Have you ever felt like you can't do anything right?

[Mastamimd]

stop watching porn & fapping

Solves everything. Heard it gives you magical powers and shyt

 

[LightSkinYeshua]

If only I knew how ridiculous that sounds when I was 22.

I hope your friends don't come to you when they are down

 

[LightSkinYeshua]

stop watching porn & fapping

That could be my problem

Its summertime, im not working only doing research and studying for the GRE so i been paying attention to myself to much. I might start rock climbing or playing basketball to battle the daily urges

 

[JahBuhLun]

Yea ima start reading out loud for now on cause that shyt sounds terrible and talking to ugly girls might be a good idea. My friends stay having shorties to smash and i be like damn this bytch is really ugly but now i know why. I don't have trouble attracting girls, but i only started talking to them in college due to my social anxiety problems. I know how to dress so that's not a problem at all.

I have a$$hole tendencies that come out here. For a year i would tell females i love them just for some head or p*ssy, then dropped them. a month later. I guess it was because i was new to the shyt and but as i learn about myself as a black man and my sistas, ive learn to respect and treasure the black female body.

You might just be going through a cycle of karma, it sounds like spookism I know, but from what you just typed, you were putting out a negative type of energy towards women and making them feel bad or unwanted or insecure. So basically what you have put out, is coming back to you. What you might need to do is next time you approach a female to get to know her, lay all of your transgressions out. Explain to her what you did to other women and why you did it. You need to get all that negative energy out of your system. Then things will turn around for you. They say confession is good for the soul.

 

[ManxOfxThexYear]

I'm a natural born fukk up, I be fukking my shyt up and everyone else's shyt all my life. I've learned to accept this and only decided now to work on this. Although, some habits are hard to let go. It is what it is.



@Bonitaa can verify this.

 

[International Playa]

Solves everything. Heard it gives you magical powers and shyt

That could be my problem

Its summertime, im not working only doing research and studying for the GRE so i been paying attention to myself to much. I might start rock climbing or playing basketball to battle the daily urges

porn is poison breh. You lose energy and motivation to go after women and complete tasks. It also affects your confidence when you talk to females. Jerking off affects your testosterone, that we men need

 

[JahBuhLun]

That could be my problem

Its summertime, im not working only doing research and studying for the GRE so i been paying attention to myself to much. I might start rock climbing or playing basketball to battle the daily urges

The GRE is not hard, it's just long, about 3-4 hours. I suck at math, so I barely scored above what was needed. But honestly I didn't study for it at all. It felt like a waste of time because I only ended up doing 1 semester of grad school.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I hope your friends don't come to you when they are down

I'm thinking of becoming a therapist, do you think that's a bad idea

 

[LightSkinYeshua]

You might just be going through a cycle of karma, it sounds like spookism I know, but from what you just typed, you were putting out a negative type of energy towards women and making them feel bad or unwanted or insecure. So basically what you have put out, is coming back to you. What you might need to do is next time you approach a female to get to know her, lay all of your transgressions out. Explain to her what you did to other women and why you did it. You need to get all that negative energy out of your system. Then things will turn around for you. They say confession is good for the soul.

Yea i feel you bro but the shyt ive done, im not proud of it at all. However, I think it would be to much to confess, they might develop a mindset that ill end up doing the same. What if they start to question my love for them? Sometimes its best to let go of the past.

 

[Gold]

Maybe it's because you're light skinned. Have you tried getting a tan?

Bet you wouldn't tell him to lighten his skin if he was darkskin

 

[ndthentherewasx]

If you're 22, you've barely reached maturity. Focus on your schooling, talk to females you think are ugly to get comfortable around women. Practice reading out loud in front of a mirror or in front of your fam. Find one thing and get really good at it, that will give you confidence. It doesn't have to be school, it can be the way you dress or something like that. Be interesting without being a clown or an a$$hole.

That backfire tho, if that doesn't work out


All these women getting gassed up now

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Bet you wouldn't tell him to lighten his skin if he was darkskin

No. If he lived too far north I'd tell him to pop vitamin D pills or move to where God intended for the chosen people to live; near the equator.

 

[LightSkinYeshua]

I'm thinking of becoming a therapist, do you think that's a bad idea

as someone who is in the process of doing the same, stay away from the clinically depressed.... please

The GRE is not hard, it's just long, about 3-4 hours. I suck at math, so I barely scored above what was needed. But honestly I didn't study for it at all. It felt like a waste of time because I only ended up doing 1 semester of grad school.

I suck at math as well but as you know, phd programs are hella competitive. Math is my biggest enemy right now and is causing me a lot of stress.

 

[JahBuhLun]

Yea i feel you bro but the shyt ive done, im not proud of it at all. However, I think it would be to much to confess, they might develop a mindset that ill end up doing the same. What if they start to question my love for them? Sometimes its best to let go of the past.

True bruh, but sometimes that past wont let YOU go, especially if you push it down deep, it will manifest itself in different ways, and it you being younger it can eat you up in ways you wont even recognize. I'm telling you, it's best to verbally admit you're shyt to someone, not for them to hear it and judge, but for you to hear yourself saying these things out loud. Or maybe, if you can still contact one of the women you done wrong, apologize to them and move on.

 

[JahBuhLun]

as someone who is in the process of doing the same, stay away from the clinically depressed.... please



I suck at math as well but as you know, phd programs are hella competitive. Math is my biggest enemy right now and is causing me a lot of stress.

Study that math, bruh, hopefully everything will start turning around for you.