Have Straight Black Men become the new face of White Guilt?

[satam55]

@wickedsm one of the few women on here who even if I disagree with some of the stuff she says she always is concise, and comes correct.

Yeah, she's cool.

Is @wickedsm's avatar a pic of her?

 

[wickedsm]

Yeah, she's cool.

Is @wickedsm's avatar a pic of her?

yes its me.
dont say anything mean please.

 

[Neuromancer]

Yeah, she's cool.

Is @wickedsm's avatar a pic of her?

She's married breh.

 

[Neuromancer]

yes its me.
dont say anything mean please.

Always coming correct, aunty.

 

[Kenny West]

Thanks.
I will take this moment to reiterate that I didn't bring privilege up, just took a stab at responding to someone's question.

I am well aware of both my privilege and lack of as a black woman in America, which is better than some, worse than others.

Call me crazy for responding to a post on a message board.

im just saying my piece dont take it personal

 

[Neuromancer]

im just saying my piece dont take it personal

I think she was just doing the same.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Are you saying that since BM are less safe then fukk black women and children's safety? If so I don't agree. Not at all.

"All that matters"

I'm not in here playing the oppression Olympics. Merely discussing some differences between issues that affect BM and BW.

In no way do I imply that one is worse or less worse or better.

Why are some of y'all insistent on fulfilling the oppressors goal of divide and conquer?

You're (we're) allowed to care be concerned about issues that affect men women and children at the same time.

I wonder who coined the phrase "oppression olympics".
It looks like it was designed to stifle discourse.
Not saying you are, in particular.

 

[wickedsm]

I wonder who coined the phrase "oppression olympics".
It looks like it was designed to stifle discourse.
Not saying you are, in particular.

agreed.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

There are two problems brehs aren't acknowledging:
A faction of former scumbags/thirsty brehs using this for redemption and maintenance of ass supply. Women love redemption stories.
Cornball conscious pimps and fake manly men trying to up their social capital.
Also female sex crimes against young boys aren't reported. I bet an anonymous poll would clear up who lost their virginity to the baby sitter/Mama's friend...at disgusting ages.
Male sex predator status is bestowed on the black man automatically even though cacs are putting in maximum work on that front, both genders.
shyt, the teachers that get caught fukking students are cacwomen. Research will tell you a lot of the students were young black males.
That gets swept under the rug because it can't be monitized.

 

[Taadow]

Relatively speaking when it comes to 'physical' assault we are alot safer than most women are thats the point.

...and this is not completely true, if true at all.

Think about it, whos naturally better equipped to fend for them self during a physical assault you or the average woman?

That depends on many factors, such as: who has the weapon? lol
Like I said, there are many levels to "assault".


...but I tell you one thing - if me or "the average woman" are having any conflict (physical or otherwise),
she has Black Female Privilege on her side. She can:

- be the aggressor, and it be okay
- assault me with any object - from a knife to a boiling pot of hominy - and it be okay, because of my assumed "natural privilege"
- call the authorites on me and concoct any tale (true or not) and be believed over me


I Triple-Dog Dare anybody to say i'm wrong about that...

 

[Taadow]

Allow me to rephrase so you understand me.


YOUR postulation of "Black men have it worse."

Gotta stop you here, because that wasn't my postulation...

I didn't say anywhere that "Black men have it worse".

I was asking what in-born privileges Black men have,
and don't they also face gender oppression?

 

[Bawon Samedi]

I ALWAYS had it ever since joining mature topics(not video games) online that black women especially the radical feminist ones are basically like white men. Ask yall selves... Why do black women get SOOOOO angry if a black man dates out? Yet they dont get mad when a black women dates out? White men will kill a white women if she dates out. But if a white man dates out they are just

I've been on some crazy ass websites and I've SEEN with my own eyes these type of black women ally with racist whites! During that silly interracial Cheerio commercial you had BOTH racist white men and black women attacking it!

IMO Professor Black Truth elaborates my point better than me in the early parts of this video especially the part where he goes on about the black community being a matriarchal.

