You were being manipulated bruh. Ask yourself if he was a true deadbeat how would her bd even know about you? Have you ever been around a woman who lost all romantic interest. Lol its like talking to a store clerk. No emotion.
Dude, no diss, but her bd was/ probably still is hitting that. she played the victim (which is a power position for women) and made you feel like you were saving her. Your ego made u fall for it because you want to believe you're better in every way possible than this other guy.
Bruh... you're about as ignorant as it gets. And you don't have any clue what you're talking about. I hope you don't live your life in this mindset... but just so YOU know.
1st of all... He knew about me because I would drive with her to drop her daughter off ever other week. He didnt claim to have an issue until a year later when she got a new job in Georgia and moved. (I had already moved there a few months prior, but he actually had to driveless time now for visitation). And even before then they lived in two different cities because after she graduated from nursing school, she went back to her hometown.
2nd of all, nobody was hitting anything. Mind you that I was aware of most of the stuff he was doing before we ever started dating. This dude disappeared shortly after the child was born. While she was in nursing school he would flake out on watching the child to the point that she had to send her daughter back to her hometown while she finished up school... and of course he didnt care. He wasnt paying any child support or providing any other support. Then after almost 6 months of not hearing from him, he takes her to court asking for full custody claiming she was keeping him from seeing his child.... lol. The reality was that they scheduled some visitation, and he made a move on her and she wasn't having it. A few weeks later she got court papers in the mail...smh (once again, this was all before we started dating. We were good childhood friends so she told me as it happened).
Furthermore, we now live in GA and he lives in NC. He's still mad and bitter and doesnt pay all of his child support even though we agreed for him to pay the minimum just so we could stop racking up lawyer's fees. And if he tries something stupid we'll just take him to court for being in arrears. He's been racking it up for a few years now.