Harsh Realities For You Women: Men Are Not Going To Want You,Once You Have Another Man's Kids

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Most difficult thing is not even the responsibility. It's always being less than. In the eyes of the law, eyes of the mother and eyes of the children themselves they're not yours. I ain't trying to be uncle dad. Not being the head of the family really.
 
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realdarkphoenix said:
Yeah My boy is and example of this not being true, dude is simpin over a chick that is over 200 pounds with 3 kids. Not only is he giving her his money, taking care of the kids and dealing with the exe's that are still in her life. She doesn't even really claim him.

He's been shot down multiple times by this chick ( she wants a sugar daddy) and is doing all this in hopes that she doesn't leave him.


Why?

Your guess is as good as mine, the ultimate sucker. Me and others have told him over and over.... his response? "I can't help it"


Any decent man worth having aint gonna want to take care of someone else kids. One kid, sure...multiple kids....nah

Maybe once your in your late 30's or mid 40's... but before then. I can't see it.
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You're letting yo boy get stuck in a simp ass disrespectful relation with a #HOFH relationship and babysitting the kids?
nikka you better smack some sense into that nikka.
FIGHT HIM IF U HAVE TOO :damn:
 
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realdarkphoenix said:
Any decent man worth having aint gonna want to take care of someone else kids. One kid, sure...multiple kids....nah

Maybe once your in your late 30's or mid 40's... but before then. I can't see it.
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I'm a man in his mid 30s and I have a strict no single moms policy. I get turned off the moment a woman says she has any children.
 
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I understand shyt happens but dating single moms comes with a lot of baggage a lot of dudes really don't want to deal with myself included. :yeshrug:

-BRB, just had an argument because you feel your girl is texting her baby daddy too much. There are some girls who smash ther BD on the DL because they don't consider it "cheating" per se.
-BRB, the kid doesn't respect you because "YOU AREN'T MY REAL DADDY!:troll::mjpls:"
-BRB, the woman wants a serious relationship from the jump, you just can't "date" like in a normal relationship.
-BRB, having to explain to your folks that your girl already has a seed by another dude.
-BRB, having to deal with the issues from the previous relationship like abandonment, cheating, etc because the dude before you who knocked her up was a straight up fukkboi.
-BRB, have to pay for babysitters whenever you want to do anything with your girl.
-BRB, the girl is obviously going to put her child before you and the relationship making developing a relationship difficult. If she doesn't put her child before you then she's probably a shytty mom you shouldn't be dating first to begin with.
-BRB, having to see the baby daddy on a regular basis because he is a straight fukkboi but he still has custody rights.
-BRB, having to hear your girl complain to you because her baby daddy doesn't like/want to pay child support because he's a manchild.
-BRB, having to keep a good relationship with the kid ON TOP of trying to date the single mom.
-BRB, breakups are a pain in the ass because she will guilt trip you over the fact that she will have to go back to being an overworked single mother.

She would have to be pretty special for me to date her being a single mom but I personally wouldn't. Especially now that I am barely in my mid 20s and I have to worry about holding myself down and getting my shyt together. I'm trying to retire at 64 a millionaire with a house fully paid off and I have to worry about my savings accounts.
 
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Having a kid should be something you do with someone you know very well and love alot, and are prepared for.

How you gonna ask another man to walk into that?
 
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realdarkphoenix said:
Any decent man worth having aint gonna want to take care of someone else kids. One kid, sure...multiple kids....nah

Maybe once your in your late 30's or mid 40's... but before then. I can't see it.
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Breh I'm 37, and I'm still not dating women with kids. I can't see myself ever doing it.
 
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Dolla$ said:
You nikkas not living in real life, no situation is the same

I would prefer a chick with no kids, but if I meet someone I like that has kids I would have to assess the situation real closely

Like if the child's father is not in the picture due to death, then I won't hold it against her
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Depending on how he died, I would. If he died doing some criminal shyt, then it shows her lack judgment of by being with someone like that in the first place.
 
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