 

[Concerning VIolence]

im not the one who made any comment about BM privlege


but just thinking it over for myself
the things that i can think of is that

*** please note i believe these are male/female things and not bm/bw things

-men have strength/ physical privlege
men are not the "weaker" sex

-due to the advantage in physical stregnth men have an advantage in physical safety

-sexual privlege/safety , societal norms allow for men to be promiscuous
as well as live [ftmp] completely free of concern from sexual assault

-male work oldboy network type advantages, men are more likely to be hired
without regard to their physical attractiveness more so skill/ experience
for lack of better phrasing men are competitive in different ways with other men
than women are with other women [ie prevalence of cattiness ans jealousy amongst women]


now
please note that the stregnth/physical priv. can not only be a blessing for the BM
but also a curse because the physical/strength aspect works against BM in regards to the WM
and leads to police brutality and police murders of BM, the overall criminalization of the BM
in society

-advantage in physical safety? yes overall. men are men and will overall have an advantage over women
in physical safety

-sexual priv/safety - men being able to behave sexually in ways that women cant without fear of repurcussion
not a big deal to me but for some women it is, even if only for the opposition to the double standard


sexual safety? yes men can be raped and they are victims of sexual violence
however due to the strength/ physical advantage [that is very real] its not
a general fear/ concern of most men unlike with women its a near universal fear or concern.
*in the case of both BM and BW the oppressors have painted us in the very most hyper sexualized manner
[projecting their fears/ wishes upon us] so we are all less safe sexually [from abuse or arrest]

-work advantages- men are extremely less likely to be victims of sexual harrasment/ assault in the workplace
men are more likely to be in positions of power , men relate to one another differently than they relate to women
or than women to women. overall thats a male [not just BM] advantage
-male stereotypes of women - more emotional. not logical not strong in math etc.
-this is another area that can be both a blessing and a curse for BM since you can either be feared or respected for
perceived strength


now for me personally i believe these are some general MALE privileges and not BLACK MALE
privileges, and if anything BM dont get the benefit of male privilege in our society that other men do.
why a small sect of crazy BW buy into the notion that you do is likely the result of the abused seeking someone to
abuse as opposed to focusing that anger upon her abuser.

i do hope that as men you will take into account the very real fears and implications of lack of physical and sexual safety
its not a BM privilege but its definat a privilege of men overall


** nobody quote me with any crazy shyt either
just some thoughts that passed through my mind and i decided to respond/

especially dont quote me with any bullshyt about "but but women are free to, or women have this" type nonsense
Im not here for that.

Being "physically strong" is not a privilege.

Let me clarify_ men are safer from women than women are from men.
Men. Not specifically BM. Total men./total women

Men are more likely to be physically or sexually assaulted by other men.

Are BM safer overall? Of course not.

So what the fukk are you saying? So much pretending and veering away from the ultimate truth.

No we're not. Go look at the stats on victims of violent crime and there's no doubt that black men are at the top of the list. There are more black men killed in one major city like Chicago/Baltimore than black women are killed in all states combined. You are a lot more likely to be physically assaulted or killed as a black man than you would be as a black woman. You people have really been miseducated.

shyt is sad you have to actually point this out to people.

 

[Concerning VIolence]

is that during the event of a physical assault we have a natural advantage because of our strength, which is a fact.

Men are 100x more likely to be a vicitm of violence than women.

im on my phone so ill keep his short and sweet

PRIVELEDGE DISCUSSIONS ARE FOR fakkitS

Everybody's basis for privelege is something they lack that someone else has. Calling that lack "OPPRESSION" is melodramtic faggery

These discussions are ALWAYS fruitless and petty because there is no quanitfiying priveldge and everybody considers their lack the end all be all. women have the "privledge" of being a protected class and not being conscripted for war, men have "priveledge" of not being the typical rape victim. No group are willing to define their stuggles as trvial, if you need proof talk to the white people "suffering" from reverse racism.

not only is the pointless and iillogical but its also toxic as fukk.. instead of promoting strength, positivity or solutions what have we gotten from this? men and women in a pissing contest for who's got the most pathetic existance? rancid p*ssy feminists trying to guilt black men into....oh right theres no point to all this


PRIVLEDGE DISCUSSSIONS ARE FOR fakkitS

Only time I will ever agree with you.

 

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