assault and harassment not just the boys. FOH we don't live in some one gender population. Cats always trying to pump an garbage agenda smh
Yep, its never gonna change. So you basically you agree with my point that its hopeless? Again, women been getting raped since before the Amber Rose "Easy On Hoes" movement. Women been getting raped since the days where they weren't even allowed to dress like hoes. Its hopeless. Thats what I said in my last comment. Nothing we can do.....

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