Have u ever made the first move?

[MsReal]

Ladies what's up with eyeing a brotha down...then when he make eye contact you look away smiling and shyt and ignoring ?

Am I scaring women?

The smiling back is the shy girls

Go talk to her/ them

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

The smiling back is the shy girls

Go talk to her/ them

I try to..I been running into truly shy ones though. I"ll smile and say a "hello how are you?" and I get ignored and a brisk walkby

Or some that will smile and look past me..like they challenging a brotha to stop em. Been hesitant in doing that though ..that is a weak spot in my game

 

[Kwéyòl]

Would this look Be too subtle?

only if the gaze is intense enough

 

[VFib]

Ladies what's up with eyeing a brotha down...then when he make eye contact you look away smiling and shyt and ignoring ?

Am I scaring women?

Got women afraid to make eye contact and shyt but I know they feeling me.... yall wanna get stopped in yall tracks or some shyt or what?

Im a late bloomer I need answers

I can only speak for myself.

I turn away because I get nervous and I'm not good at flirting with my eyes. I'm also not sure if he just happens to be looking or is interested in speaking to me. I just assume most men aren't interested if they don't actually approach.

I know I Probably prevented some good guys from approaching but I can't help it. I just get really nervous, especially if I'm attracted to him.



Edit: typos

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I can only speak for myself.

I turn away because I get nervous and I'm not good at flirting with my eyes. I'm also not sure if he just happens to be looking or is interested in speaking to me. I just sssume most men are interested if they don't actually approach.

I know I Probably prevented some good guys from approaching but I can't help it. I just get really nervous, especially if I'm attracted to him.

Yea shyt be fukking me up because they'll be peeping my hair(freeform ) and i'll just be wanting to say a "hello" but we'll make eye contact and i'll get the or a look away...

A lookaway to me means "Please don't say anything to me at all."

As someone who is still getting his beak wet as far as approaching women this shyt is...I mean I believe i'm a good catch but the way some of these reactions be either i'm completely hideous or I make women nervous as shyt..When I have my guitar gig bag I straight up be getting the nervous ass walk-by,lookaway with these women having the "Don't say anything to me ", face!!!..



Damn now i'm wondering if it is true in that men aren't approaching women like that nowadays based on these reactions.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Yep. took thecoli's advice like a lame.
i got rejected
better to know, and not daydream tho

What happened?

 

[miranda]

What happened?

I let the object of my affection on thecoli know i was enamored, he told me that if i ever come to london he has a friend "that would be perfect for me" then he put another womans name in his avy title

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

I let the object of my affection on thecoli know i was enamored, he told me that if i ever come to london he has a friend "that would be perfect for me" then he put another womans name in his avy title

Sorry to hear that, lil breh. Keep ya chin up. Did he give u signs he was interested as well or did you just do it on a whim? Would you ever approach another guy?

 

[miranda]

Sorry to hear that, lil breh. Keep ya chin up. Did he give u signs he was interested as well or did you just do it on a whim? Would you ever approach another guy?

No he didn't give me any signs, we were just friendly in our exchanges, it was all interest on my end.
I guess I would do it again if I ever tried actual on line dating, but I wouldn't make the 1st approach in a face to face situation.

 

[philmonroe]

Yea shyt be fukking me up because they'll be peeping my hair(freeform ) and i'll just be wanting to say a "hello" but we'll make eye contact and i'll get the or a look away...

A lookaway to me means "Please don't say anything to me at all."

As someone who is still getting his beak wet as far as approaching women this shyt is...I mean I believe i'm a good catch but the way some of these reactions be either i'm completely hideous or I make women nervous as shyt..When I have my guitar gig bag I straight up be getting the nervous ass walk-by,lookaway with these women having the "Don't say anything to me ", face!!!..



Damn now i'm wondering if it is true in that men aren't approaching women like that nowadays based on these reactions.

You thought they was? Jokes on you then. I've been saying outside of the club/bar type environments nobody really approaching like that because most are like y'all two. It is what it is but if you do approach you have an advantage over a lot of dudes honestly

 

[MsReal]

I let the object of my affection on thecoli know i was enamored, he told me that if i ever come to london he has a friend "that would be perfect for me" then he put another womans name in his avy title

That's he's loss.

Don't waste any tears

 

[miranda]

That's he's loss.

Don't waste any tears

There aren't any tears, it was an enjoyable season of online infatuation

 

[MsReal]

There aren't any tears, it was an enjoyable season of online infatuation

 

[mr.africa]

im oblivious when it comes to emotions so. its hard for me to pick up on flirting signs

she gotta make it obvious too me or say something or else

true, and i'm sorry,but woman suck at making it obvious!!!

 

[Rocket Scientist]

No wonder why cats be in the friend zone