Having a family of your own is like a cheat code for hapiness...

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Y'all haven't even spent time growing yourselves.
But you are leaders because you got somebody pregnant?

Im becoming the best possible man I can be because I have all the time in the world to prioritize myself.
People see this and I inspire.

I'm not their leader just because they need things from me...
Like you wife and kids.

But let me back track...
I'm not against a family man.
That's an important role. It's a difficult role.

And maybe what's good for me wouldn't be good for you. And vice versa

But saying family life is the cheat code is a wild statement and could lead a young bro down a path that's gonna destroy his life.

Build yourself. Focus on yourself and go from there

I don't disagree with your take at all breh.

Everybody gotta get in where they fit in.

But the normalization of being "anti-family" is destructive.

This is coming from a wild 1. FR FR.

Family is essential for community.

Community is essential for progress.

Some things are better left unsaid.

Not everyone is meant to serve the same purpose in this circus called life.
 
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I feel you but I feel sad that a lot people don't get that from the fam they are born into. I was just at beach for mothers day with 2 bros.... same happiness no blown out vagina or blown out diapers needed šŸ˜…
 

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Y'all haven't even spent time growing yourselves.
But you are leaders because you got somebody pregnant?

Im becoming the best possible man I can be because I have all the time in the world to prioritize myself.
People see this and I inspire.

I'm not their leader just because they need things from me...
Like you wife and kids.

But let me back track...
I'm not against a family man.
That's an important role. It's a difficult role.

And maybe what's good for me wouldn't be good for you. And vice versa

But saying family life is the cheat code is a wild statement and could lead a young bro down a path that's gonna destroy his life.

Build yourself. Focus on yourself and go from there


Yep, plenty of dudes with a lot of baby mama drama. They depressed and broke.

Starting a family is a lot of effort from beginning to end. Seems like the stars have to align. Having a good career, choosing the right woman, raising this kids in a world full of racism and bad influences. At any point it could all blow in in your face.

That is NOT a Cheat Code to happiness. That's work.
 
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