Health Shaming

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*Big bytch babble*

 

[Absolut]

What grown man would care? If you are healthy, all you gotta do is point and laugh at any obese clown talking shyt about your healthy habits

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Chic i know who is obese... morbidly obese...

She made a post on FB talking about how difficult it is for her to find love with her "marginalized body".

What the hell does that even mean?

 

[xoxodede]

Get better friends.

But, honestly -- ignore them. People who hate or make any comments about anything I'm doing -- I pay them dust -- and don't even acknowledge their comments (and sometimes their existence).

I don't get shamed for eating right, if anything I get comments applauding me and continuing to put my health first.

If anything, my Mom and Aunts always make little comments about me "trying to keep my figure," and "trying to keep my man happy."

I was raised by a Mother who was/is looks focused-- and that led me to have an eating disorder pretty much all my life. I been too fat and too skinny at periods of my life. My mom was a stay at home trophy wife -- so being raised by her really made me view men and relationships differently.

But, one of the many things she taught me was to keep your figure right and being really overweight isn't the best look for a woman.

 

[Deman]

Cause a bih buy a salad twice and some lululemon now a fitness guru

Lose it in silence aint nobody tryna hear all that

 

[Mr Clean]

It's funny. I'm so zoned in I don't even care about the temptations people giving off

"You wanna hit some of this pizza pleighboi? Oh yeah, you can't hahaha "

"Nah, I'm cool. I don't even want none "

"I bet. Hahahahaha "

 

[hatealot]

Most of the vegans and vegetarians are homosexuals and women. A good portion of are from the west coast and white.

This is undisputed facts.

 

[Gold]

I eat very healthily and workout multiple times a day, but i couldnt care less what other ppl do.

Fukk i look like counting your calories? Hard enough to count my own

 

[Son Goku]

OP is against "health shaming" but is okay shaming health shamers?



Par for the course on the coli. I've been shamed for "plate watching" so .

 

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OP is against "health shaming" but is okay shaming health shamers?



Par for the course on the coli. I've been shamed for "plate watching" so .

Lol! What I’m saying is that there should be balance.
I don’t like people who fat or body shame.

But I also think extreme “body positivity” can lead to some people becoming downright belligerent if people try to clean up their health habits.

Both extremes seem crazy to me. Like those who were trying to insult Adele for losing weight.

Somewhere in between aggravating people about every calorie they put in their mouths, and insulting people as health nuts, tree-huggers, or switching up just because they decide to get a salad instead of fries at dinner…is that elusive common sense.

 

[Son Goku]

Lol! What I’m saying is that there should be balance.
I don’t like people who fat or body shame.

But I also think extreme “body positivity” can lead to some people becoming downright belligerent if people try to clean up their health habits.

Both extremes seem crazy to me. Like those who were trying to insult Adele for losing weight.

Somewhere in between aggravating people about every calorie they put in their mouths, and insulting people as health nuts, tree-huggers, or switching up just because they decide to get a salad instead of fries at dinner…is that elusive common sense.

I get it but there can't be balance because the folks in the middle don't really have any leg to stand on.


The health nuts are aggy cause fat fukks are consuming extra resources (healthcare costs, food, extra fabric, whatever) and always crying about being fat.


The fat fukks are on the defensive and have to hit back when they get attacked. I'm fairly confident most fat folks wouldn't choose to stay fat if they could instantly lose all the weight without having to do any work.


Someone that's in the middle is just sloppy/lax/undisciplined enough to empathize with the biggums but not disciplined/obsessive/dedicated to be one of the super fit/healthy folks.

I've been "health shamed" (because I'm a gym rat) because folks that don't see me eating assume I'm a health nut. It also doesn't help that I fat shame and gym shame set.


But my diet is fairly shytty and I'm still lean, so folks that know be high-key hating cause the diet is trash but I don't have to work to keep off the pounds.



So I can see it from both sides. I still can't stand the fat, lazy, or weak motherfukkers that overpopulate this earth.

 

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I get it but there can't be balance because the folks in the middle don't really have any leg to stand on.


The health nuts are aggy cause fat fukks are consuming extra resources (healthcare costs, food, extra fabric, whatever) and always crying about being fat.


The fat fukks are on the defensive and have to hit back when they get attacked. I'm fairly confident most fat folks wouldn't choose to stay fat if they could instantly lose all the weight without having to do any work.


Someone that's in the middle is just sloppy/lax/undisciplined enough to empathize with the biggums but not disciplined/obsessive/dedicated to be one of the super fit/healthy folks.

I've been "health shamed" (because I'm a gym rat) because folks that don't see me eating assume I'm a health nut. It also doesn't help that I fat shame and gym shame set.


But my diet is fairly shytty and I'm still lean, so folks that know be high-key hating cause the diet is trash but I don't have to work to keep off the pounds.



So I can see it from both sides. I still can't stand the fat, lazy, or weak motherfukkers that overpopulate this earth.

I’m so done wit ya’ll

I swear some long posts be the best posts.


What I’m imagining is that the middle looks like someone who is empathetic and not insufferable.
Meaning, they aren’t sitting there insulting people who struggle with their health, but also aren’t trying to enable them or stress them if/when they do decide to make changes.

 

[Software]

Soooo we all know about body shaming. And I don’t support that. Tons of people struggle with food from depression, bad learned eating habits. All kinds of things. Trying to humiliate someone when they are already down doesn’t help. So I’m not down with that.

But…BUT… the other side of this is just as ridiculous.

HEALTH SHAMING!

Why do some people get salty when you make healthy changes in your life? Like they pledging allegiance to health risks.

There are people who have to mute entire circles of friends and family members just b/c they started eating healthier or trying to do better.
Me and Jadakiss just wondering:

Ain't no health shaming it's called being a jealous hater. Them same people will hate on you for getting money, having a good relationship with your spouse, having kids that do well in school,, etc.. basically when you got shyt they don't got

 

[Barlow]

When I ever I go on a diet everyone will start offering me food and bringing bullshyt around me.

people love you but they don’t want to see you change and possibly outgrow them h

 

[Son Goku]

I’m so done wit ya’ll

I swear some long posts be the best posts.


What I’m imagining is that the middle looks like someone who is empathetic and not insufferable.
Meaning, they aren’t sitting there insulting people who struggle with their health, but also aren’t trying to enable them or stress them if/when they do decide to make changes.

Oh I agree, it's just that the super-fit folks are much more vocal, they tend to evangelize their health/fitness to absolutely anyone, and they seem to use vinegar more often than they use honey.


The fat folks get annoyed and disheartened by that so they have to double-down. But the more resistant they become to the evangelicalism, the more the health nuts feel compelled to bother them.


The humble folks in the middle usually aren't on the super-fit folks' level and are too considerate to give the fat fux the tough love they need to make the change. They're not really helping anyone.