Have Straight Black Men become the new face of White Guilt?

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Hey @Here4Lauryn :sas2:



Referring to black men as "nikkas", or "Bucks", or "you nikkas are psycho", or "you nikkas are just like Steve Stephens", or "nikkas ain't shyt", or "broke nikkas", or "fukk nikkas", is an element of colonialism. You didn't learn much from the "Wretched of The Earth, eh?

Smart dumb bytch . :martin:
 

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Exactly! You have a generation of Black women who have observed their mothers and grandmothers put the issues and concerns of Black men over their own, even to the point of suffering for Black men, while getting nothing in return. Where as a new generation of Black women seek not to be at the bottom of somebodies shoe, where as Black men prefer Black women to remain in that same position, of sacrificing for nothing.

We have seen our mothers and grandmothers be Black male identified, we no longer seek to be that.

We are tired of having to go into the world and defending our humanity to white people, and then having to turn around and defend our right to autonomy to Black men; based on our gender and levels of Blackness.
Yet you do that to black men who support black women and made sure black women rose too.

Calling them trash, ignoring the efforts they make to support black women, generalizing and giving racist whites who abuse us passes.

You claim to be against one gender abusing another yet you do the same thing
 
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I know me and others have said its silly to go to another country for the SOLE purpose of finding women and I still agree to that. However, these black feminist for no reason were getting :angry::angry::angry::angry::angry::angry: when black men were in Brazil dating Afro-Brazilians...

Their pedestal crumbles if men are going foreign.
Let one breh get a Brazilian or gambian woman, all his homies won't want some obnoxious American woman anymore once they hear what's shes like and see what she looks like.

THATS what's their afraid of. They know they aren't appealing but they have a monopoly, and no one likes losing their monopoly.
 

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Same shyt happened to my God-Sister who was legit like my own sister she came back from college and looked like a parody of what BF typically look like, i even tried to talk to her but her whole entire personality changed.
Needless to say i havent spoken to her in over a year and we use to speak damn near everyday.

Oh and she went to a 2 year college, so if that can happen in 2 years you can only imagine what happens when girls arw surrounded by this shyt their whole life.

She did come from a single parent household but shes mixed and her dad was Mexican.

So she has NO reason to hate Black Men, but logic isnt their strong suit.
same here we havent spoken in two years these bytches make me sick
 

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Normally this wouldn't upset me but these women will go on to raise some of the next generation of black men in the community. I find it perverse that you have women who will place the burden on their son to be the bread winner, due to their poor decision, whilst berating black in order to pressure them further and at the end of the day, what's the prize? He's the shiftless, no good sibling whilst the successful sister goes onto talk about how black women are tired of their men not doing anything.

Some lost soul a few pages back singing the familiar ''tired of watching our mothers and grandmothers'' tune. In a funny way, it is close to the heart of the matter. What she and others fail to recognise is that the stories are created by women looking to avoid responsibility for their decisions. The problem isn't black men, it is them picking bums. It is just easier to redefine poor decisions as an attempt at showing loyalty.
 

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The point is that men have a certain level of privilege via being men in a patriarchal society. There are a lot of things I don't have to deal with solely based on me being a man. Being a black woman means you're a double minority in this country.

I'm not gonna get into Olympics of Oppression shyt, like I said. I walk into a store, board room, job interview, etc and am judged as a black man. But it would be foolish to deny the fact that women deal with all types of discrimination, and when you're a minority woman it's worse than being say...a white woman for instance.
This is a stupid ass argument. It's incredibly simple minded and it makes no sense. ThIs isn't a patriarchal society it's a white patriarchal society. Black men have never ever been as privileged as white women and that fact alone completely contradicts what you've posted here. You've been purposely miseducated and you're not smart enough to see through it.
 

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Not black men.

I feel like I've argued this with somebody like you already...


You're too dumb to realize that BOTH black women and black men face GENDERED oppression.

You don't want to play oppression olympics but you insist black men have male privlege, and that females just have absoutely nothing going for them.


"There are a lot of things I don't have to deal with solely based on me being a man"

And there are thnigs that you DO deal with SOLELY because you're a black male.

Same goes for black women, everything vice versa.

Tired of this shyt. Put a bullet in your head if you want to get rid of black male privilege so much (that's if you're actually black).

Why are you so hostile lol. I just mentioned I go through certain things because I'm a black male. And yes, I'd argue black women don't go through some of the same things. They certainly aren't viewed as an automatic threat in the same way black men are. I walk into a CVS late at night and if I don't have my work clothes (suit/slacks/etc) on people are gonna look at me for an extra few seconds, as if they think I'm there to commit a crime. I live across the street from a bank and have had police stop in my drive way as I checked my mailbox.

Sense a pattern here? We both go through some shyt and there should be a level of empathy and SOLIDARITY here. Not just between black men and women, people in general man. I don't know what it's like to be a woman, or a gay person, or trans, or Muslim, etc. But I know what it's like to be judged and discriminated against. So when someone in an aggrieved group tells me they face some level of discrimination.....I believe them. When black women talk about being dismissed or sexually harassed or abused etc etc etc...by default I believe them. If a Muslim man tells me about walking into a store and dealing with stares or people thinking he's a terrorist...I believe him.

Solidarity and empathy are two of the biggest things missing in our society. You've got to be able to put yourself in someone's shoes and walk around. White people are oblivious to so much racial shyt. And I'd argue men are oblivious to a lot of gender shyt. And I'm not talking from a pedestal: I'm guilty too.
 
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I know me and others have said its silly to go to another country for the SOLE purpose of finding women and I still agree to that. However, these black feminist for no reason were getting :angry::angry::angry::angry::angry::angry: when black men were in Brazil dating Afro-Brazilians...
They want to control us funny they say we control them when Black Men cant even date light skin Black Women without these hoes tripping, thats yall problem not mine.
 

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Black men, when one of these Black womanist throws your "privilege" in your face, you must be knowledgable and willing to spit all of their "privilege" back at them. Next time they brag about "being the most educated group", having lower unemployment rates, lower incarceration rates, getting government aid, and living on average 15 years longer than us...all of those things are privileges that they enjoy as women under white patriarchy.

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At the core of it a lot of militant Black feminists are really outraged at not being accepted by whites, rather than outraged at how whites think they can and do treat Black people.:yeshrug:

They swirl because white approval is what they were after all along. I really wish people like this would just go after what they want without turning it into a social justice issue. Hurt feelings aren't political causes. At the root they are just the modern manifestation of c00ns with a gendered twist that came from LGBT philosophies.


Also what a lot of people are missing is that these women are not as harmless as yall are making them out to be they have a large presence in suburban upper middle class professional environments. They have a strong presence in HR departments due to having degrees in women's studies, oppression, discrimination, and other liberal arts shyt.

So companies have plenty of these types on board because the last thing they want to do is have a PR incident on their hands for being out of touch. This is the reason you see more gays and women in positions of power. if you a straight black man in the work place they going to make shyt hell for you.

source:Gay Black Men Get Higher Salaries Than Straight Ones

If they can get white boys fired from retweets and companies to change their tune from their fukkery you know the average nikka just trying to live his life don't stand a chance.:francis:
 
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