Have a kid but still want to **** other chicks

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I hope people are being sarcastic in here. You being a good father or not has a ton to do with the way you treat the mother of your child. If you want to fukk other people, break up with her. Thats unfortunate that y'all cant make it work but at least that's real. To stay with her and go around behind her back fukking anything you can shows no respect to her or the "family" you'll be pretending to have when you're together (which includes your child)

:rudy: @ the idea that a child is going to be cool with you sleeping around on their mother just because you were there and active in their lives. They'll resent the shyt out of you.
They need to stop teaching math and english in schools and teach classes that go in full detail about this. The consequences are massive if you get even your girlfriend pregnant, fukk 1+1= 2

you have one life to live, be a man and leave your girl if you don't want to be with her, who gives a damn what anyone says, nothing worse than wasting your life being a "good guy" when your heart is elsewhere

:ohlawd: this is me all the way, decisions decisions
 

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How come nobody linked me to this thread this morning when I made the exact same thread:ohhh:my baby mama gave me a window of oppurtunity to leave if I wuznt ready for the family thing....but I've come to the conclusion that I love my family too much to just give it up and not fight for it.....I owe it to her andmy kid to try to make it work and to be waaay more discreet about cheating...this past month or two I've been real flagrant and disrespectful....just tryna do too much and not bein careful,almost like I wuz tryna sabatoge my relationship to get out of it....I would say just cheat until u can get out of your system which hopefully will come soon....but u owe it to ya baby moms and kid to be discreet about it and not just be doin it all the time....ima do what my baby mama asked and just stay in the house with her this summer...I think summertime is the reason I'm feelin like this...so many women out her lookin good wearin nuthin:noah:...make ya family work bruh
 
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How come nobody linked me to this thread this morning when I made the exact same thread:ohhh:my baby mama gave me a window of oppurtunity to leave if I wuznt ready for the family thing....but I've come to the conclusion that I love my family too much to just give it up and not fight for it.....I owe it to her andmy kid to try to make it work and to be waaay more discreet about cheating...this past month or two I've been real flagrant and disrespectful....just tryna do too much and not bein careful,almost like I wuz tryna sabatoge my relationship to get out of it....I would say just cheat until u can get out of your system which hopefully will come soon....but u owe it to ya baby moms and kid to be discreet about it and not just be doin it all the time....ima do what my baby mama asked and just stay in the house with her this summer...I think summertime is the reason I'm feelin like this...so many women out her lookin good wearin nuthin:noah:...make ya family work bruh

:to: ill cry with you, breh
 
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Lol at thinking cheating is something you can get out of your system. You're gonna be stuck for life with this one woman. You cheat and its eventually gonna come out. She's gonna hate you. Your kid is gonna hate you. Break it off now while you still have the chance. Stay in your kids life and smash all the females you want during the times your baby mama is taking care of the kid.
 

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Lol at thinking cheating is something you can get out of your system. You're gonna be stuck for life with this one woman. You cheat and its eventually gonna come out. She's gonna hate you. Your kid is gonna hate you. Break it off now while you still have the chance. Stay in your kids life and smash all the females you want during the times your baby mama is taking care of the kid.

Of course it is...I don't cheat nearly as much as I did when I wuz younger....I would cheat just to cheat cuz a chick asked....I got to the point I don't cheat on my woman unless its with sumbody better looking and who got sense....I have standards for cheating now.....and I believe a mans sex drive does decress in a lot of us.....to where we can not go out looking to cheat just cuz we see a cute chick....with age well getto that point.....and of course u can not get caught...nikkas only get caught cuz we lie and then the woman we lie to feel the need to expose us...and thru phones of course...tell every women u mess with that u have a "situation" and u "talking to sumbody" and they can't say shyt if u fuk a few times and quit her....fuk and leave before they catch feelings,no side pieces....like I said out of respect u MUST be discreet u owe your family that much til u can give ya baby mama your all.
 
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what is more important? your kid seeing you everyday or having 5 minutes worth of sex? it isn't like your girl doesn't want to fukk other guys as well

I owe it to her andmy kid to try to make it work and to be waaay more discreet about cheating.

so what happens when you are being discreet and end up giving her hiv? you owe it to her and your kid not to cheat at all. you don't want to leave your kid an orphan because you didn't want to take a cold shower.

you could also give her herpes that can be passed down to a kid. some kids have died from it
 

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Typical American black women.... The skinny ones aint fukking with us either

Which leaves me no choice but to fukk white and Hispanic women :manny:

Us? nikka the fly ones ain't fukking with YOU!

Like I always said, you can tell the nikkas who gets no ass.
 
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what is more important? your kid seeing you everyday or having 5 minutes worth of sex? it isn't like your girl doesn't want to fukk other guys as well



so what happens when you are being discreet and end up giving her hiv? you owe it to her and your kid not to cheat at all. you don't want to leave your kid an orphan because you didn't want to take a cold shower.

you could also give her herpes that can be passed down to a kid. some kids have died from it

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what is more important? your kid seeing you everyday or having 5 minutes worth of sex? it isn't like your girl doesn't want to fukk other guys as well



so what happens when you are being discreet and end up giving her hiv? you owe it to her and your kid not to cheat at all. you don't want to leave your kid an orphan because you didn't want to take a cold shower.

you could also give her herpes that can be passed down to a kid. some kids have died from it


:childplease: if you don't get ya ol worse case scenario azz outta here:laff: but nah I guess u right, I didn't think that far ahead to what if we all die from my cheating....what if I leave and she get sum other random dude and then he cheats and he give her and my daughter hiv tho:ohhh:....I think they safer with sumbody that love em both.
 

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Ladies, this is why you should not have kids unless your married and have a stash of Plan B.

OP cut your losses and let the chips fall with child support. Seem like your no longer attracted to your BM and its evident you will be bringing headaches to the females you deceive with the depiction that you have no kids and your baby mama eventually finding out and acting a damn fool.
 

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My baby momma used to be hot and thick but stress, baby blues, fukkery with me, and easy access to Wendy's got her looking slightly Monique status...

TALK to your baby mama about her weight gain. Tell her that you're not as attracted as you were. Offer to pay for her gym membership or lipo or tummy tuck or vaginal rejuvenation or etc. She probably knows that she's a bit run down. She probably wants to get back in shape.

Also, ask her about opening up the relationship. She might wanna fukk other ppl too. Ya don't know until you ASK.
 

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What a dilemma :weirdo:



Got yo' chick knocked up, a seed was born but, you cant resist the urge to fukk other women.


What is a guy to do? :to:



you love your baby mama but she got fat and you want to be a good dad for your child (trying not to be a deadbeat) but now you got a chance to fukk a chick who look like this...






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plus, yall have so much more in common than you & and your babymama
just cause you fukked up and put your seed in her doesn't mean you gotta stay with her. if you're done with her break it off and be free.
 
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